{"id":38386,"date":"2020-06-14T07:11:50","date_gmt":"2020-06-14T07:11:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38386"},"modified":"2022-01-12T22:29:42","modified_gmt":"2022-01-12T22:29:42","slug":"si-no-puedes-hablar-con-el-de-estas-5-cosas-tu-relacion-no-tiene-futuro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-no-puedes-hablar-con-el-de-estas-5-cosas-tu-relacion-no-tiene-futuro\/","title":{"rendered":"Si no puedes hablar con \u00e9l de estas 5 cosas, tu relaci\u00f3n no tiene futuro"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Una asociaci\u00f3n sana nunca puede existir sin una buena <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/10-communication-skills-that-are-crucial-in-a-relationship\/\">habilidades comunicativas<\/a> entre las personas implicadas en ella.<\/p>\n<p>However, many couples don\u2019t know that and try building their relationships without discussing some important matters in time.<\/p>\n<p>The harsh truth is that if you feel like you can\u2019t talk about some topics with your significant other, your relationship isn\u2019t as serious as you might see it, and it\u2019s time you reconsider its future. Here are 5 of these topics.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Tu pasado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98559\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-woman-talking-to-man-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mujer seria hablando con hombre al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-woman-talking-to-man-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-woman-talking-to-man-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-woman-talking-to-man-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-woman-talking-to-man-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-woman-talking-to-man-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Remember one thing\u2014you\u2019re not obligated to tell your partner details about your romantic history and other things regarding your past.<\/p>\n<p>Aunque ahora formes parte de una pareja, sigues teniendo derecho a guardar algunas cosas para ti y a tener tu intimidad (y esto es especialmente cierto al principio de una relaci\u00f3n).<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, despu\u00e9s de un tiempo, deber\u00edas sentir el impulso de compartir algunas cosas de tu pasado con tu novio, sin que \u00e9l te obligue a hacerlo.<\/p>\n<p>You should be able to talk to him about the things which led you to this day, about events and people which helped you become the woman you\u2019re today, and about some things from your past that might still bother or impact you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Su futuro juntos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98560\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-drinking-coffee-in-the-kitchen-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"pareja seria tomando caf\u00e9 en la cocina y hablando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-drinking-coffee-in-the-kitchen-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-drinking-coffee-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-drinking-coffee-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-drinking-coffee-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-drinking-coffee-in-the-kitchen-and-talking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>La verdad es que vivir el momento presente es lo mejor que puedes hacer por ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p>However, when you\u2019re in a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-things-mean-youre-serious-relationship-love-like-crazy\/\">relaci\u00f3n seria<\/a>Tambi\u00e9n tienes que pensar en tu futuro.<\/p>\n<p>No matter how great your relationship might be going right now, if you and your boyfriend don\u2019t have similar life goals and plans about the future, your relationship is probably doomed to fail.<\/p>\n<p>Es natural que los dos no quer\u00e1is exactamente lo mismo, pero es importante encontrar un punto medio.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be honest\u2014it would be impossible, for example, to have a happy life with someone who doesn\u2019t want children if your dream is to have a big family.<\/p>\n<p>Precisamente por eso tienes que ser capaz de hablar con tu pareja de estas cosas a tiempo, antes de que sea demasiado tarde para cambiar nada.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sus finanzas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98561\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-arguing-about-the-finance.jpg\" alt=\"pareja discutiendo sobre las finanzas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-arguing-about-the-finance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-arguing-about-the-finance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-arguing-about-the-finance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-arguing-about-the-finance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-arguing-about-the-finance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Cuando empiezas una relaci\u00f3n, tus finanzas son s\u00f3lo asunto tuyo.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you and your new boyfriend split your expenses equally or you don\u2019t worry about who paid more.<\/p>\n<p>En cualquier caso, es probable que el dinero no sea una de sus principales preocupaciones al principio de la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, todo esto cambia cuando tu relaci\u00f3n pasa a otro nivel y, sobre todo, cuando t\u00fa y tu pareja empez\u00e1is a plantearos iros a vivir juntos.<\/p>\n<p>Al fin y al cabo, ahora todo su dinero pasa a formar parte de un mismo presupuesto, y es importante que sus h\u00e1bitos de consumo sean algo de lo que no tenga problemas en hablar.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tus fantas\u00edas sexuales m\u00e1s salvajes<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98562\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/young-woman-whispering-on-man-ear.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven susurrando al o\u00eddo del hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/young-woman-whispering-on-man-ear.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/young-woman-whispering-on-man-ear-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/young-woman-whispering-on-man-ear-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/young-woman-whispering-on-man-ear-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/young-woman-whispering-on-man-ear-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>Many experts claim that there doesn\u2019t exist such a thing as being good or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-senales-de-que-el-infierno-es-malo-en-la-cama\/\">malo en la cama<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>There only exist people who are compatible and who get along under the sheets&#8230;or don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>El mejor camino hacia una vida sexual sana es, sin duda, la comunicaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fa y tu novio deber\u00edais estar lo suficientemente relajados como para compartir vuestras m\u00e1s profundas y salvajes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/las-10-fantasias-sexuales-que-tienen-todos-los-hombres\/\">fantas\u00edas sexuales<\/a> unos con otros.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerda que no hay lugar para el pudor y la verg\u00fcenza entre dos personas enamoradas.<\/p>\n<p>This is someone you have chosen to plan your life with, and if you can\u2019t talk to him about this important topic, maybe it\u2019s time to rethink your relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">The things you don\u2019t like about each other<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98563\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-sitting-on-the-floor-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"pareja seria sentada en el suelo y hablando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-sitting-on-the-floor-and-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-sitting-on-the-floor-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-sitting-on-the-floor-and-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-sitting-on-the-floor-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/serious-couple-sitting-on-the-floor-and-talking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p>No matter how madly in love you might be with your significant other, there always exist some parts of his personality that annoy you and which you\u2019d like to change.<\/p>\n<p>And the same goes the other way around, as well\u2014you two accept each other, but it doesn\u2019t mean you like literally everything about one another.<\/p>\n<p>Este es precisamente uno de los temas de los que deber\u00edas poder hablar con tu novio, sin que necesariamente desemboque en una discusi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Sois dos adultos que deber\u00edais saber sentaros a hablar de vuestras insatisfacciones en vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Si no es as\u00ed, a la larga tendr\u00e9is problemas y probablemente vuestra relaci\u00f3n no tenga futuro.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98558\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/If-You-Cant-Talk-To-Him-About-These-5-Things-Your-Relationship-Has-No-Future-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Si no puedes hablar con \u00e9l de estas 5 cosas, tu relaci\u00f3n no tiene futuro\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/If-You-Cant-Talk-To-Him-About-These-5-Things-Your-Relationship-Has-No-Future-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/If-You-Cant-Talk-To-Him-About-These-5-Things-Your-Relationship-Has-No-Future-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/If-You-Cant-Talk-To-Him-About-These-5-Things-Your-Relationship-Has-No-Future-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A healthy partnership can never exist without good communication skills between the people involved in it. However, many couples don\u2019t know that and try building their relationships without discussing some important matters in time. The harsh truth is that if you feel like you can\u2019t talk about some topics with your significant other, your relationship&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":98564,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38386","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/If-You-Cant-Talk-To-Him-About-These-5-Things-Your-Relationship-Has-No-Future.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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