{"id":38173,"date":"2024-10-23T16:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-10-23T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38173"},"modified":"2025-06-26T10:26:38","modified_gmt":"2025-06-26T08:26:38","slug":"7-cosas-que-deberian-pasar-antes-de-comprometerte-con-un-chico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-cosas-que-deberian-pasar-antes-de-comprometerte-con-un-chico\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cosas que deber\u00edan ocurrir antes de comprometerte con un chico"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando alguien nos gusta, nuestro cerebro autom\u00e1ticamente pone en pausa el bot\u00f3n de la raz\u00f3n, y todo lo que podemos ver y pensar es en pasar el mayor tiempo posible con esa persona.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t wait to officially become a couple and nourish your commitment, but is it really wise to enter a relationship just yet?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You see, there are some things that should happen before you commit to a guy, and if you don\u2019t pay attention to them, you might be at risk of entering a relationship that is doomed to fail from the start.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes your brain simply can\u2019t see things clearly because you\u2019re head over heels for that guy, and that is why you should stop for a moment and think about the following 7 things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If the majority of them haven\u2019t happened yet, you should definitely think twice about your current dating situation and your decision to commit to him!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Conoce a los amigos<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\u00bfHa conocido a tus amigos y t\u00fa a los suyos?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Before committing to a guy, you should always make sure that you\u2019ve introduced him to your friends, and more importantly, that you\u2019ve met his friends as well. Why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because if he\u2019s unwilling to introduce you to his friends, this could be a huge red flag because there is probably some (shitty) reason behind it, and you definitely don\u2019t want to commit to such a person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re going to be his girlfriend, you want to make sure that he will treat you like one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Ser \u00edntimo<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Some people don\u2019t really like the idea of sleeping with their partner while dating because they prefer doing it while they are in a serious, committed relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But, if you don\u2019t do it in time, how will you know that you\u2019re compatible with him and that there is true chemistry between the two of you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is always wise to \u2018do the deed\u2019 before you enter a relationship (of course, if you\u2019re feeling comfortable with that) because once you\u2019re too deep (in a committed relationship), it is really fucked up to realize that there\u2019s not a single trace of chemistry and passion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s better to know it in time so that you can react accordingly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Comunicarse abiertamente<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"feliz<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n
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Ya sabe lo que dicen: La comunicaci\u00f3n abierta es la clave del \u00e9xito de toda relaci\u00f3n<\/a>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfHas tenido alguna vez una conversaci\u00f3n significativa con tu chico, y hab\u00e9is hablado abiertamente de diferentes cosas de la vida que realmente importan?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re not able to communicate openly, there will be no healthy base to your future relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuanto m\u00e1s tiempo pas\u00e9is juntos, m\u00e1s conflictos surgir\u00e1n, y es de enorme importancia que sep\u00e1is resolverlos de forma saludable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quieres asegurarte de que siempre puedes decirle a tu pareja lo que realmente quieres decir sin que se sienta insultada con tanta facilidad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

El compromiso y la franqueza son la mejor receta para una relaci\u00f3n feliz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Piensa por qu\u00e9 quieres comprometerte<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Antes de comprometerte con un chico, es aconsejable que pienses primero por qu\u00e9 quieres comprometerte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do you want to do it because you can\u2019t get over your ex or because others are forcing you to meet someone and abandon your label of being \u2018single forever\u2019?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfO quieres comprometerte porque eres realmente feliz con \u00e9l y te parece algo natural?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuando conozcas la respuesta a esa pregunta, sabr\u00e1s si realmente debes entablar una relaci\u00f3n con \u00e9l o si debes esperar alg\u00fan tiempo para procesar tus sentimientos y dudas. (Y m\u00e1s tarde te dar\u00e1s las gracias por haber decidido no precipitarte).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Aseg\u00farese de que conf\u00eda en \u00e9l<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Si no hay confianza en una relaci\u00f3n, no habr\u00e1 respeto ni armon\u00eda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You should never enter into a relationship if you feel like you don\u2019t trust him one hundred percent because if you don\u2019t, it means there are some things that he should work on in order to win your trust in full.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Especially if you know that he wears the label of being a cheater in past relationships, you shouldn\u2019t think twice about taking some time before you empieza a confiar en \u00e9l<\/a> con todo tu cuerpo y alma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quieres asegurarte de que no tendr\u00e1s que darle vueltas a todo y pelearte por cosas est\u00fapidas s\u00f3lo porque sospechas de sus palabras y acciones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Discutir el enga\u00f1o<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Probablemente te preguntes por qu\u00e9 deber\u00edas hablar de enga\u00f1os, porque no hay nada que discutir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hacer trampas es hacer trampas, y su definici\u00f3n seguir\u00e1 siendo la misma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pero, \u00bfy si le digo que no todas las personas perciben el enga\u00f1o de la misma manera que usted o yo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para algunas personas, dar un beso a alguien no se considera infidelidad, mientras que para otras, simplemente enviar mensajes de texto a desconocidos es un acto de traici\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In order to skip these misunderstandings, it is wise to establish the \u2018cheating boundaries\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once you do it, you will not have to fear that he will fuck up things that easily (unless he\u2019s really determined to do so).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Aseg\u00farate de que te hacen mejor persona<\/h2>\n\n\n
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\"hombre<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n
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\u00bfTe sientes realmente feliz cuando est\u00e1s con \u00e9l y te hace querer ser mejor persona?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Las relaciones consisten en apoyarse mutuamente e inspirarse para conseguir cosas y convertirse en la mejor versi\u00f3n de uno mismo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If he\u2019s not capable of making you a better person, you should think twice before committing to him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t want to waste your time on someone who will be a bad influence on you and who will not be willing to work on himself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That is why you should first make sure that he\u2019s making an effort to work on himself and inspires you to do the same!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 8 microesfuerzos que deber\u00eda poner en tu relaci\u00f3n si es el elegido<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n

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