{"id":38401,"date":"2019-06-14T08:50:51","date_gmt":"2019-06-14T08:50:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38401"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:26:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:26:32","slug":"a-la-chica-que-tiene-que-ignorar-lo-que-quiere-y-recordar-lo-que-se-merece","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-la-chica-que-tiene-que-ignorar-lo-que-quiere-y-recordar-lo-que-se-merece\/","title":{"rendered":"A la chica que tiene que ignorar lo que quiere y recordar lo que se merece"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfAlguna vez te has sentido dividido entre tu coraz\u00f3n y tu raz\u00f3n? \u00bfEntre tus deseos y tus necesidades? <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00bfEntre querer algo que est\u00e1 mal para ti y saber lo que est\u00e1 bien pero no tener el valor de ir a por ello?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Bueno, s\u00e9 que a m\u00ed me ha pasado. Durante mucho tiempo, tom\u00e9 la mayor\u00eda de las decisiones de mi vida bas\u00e1ndome exclusivamente en lo que quer\u00eda.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Me consideraba una chica espont\u00e1nea que siempre se dejaba llevar por el momento. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Una chica que sab\u00eda dejarse llevar y que sab\u00eda disfrutar del presente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And to be honest, I was proud of myself for being like that. Proud of the fact that I\u2019d managed to remain the same girl who didn\u2019t have the need to calculate her moves. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Orgullosa de ser una chica que sigui\u00f3 a su coraz\u00f3n, la llevara donde la llevara.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sobre todo en el caso del amor. Desde que tengo memoria, el \u00fanico criterio para estar con un chico eran mis emociones.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Cuando amaba a un hombre lo suficiente, estaba m\u00e1s que dispuesta a perdonarle cualquier cosa. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Estaba dispuesta a olvidar sus defectos e incluso la forma en que me trataba, con tal de tener la certeza de que era \u00e9l a quien quer\u00eda a mi lado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"A<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sin embargo, tras a\u00f1os de vivir as\u00ed y tras m\u00e1s de un desenga\u00f1o amoroso, Me di cuenta de que escuchar a mi coraz\u00f3n me produc\u00eda m\u00e1s dolor del que estaba dispuesta a admitir. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Me trajo m\u00e1s decepciones y traumas emocionales de los que podr\u00eda contar y a menudo me hizo aceptar mucho menos de lo que merec\u00eda.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Me di cuenta de que hab\u00eda llegado el momento de madurar y de empezar a tener en cuenta tambi\u00e9n lo que me dec\u00eda mi raz\u00f3n. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And that is exactly what I\u2019m advising you to do.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not telling you to disregard the wishes of your heart completely. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I\u2019m not telling you to start acting cold or heartless, without ever including your emotions in your decisions.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014it would be easier to always do what you WANT to do, without having to think about the consequences, if the things and the people we want are always the things and the people who are good for us. However, life isn\u2019t like that, is it? <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, now it\u2019s time to be a big girl who knows when it\u2019s time to put her wishes aside. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A big girl who knows that choosing what\u2019s best for her is going after what she deserves.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"A<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Esto ocurre especialmente con el amor rom\u00e1ntico. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No matter how crazy you might be for a guy, you can\u2019t go after him if you know very well that he isn\u2019t right for you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No matter how much love you still have for your ex, you can\u2019t volver a \u00e9l<\/a>, knowing that he\u2019ll keep on breaking your heart and being aware that you guys have no future together. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Despite your emotions and wants, you can\u2019t make the mistake of your life, knowing that following your desires would be the worst choice of your life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You can\u2019t be with someone who doesn\u2019t respect you, despite all the butterflies you might feel by his side. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You can\u2019t stay next to your abuser, despite wanting him to change and hoping that he will.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As\u00ed que, por favor, por una vez, olv\u00eddate de lo que quieres y recuerda lo que te mereces. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Remember that you deserve more than a man\u2019s half-assed love, more than someone not seeing your worth, more than being played with\u2026 You deserve to be happy.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re the only one who can make yourself happy. The only one who has the power in her own hands to make her life worth living.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re the one who has to make a decision right now: will you continue being an immature girl who doesn\u2019t have the strength to fight with her heart, knowing it\u2019s the right thing to do? <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00bfO por fin madurar\u00e1s, te convertir\u00e1s en un chica dura<\/a> and start doing what\u2019s best for you?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014distancing yourself from what you want and going after what you deserve is anything but easy. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se necesita mucha fuerza de voluntad y fuerza interior para dejar de conformarse con menos, pero es algo que hay que hacer tarde o temprano. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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