Intentaba convencerme de que me quer\u00edas y de que yo te importaba.<\/p>\n
A medida que pasaba el tiempo, me iba curando sin darme cuenta.<\/p>\n
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What I couldn\u2019t understand that healing isn\u2019t linear and that each day I got through alive was actually progress, even if some were worse than others.<\/p>\n
Sin embargo, un d\u00eda me sorprend\u00ed a m\u00ed misma siendo capaz de pensar en ti y en nuestra relaci\u00f3n sin sentir como si tuviera un cuchillo clavado en el est\u00f3mago. <\/strong><\/p>\n Me sorprend\u00ed a m\u00ed mismo vi\u00e9ndote como nada m\u00e1s que un ser humano con todos tus defectos. <\/strong><\/p>\n Just like that, you stopped being this almost mythical creature who had so much power over me and, for the first time ever, I saw you for who you\u2019ve really been all along \u2013 an immature boy who tried projecting his insecurities on me.<\/strong><\/p>\n One night, while I was alone with my thoughts, I figured something out: for the first time ever, I wasn\u2019t feeling an overwhelming sadness for not having you.<\/p>\n I\u2019ve stopped romanticizing everything you and I had and it hit me \u2013 I was actually way better off without you.<\/p>\n It turned out that you leaving me wasn\u2019t the worst thing that ever happened to me, after all. In fact it was probably the best one so far.<\/strong><\/p>\n Por lo tanto, en lugar de consumirme por la ira y el resentimiento, en realidad deber\u00eda gracias<\/a>.<\/p>\n En lugar de guardarte rencor, en realidad deber\u00eda estarte agradecido, porque sin que ninguno de los dos fu\u00e9ramos conscientes de ello, me hiciste un favor.<\/p>\n Sin tener la intenci\u00f3n de hacerlo, cuando me dejaste, me salvaste de mucha miseria. <\/strong><\/p>\n Me salv\u00f3 de pasar el resto de mi vida como tu v\u00edctima y permitir que me da\u00f1aras sin remedio.<\/strong><\/p>\n First and foremost, I\u2019m done wasting years of my life waiting for you to get your shit together.<\/p>\n I\u2019m done waiting around for you to come to your senses and finally realize that you never treated me how I deserved.<\/p>\n I\u2019m done sitting around waiting for you to stop seeing me as a second choice.<\/p>\n Dejar de ser menos importante que tu trabajo, tus amigos, tus aficiones y, literalmente, todo.<\/p>\n Me cans\u00e9 de pasarme d\u00edas y noches mirando el tel\u00e9fono, esperando a que me devolvieras las llamadas.<\/p>\n Harto de dar innumerables oportunidades y esperando que esta vez sea la \u00faltima.<\/p>\n Now that I\u2019ve lost you, I have all this time on my hands for the most important person in the world: ME.<\/strong><\/p>\n En lugar de esforzarme tanto en intentar arreglarte, ahora tengo la oportunidad de trabajar en m\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\n En lugar de intentar reparar tu coraz\u00f3n roto, ahora tengo la oportunidad de trabajar por mi cuenta.<\/p>\n As\u00ed que, s\u00ed, I\u2019m way better off without you<\/a> because finally, I don\u2019t have to beg to be put on someone\u2019s priority list.<\/p>\n Because now that I don\u2019t have you, I can put myself first.<\/p>\n![\"retrato](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/portrait-of-an-attractive-serious-brunette.jpg\")
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