{"id":37964,"date":"2019-06-07T07:26:41","date_gmt":"2019-06-07T07:26:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37964"},"modified":"2022-01-13T00:50:12","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T00:50:12","slug":"10-cosas-que-olvide-agradecer-a-mi-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-cosas-que-olvide-agradecer-a-mi-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"10 cosas que olvid\u00e9 agradecer a mi ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando todo termin\u00f3, all\u00ed estaba yo pensando que mi vida se desmoronaba. Sollozaba en mi habitaci\u00f3n pensando que pasar\u00eda el resto de mi vida solo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I\u2019ve already pictured myself as the crazy cat lady \u2013 you know, the one from the Simpsons.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That\u2019s what I do every time something bad happens to me. I mourn, but I do it in a humoristic way. I guess my whole life is kind of a satire.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Well, anyway\u2026<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Todos pasamos por lo mismo cuando alguien nos rompe el coraz\u00f3n. Todos tenemos los mismos problemas y las mismas preguntas. \u00bfPero sabes qu\u00e9?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Llegu\u00e9 a una brillante conclusi\u00f3n. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I knew I couldn\u2019t stop my heart from aching. I knew I couldn\u2019t convince my mind to stop thinking about him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tuve que pasar por eso de alguna manera. Ten\u00eda que superar ese periodo. Si eso significaba que ten\u00eda que usar todo lo que ten\u00eda, lo har\u00eda.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I was so anxious to get out of it, but knew I couldn\u2019t skip steps. You all know that. You have to let things run their course and wait for the agony to be over.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But here\u2019s the thing I\u2019ve realized\u2026<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

There are so many things my ex did to me that served as a lesson. There are so many things that I actually have to thank him for\u2026.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Por discutir conmigo <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Me ense\u00f1\u00f3 a defenderme. Me dio la formaci\u00f3n adecuada cuando se trata de peleas verbales.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I was always ready to begin another screaming match \u2013 I was always prepared.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I learned how to speak my mind when someone constantly attacks me. That didn\u2019t mess up with my head.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I mean, it did at the beginning, but I\u2019ve learned to handle it over time. Now, nothing can affect me. I will always say exactly what I want.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Por hacerme mejor para mi pr\u00f3xima relaci\u00f3n<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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I know where I did wrong. I get it now when it\u2019s all over and I\u2019m not planning on making the same mistakes again.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Puedo reconocer las situaciones en las que comet\u00ed un error y ahora s\u00e9 exactamente qu\u00e9 hacer si vuelve a ocurrir algo parecido.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Despu\u00e9s de la relaci\u00f3n que me rompi\u00f3, s\u00e9 qu\u00e9 tipo de persona quiero ser y I\u2019m working on becoming that person<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Por mostrarme hasta d\u00f3nde puedo llegar<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Now I know I\u2019m stronger than ever. Now I know no one could wipe me out that easily because I have the strength to handle almost everything.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When I begin dating again, I\u2019ll know where to draw the line and when to say enough. That was something I didn\u2019t know how to do when I was with him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Por ayudarme a aprender lo que quiero en una relaci\u00f3n<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Pasaron cosas malas, pero tambi\u00e9n hubo cosas buenas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sadly, those bad ones outnumbered the good, leaving them in the shadows \u2013 unnoticed and forgotten.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When you break up with someone, you\u2019re bitter, hurt, and sad.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lo \u00fanico que recuerdas son los malos momentos, momentos que arruinaron lo que ten\u00edais juntos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pero cuando pasas esa fase de odiarle, recuerdas que no todo fue tan terrible.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Entonces, recuerdas las cosas que disfrutaste, las que te hicieron sonre\u00edr y feliz.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Okay, you see, I want that. I\u2019ve seen it and I recognize it. I want my next relationship to be like that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Todo lo que sea menos de lo que quiero, lo dejar\u00e9.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Por hacer que me pregunte qu\u00e9 significa amar a alguien <\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Siempre buscaba el amor en los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Le miraba e intentaba aprender lo que es el amor a trav\u00e9s de su comportamiento y sus acciones. Bueno.., S\u00e9 lo que no es el amor<\/a> observ\u00e1ndolo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quiero darle las gracias por hacerme ver que el amor es lo que yo quiera que sea.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quiero darle las gracias por obligarme, en cierto modo, a comprender que el amor s\u00f3lo puede encontrarse dentro de uno mismo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s how YOU act and what YOU do, not someone else.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. For making me learn how I don\u2019t want to be treated<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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I think that every one of you wanted something \u2013 or better said, someone \u2013 so bad it hurt.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Puede que incluso cada uno de nosotros supiera que la persona que anhelamos no nos conviene, pero la deseamos de todos modos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Well, my guy was mysteriously intriguing. I couldn’t resist him. I needed to unveil his secret to find out what is hiding behind that mystic exterior.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I found out, okay. I did\u2026 I didn\u2019t like it. I found out that is not how I want to be treated. Lesson learned, let\u2019s move on\u2026<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Por ense\u00f1arme a dejar ir a la persona que nunca deb\u00ed ser<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Cada noche, me dejaba recogiendo los pedazos rotos de mi coraz\u00f3n. Cada vez, me dejaba sola, intentando pegar de nuevo mi coraz\u00f3n como si fuera un cristal hecho a\u00f1icos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Each time he proved to me that I\u2019m not the person he wants me to be. Heck, I\u2019m not even the person I want to be.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quiero darle las gracias por darme el valor de abandonarle e intentar descubrir qui\u00e9n soy realmente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I think I know that now. If not, at least I think I\u2019m on a good path to finding out.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. Por ayudarme a crecer como persona<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Cada relaci\u00f3n te cambia. Creces como persona: creces f\u00edsicamente y, lo que es m\u00e1s importante, creces emocionalmente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You don\u2019t have to wait to end the relationship to realize you\u2019ve changed. You can realize it while you\u2019re still in it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

9. Por dejarme y darme la oportunidad de encontrar a alguien mejor<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Le agradezco mucho que haya puesto fin a mi agon\u00eda. Est\u00e1 claro que no est\u00e1bamos hechos el uno para el otro.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Maybe he isn\u2019t even that bad, but in combination with me, he was intolerable.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tal vez haya alguien por ah\u00ed que sepa c\u00f3mo manejarlo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I guess what I\u2019m trying to say is I\u2019m thankful for getting another chance to find the right person for me.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

10. Por ense\u00f1arme a querer a alguien en su peor momento<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Incluso en nuestras mayores crisis, nunca dej\u00e9 de quererle.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Incluso cuando grit\u00f3 tantas palabras duras e insultantes, nunca dej\u00e9 de quererle.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sab\u00eda que una buena persona, una persona de la que me enamor\u00e9, yace en alg\u00fan lugar dentro de \u00e9l.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Esperaba que esa persona saliera a cada minuto, por eso le quer\u00eda. Segu\u00ed queri\u00e9ndole a pesar de todo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Although we never made it, I\u2019m happy I met him because of so many things he taught me.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Claro, el precio era alto, pero el conocimiento no tiene precio.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 tienes que agradecer a tu ex?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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When it was all over, there I was thinking my life is falling apart. I was sobbing in my room thinking l will spend the rest of my life alone. I\u2019ve already pictured myself as the crazy cat lady \u2013 you know, the one from the Simpsons. That\u2019s what I do every time something bad…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":37975,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37964","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_1013526370.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37964","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37964"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37964\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/37975"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37964"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37964"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37964"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}