{"id":38530,"date":"2019-06-17T13:53:11","date_gmt":"2019-06-17T13:53:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38530"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:23:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:23:45","slug":"a-la-mujer-que-se-perdio-por-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-la-mujer-que-se-perdio-por-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"A la mujer que se perdi\u00f3 por amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Te enamoraste de \u00e9l. Con fuerza. De la forma en que s\u00f3lo te enamoras de uno. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\r\n

Pensabas que era a \u00e9l a quien hab\u00edas estado esperando. \u00c9l era quien terminaba tus frases. Era el que sab\u00eda lo que quer\u00edas sin que t\u00fa dijeras nada. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Era el primer hombre con el que pod\u00edas relajarte. Con el que pod\u00edas ser t\u00fa misma. Te apoy\u00f3 en tus decisiones. Te dec\u00eda lo hermosa que eras. Te hizo sentir como en las nubes con un solo beso. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Siempre estaba ah\u00ed cuando le necesitabas, convenci\u00e9ndote de que era tu refugio, tu persona.<\/p>\r\n

After you saw that you had never been happier with anyone else, you decided to give him your heart, your body and your soul. You thought he was your happily ever after. You were so crazy in love that you didn\u2019t see all the red flag signs. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

You didn\u2019t see that all his hugs, while you were in company, were there to take you away from your friends. You didn\u2019t see that his kisses were just the way he showed others that he was the one who owned you, so they wouldn\u2019t hit on you.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

By telling you that he would always be there, he was trying to say that you didn\u2019t need anyone else but him. By doing all that he could to make you happy, he was just trying to make you fall into his trap. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

De la que apenas pod\u00edas salir. Lo hizo todo para hacerte adicta a \u00e9l. Y eso fue lo que pas\u00f3. Te enamoraste de \u00e9l, pensando que no hab\u00eda otro hombre que pudiera hacerte sentir feliz aparte de \u00e9l.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

You trusted him blindly. You couldn\u2019t stand being without him. He was like the air you needed to live. He was like a drug you had to take to remain sane.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"Citas<\/p>\r\n

Soon, he started being the only person who could calm you down, telling you lies that he loved you and that he would never cheat on you. Only when you showed that you couldn\u2019t live without him did the real game begin. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Se divert\u00eda jugando con tu mente, flirteando con cualquier chica que apareciera. Te descuidaba, pero de alg\u00fan modo siempre le perdonabas y acababas en su cama. Era tan buen actor. Sab\u00eda qu\u00e9 decir para meterse en tu coraz\u00f3n y en tu mente. Te lavaba el cerebro.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Your gut was telling you that something was off but you didn\u2019t trust it. You thought it would pass. But it didn\u2019t. You totally lost yourself over a man who didn\u2019t give a damn about you. You lost yourself for what he called love. But it was anything but love. It was abuse, treating you badly and neglect. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

It was mind-fucking. But you didn\u2019t want<\/span> a renunciar a \u00e9l.<\/span><\/a> Pensaste que cambiar\u00eda. Pero nunca lo hizo. S\u00f3lo empeor\u00f3. D\u00eda tras d\u00eda probaba un nuevo juego contigo, intentando ver cu\u00e1nto pod\u00edas aguantar. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Mientras suplicabas por el amor que necesitabas desesperadamente, \u00e9l se re\u00eda en tu cara. Ten\u00eda cara de diablo. El que disfrutaba de tu dolor una y otra vez. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Hizo todo lo que un hombre puede hacer a una mujer para herirla. Ten\u00edas tantas ganas de escapar, pero cada vez que lo dejabas, \u00e9l inventaba alguna excusa est\u00fapida y t\u00fa volv\u00edas. \u00c9l era tu punto d\u00e9bil y quer\u00edas que eso cambiara. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

When you realized that you had nobody except him, you started thinking about your future. You didn\u2019t want to live like that for the rest of your life. You didn’t want to suffer and beg for love and attention. You wanted to feel like any other girl who was happy in love. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Sab\u00edas que con \u00e9l nunca conseguir\u00edas lo que quer\u00edas, as\u00ed que decidiste seguir adelante. S\u00f3lo Dios sabe lo dif\u00edcil que fue para ti dejar a quien lo era todo para ti. Pero sab\u00edas que era algo que ten\u00edas que hacer para salvarte de una vida p\u00e9sima. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Pero todo eso ha quedado atr\u00e1s.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\r\n

Now you are there, sitting in your room and looking through the window. You can\u2019t remember when the last time was that you felt so calm and satisfied. There isn\u2019t him to abuse you anymore. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Est\u00e1s solo y por fin puedes respirar. Incluso la lluvia que cae por tus ventanas parece agradable ahora. Te sientes tan bien en tu piel, feliz por haber escapado de las garras de un monstruo. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Next time, you will be smarter. Next time, you will think with your head and not with your heart. Next time, it won\u2019t hurt you. You know why? <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Porque ser\u00e1 amor. <\/i><\/b>El incondicional.<\/i><\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n

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