{"id":38425,"date":"2019-06-14T12:20:48","date_gmt":"2019-06-14T12:20:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38425"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:18:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:18:24","slug":"4-senales-de-que-sufre-un-trastorno-limite-de-la-personalidad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-senales-de-que-sufre-un-trastorno-limite-de-la-personalidad\/","title":{"rendered":"4 se\u00f1ales de que sufre un trastorno l\u00edmite de la personalidad"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfAlguna vez has salido con alguien que te elevaba tan alto que cre\u00edas que pod\u00edas volar, s\u00f3lo para que \u00e9l te cortara las alas y te llevara a tus m\u00ednimos m\u00e1s bajos despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00bfHa tenido emociones tan extremas que has sentido que hay dos lados completamente diferentes en \u00e9l? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, that\u2019s just a small part of dating someone with borderline personality disorder, better known as BPD.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>\u00bfQu\u00e9 es exactamente la BDP?<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se trata de un trastorno mental que afecta a la forma en que la persona se percibe a s\u00ed misma y a los dem\u00e1s, lo que esencialmente la incapacita para desenvolverse adecuadamente en la vida cotidiana. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se caracteriza principalmente por: <\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relaciones intensas e inestables;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">imagen distorsionada de s\u00ed mismo; <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">emociones extremas; <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">impulsividad.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">El TLP afecta a la forma en que una persona se siente consigo misma, a sus relaciones con los dem\u00e1s y a su comportamiento en general. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>S\u00edntomas de BDP que podr\u00eda reconocer en su pareja:<\/b><\/p>\n<h2>1.\u00a0 Extreme mood swings<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-38438\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_717350314.jpg\" alt=\"Si hace estas 20 cosas t\u00f3xicas, es un narcisista encubierto \" width=\"800\" height=\"543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_717350314.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_717350314-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_717350314-768x521.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Un d\u00eda est\u00e1 encantado y al siguiente deprimido, irritado o enfadado. En un momento eres la luz de su vida y al siguiente la \u00fanica causa de todos sus problemas. \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s not just about you all the time; the world has conspired against him, nobody loves him, and all of his friends are not really his friends, etc. until the next day or week when everything is great again and he is loved and appreciated by everyone. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Su imagen de s\u00ed mismo y su visi\u00f3n del mundo, de vuestra relaci\u00f3n y de otras personas de su vida cambian por momentos.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. 2. Comportamiento excesivo<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-38138\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/adult-cell-cellphone-263593.jpg\" alt=\"160 Emotivas Citas de Te Extra\u00f1o para \u00c9l y Ella\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/adult-cell-cellphone-263593.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/adult-cell-cellphone-263593-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/adult-cell-cellphone-263593-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>Acompa\u00f1ado de los mencionados cambios de humor, otro indicador del TLP es la impulsividad. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Preg\u00fantese si su pareja tiene la costumbre de hacer cosas repentinas e inesperadas. \u00bfDesaparece del mapa durante d\u00edas y luego vuelve con alguna excusa poco convincente? \u00bfEst\u00e1 seguro de s\u00ed mismo un d\u00eda y al otro habla de que ha perdido su prop\u00f3sito en la vida? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If he doesn\u2019t get help in time and recognize that he has a problem, he might engage in a number of destructive behaviors, from gambling away his or your money, to adultery, to substance abuse and similar or worse things.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>3. Cuestiones de abandono<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-38440\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/andrew-neel-137513-unsplash.jpg\" alt=\"Si hace estas 20 cosas t\u00f3xicas, es un narcisista encubierto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/andrew-neel-137513-unsplash.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/andrew-neel-137513-unsplash-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/andrew-neel-137513-unsplash-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>He hates when you don\u2019t pick up right away when he calls. He calls if you don\u2019t text him back immediately. He demands an explanation of your whereabouts when you are running late. He feels hurt and abandoned. You are making him waste his time and his nerves. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si alguna de estas frases le suena, est\u00e1 tratando con alguien que claramente tiene <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/6-consejos-fecha-alguien-problemas-de-abandono\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">problemas de abandono<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and it\u2019s one more surefire symptom of BPD. