{"id":38429,"date":"2019-06-14T12:33:22","date_gmt":"2019-06-14T12:33:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38429"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:25:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:25:00","slug":"hasta-que-no-demuestres-que-eres-digno-no-me-acostare-contigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/hasta-que-no-demuestres-que-eres-digno-no-me-acostare-contigo\/","title":{"rendered":"Hasta que no demuestres que vales, no me acostar\u00e9 contigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

I am sick of this hookup culture; whatever happened to good old dating? I don\u2019t want my relationship finishing before it even had a chance to start. I don\u2019t want to feel broken after someone who just started warming to me disappears. <\/span><\/p>\n

Enough is enough. I am setting some new rules. Until you prove you are worthy, I won\u2019t sleep with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you are not a player, you will stay by my side even without boyfriend benefits. I don\u2019t want to waste my time on someone who is solely interested in getting to know my body, not my soul. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you are like that, I will let you leave and I won\u2019t shed a tear. I value myself too much to sell myself short. <\/span><\/p>\n

Claro que quiero acostarme contigo, pero no de inmediato. <\/b><\/p>\n

Hay un placer oculto en esperar, en anhelar a otra persona, en saber que le gustas a alguien en m\u00e1s de un sentido. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quiero saber que eres diferente al resto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Que te interese conocerme y todo lo que ello conlleva. Quiero sentirme valorada y respetada. <\/span><\/p>\n

I am not a saint and I don\u2019t wear a chastity belt but I need to feel all the right feelings before jumping into bed with someone. <\/b><\/p>\n

Necesito intimidad emocional por encima de la sexual. Me atraes tanto como t\u00fa a m\u00ed, si no m\u00e1s pero estoy dispuesta a esperar. <\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be just a checkmark on the list of women you slept with. I want to know that I matter. <\/span><\/p>\n

I felt like that a few times in the past and I don\u2019t want to feel like that ever again. I don\u2019t want to confuse sexual desire with a genuine emotional connection.<\/span><\/p>\n

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That\u2019s why I need time. Time to get to know you. Time for you to get to know me. And with that time, the <\/b>tensi\u00f3n sexual<\/b> <\/a>between us won\u2019t disappear. The chemistry will turn into an emotional bond if we are the real deal. <\/b><\/p>\n

If we are not\u2026 if we are fleeting\u2026 then it\u2019s better we don\u2019t get into bed together. <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo pagar\u00e9 esos momentos de placer con l\u00e1grimas y decepci\u00f3n. Tendr\u00e9 alegr\u00eda instant\u00e1nea y largas noches de soledad despu\u00e9s, echando de menos tus besos y tu tacto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si realmente me quieres, g\u00e1nate un lugar en mi vida. <\/b><\/p>\n

I need reciprocity. I need to know that investments go both ways. I need to see efforts, that\u2019s what sexy is all about. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quiero ver en tus acciones que te preocupas. Te dejar\u00e9 entrar si me demuestras que se puede confiar en ti. Quiero sentirme segura y querida, ni m\u00e1s ni menos. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know that you won\u2019t mind the wait if you are the right man for me. <\/b><\/p>\n

It won\u2019t be easy on either of us but we can hold on until the timing is right. Until we know the sounds of each other\u2019s laughter and what keeps us up at night. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hasta que sepamos que esta conexi\u00f3n que sentimos es algo m\u00e1s que atracci\u00f3n f\u00edsica.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Otra buena raz\u00f3n para esperar es el hecho de que <\/b>hacer el amor<\/b><\/a> es mucho mejor que tener sexo. <\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s more intense. It\u2019s intimacy at its highest. It\u2019s sharing your body, mind and soul with one person. It\u2019s the closeness you feel after the act. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s everything you can\u2019t have when it\u2019s just sex without emotions. <\/span><\/p>\n

I hope you get where I\u2019m coming from after reading this. I know it might all sound complicated to you but I know I am worth the wait.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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