{"id":37959,"date":"2019-06-07T06:48:03","date_gmt":"2019-06-07T06:48:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37959"},"modified":"2022-08-16T07:46:35","modified_gmt":"2022-08-16T07:46:35","slug":"una-chica-soltera-para-siempre-no-es-facil-de-amar-pero-vale-la-pena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-chica-soltera-para-siempre-no-es-facil-de-amar-pero-vale-la-pena\/","title":{"rendered":"No es f\u00e1cil amar a una \"soltera para siempre\", pero merece la pena"},"content":{"rendered":"

No est\u00e1 acostumbrada a tener a alguien cerca. No est\u00e1 acostumbrada a gestos rom\u00e1nticos y abrazos c\u00e1lidos por la noche.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She\u2019s a chica acostumbrada a estar sola<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, don\u2019t force her to change. Don\u2019t force her to accept your love because necesita tiempo.<\/a> Tiempo y paciencia.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t get upset if she doesn\u2019t text you back or if she refuses to hug you when you\u2019re asking for it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t let it hurt your feelings. She will be like that\u2014quiet and distant on some days and loving on others.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She wants to commit to you and trust you, but she can\u2019t. <\/strong>No es culpa suya.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Realmente quiere dejarse llevar por esa hermosa sensaci\u00f3n que provoca el amor, pero siempre hay algo en el fondo de su mente que la molesta.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Siempre queda esa peque\u00f1a semilla de duda que no puede desechar. \u00bfY si la abandonas?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00bfY si te vas sin explicarle por qu\u00e9? \u00bfY si le rompes el coraz\u00f3n una vez m\u00e1s?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She can\u2019t do it anymore. She can\u2019t keep patching up her broken pieces. She cannot stitch her heart back once again. There is no place to stick the needle in anymore\u2014only scars are left. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Conoce la sensaci\u00f3n de abandono. Sabe lo que se siente cuando te dejan solo, cuando te abandonan sin una explicaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She knows what it feels like to try to find closure in a place where you can\u2019t have any.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She knows what it feels like to deal with it and move on. She has done it already, but she doesn\u2019t want to do it again.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

S\u00f3lo tiene fe en s\u00ed misma.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ver\u00e1s, ella tiene un sistema de defensa. Tiene gruesos muros tan altos que nada puede atravesarlos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

S\u00f3lo puedes pasar si ella te deja entrar. Y te dejar\u00e1 entrar si te lo mereces.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

After being on her own, isn\u2019t it logical that she would learn to live like that? Isn\u2019t it obvious she would try to get the best out of it?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And now that you are here, you\u2019ve messed up her plans. She prepared herself to live like that. She made her life easy to live.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ahora, ella tiene que cambiar todo eso. Ahora tiene que incluirte y empezar a planificar su vida desde el principio. Deja que lo haga paso a paso.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As\u00ed que, cada vez que pase a tu lado sin demostrar que le importas, d\u00e9jala. Cada vez que te aleje para evitar el contacto f\u00edsico contigo, d\u00e9jala.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She will know better\u2014soon. Let her find her way. She\u2019s scared. <\/strong>She has no idea what is happening to her, but to you, she looks like she doesn\u2019t care.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She looks cold and uninterested. But, I\u2019m telling you, she\u2019s not. She\u2019s used to being on her own\u2014she has been single forever.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"No<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Es la due\u00f1a de su vida. Nunca pidi\u00f3 ayuda a nadie porque nunca la necesit\u00f3.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When she needed something from the top shelf, she\u2019d take a chair and reach up to grab it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Now, she has you to call when she needs help, but she still doesn\u2019t get that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Escucha, ella ya ha hecho las paces consigo misma sobre encontrar el amor verdadero. Se ha dado cuenta de que es imposible, y ha lidiado con ello.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She has crossed that item off her life list\u2014it\u2019s gone. All of a sudden, you show up in her life, bringing back something she never thought was possible.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You show up, and you\u2019ve brought love back from the dead.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She has no idea what to do with that love. Can\u2019t you understand? She is not that scared of you leaving her. She has gotten used to that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She has been through that so she knows the drill. But what happens if you stay? What happens if that reborn love turns out to be \u2018it\u2019?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She\u2019s scared as hell of that love because she has no idea what to do with it nor where it will take her.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Do you know how she went all in when she decided she\u2019ll be forever single? I promise you, she\u2019ll go all in when she decides to be yours forever.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You aren\u2019t even aware of how much her love will mean to you. You have no idea how hard she\u2019s going to love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

S\u00f3lo hay que esperar un poco m\u00e1s y tener un poco m\u00e1s de paciencia.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Le encantar\u00e1 todo lo que hagas. Le encantar\u00e1 cada segundo que pase contigo. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Le encantar\u00e1 c\u00f3mo la besas antes de irte a trabajar y c\u00f3mo la besas antes de irse a dormir. Te querr\u00e1 todo, cada minuto de cada d\u00eda.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She will open her heart and let you in. She\u2019ll do something she was the most afraid of\u2014she\u2019ll fall in love once again.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t abuse that. Don\u2019t take advantage of someone like her. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"No<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

She\u2019s not used to having someone around. She\u2019s not used to romantic gestures and warm hugs in the evening. She\u2019s a girl who is used to being on her own. So, don\u2019t force her to change. Don\u2019t force her to accept your love because she needs time. Time and patience. Don\u2019t get upset if she…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":37961,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37959","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/allef-vinicius-398692-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37959","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37959"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37959\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/37961"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37959"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37959"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37959"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}