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2>4. Llegar a extremos<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-38441\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/andrew-neel-137513-unsplash-1.jpg\" alt=\"Si hace estas 20 cosas t\u00f3xicas, es un narcisista encubierto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/andrew-neel-137513-unsplash-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/andrew-neel-137513-unsplash-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/andrew-neel-137513-unsplash-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>With him, everything is black or white; there are no gray areas. When you do something nice for him, you are the greatest there is. When you do something that\u2019s in his opinion wrong, you are worst of them all. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le falta equilibrio en su comportamiento y pasa de un extremo a otro. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seg\u00fan Roger Melton, M.A. <\/span><b>hay tres fases de la relaci\u00f3n por las que se pasa cuando se sale con alguien que sufre un trastorno l\u00edmite de la personalidad.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2>1.\u00a0 The Vulnerable Seducer Phase<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Empezar\u00e1 por confiar en tu lado emp\u00e1tico. Te contar\u00e1 lo mucho que sufri\u00f3 en sus relaciones anteriores y en la vida en general, y c\u00f3mo t\u00fa eres la \u00fanica que le entiende. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Haci\u00e9ndose la v\u00edctima con maestr\u00eda, te har\u00e1 sentir necesaria y querida de una forma especial. Sentir\u00e1s que eres el centro de su universo. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You won\u2019t build a relationship step by step; you will jump through it. Everything will move too quickly and it will all be overly intense.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>2. La fase Clinger<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The more attached he gets, the more he\u2019ll change. At first, it\u2019ll be barely noticeable, but as time goes by, it\u2019ll become more evident. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Seguir\u00e1s sintiendo que eres importante para \u00e9l, pero las cosas que a ti te importan ser\u00e1n menos importantes y se tratar\u00e1 m\u00e1s de lo que \u00e9l quiere y necesita. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Llamar\u00e1 tu atenci\u00f3n intencionadamente utilizando sus dolencias f\u00edsicas y emocionales. Los cambios de humor ser\u00e1n cada vez m\u00e1s frecuentes. En un momento estar\u00e1 rebosante de felicidad y en otro, deca\u00eddo y distante. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He\u2019ll still think you can save them, though, and use this to keep an emotional tether to you, putting his entire emotional and physical well-being in your hands.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>3. La fase de odio<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mientras que en las dos primeras fases intentar\u00e1 comportarse lo mejor posible, en esta fase comienza el caos. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As the relationship progresses, he will show his true colors. He\u2019ll be agitated by the smallest things \u2013 the way you look at him, things you say, the way you smile at or touch him\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Antes de que te des cuenta, te echar\u00e1 la culpa de todo y volver\u00e1 a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/6-senales-de-que-esta-jugando-a-destruir-a-la-victima\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hacerse la v\u00edctima<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. This time it won\u2019t be to provoke your empathy, but to put you down the self-blame route. You will also start looking for the main culprit in yourself. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si su pareja padece un trastorno l\u00edmite de la personalidad, lo reconocer\u00e1 en estos signos y pasar\u00e1 por tres fases de la relaci\u00f3n. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your partner can\u2019t accept his problem. he will create problems for you. Even though your partner is unaware of his condition, he is emotionally hurting you. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">BPD is treatable and your partner should seek professional help. If he doesn\u2019t, things are only going to get worse. The only thing you will be able to do is to leave before you suffer all of the consequences of his BPD.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/popular-Wedding-brunch-Flowers-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"4 se\u00f1ales de que sufre un trastorno l\u00edmite de la personalidad\" class=\"wp-image-38427\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/popular-Wedding-brunch-Flowers-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/popular-Wedding-brunch-Flowers-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/popular-Wedding-brunch-Flowers.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":38426,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29677],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38425","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-personality-types"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29677,"label":"personality types"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/jon-ly-487338-unsplash.jpg",800,450,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29677,"name":"personality types","slug":"personality-types","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29677,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. Find out which one describes you best.","parent":22911,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29677,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. Find out which one describes you best.","cat_name":"personality types","category_nicename":"personality-types","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38425","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38425"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38425\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38426"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38425"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38425"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38425"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}