{"id":3857,"date":"2020-08-25T09:59:41","date_gmt":"2020-08-25T09:59:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3857"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:02:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:02:18","slug":"10-signos-innegables-mierda-d-bolsa-novio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-signos-innegables-mierda-d-bolsa-novio\/","title":{"rendered":"10 se\u00f1ales innegables de que tienes un novio de mierda"},"content":{"rendered":"

You’re completely blind. You can’t think straight. Love will do that to you.<\/p>\n

Sometimes that’s quite nice and cute, but sometimes that is what keeps you from realizing that your boyfriend is a complete dirt bag!<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s tan encaprichada con \u00e9l y con la idea de vuestra relaci\u00f3n que no te das cuenta de todas las se\u00f1ales de alerta de que te trata como a un pedazo de mierda.<\/p>\n

Claro, de vez en cuando tienes la sensaci\u00f3n de que algo no va bien, pero lo ignoras por completo.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Porque est\u00e1s cegado por el amor.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que saca la cabeza de la arena y abre los ojos. Pero, para ayudarte a hacerlo a\u00fan m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido, aqu\u00ed tienes algunas se\u00f1ales reveladoras de que es un novio de mierda.<\/p>\n

No es de fiar<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Te decepciona cada maldita vez. Cada vez que te ilusionas con algo que te prometi\u00f3 hacer, no consigues nada.<\/p>\n

And on top of it all, you still keep hoping he will keep his promises next time. To tell you the truth, you probably already know but won\u2019t admit\u2014HE WON\u2019T!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t compromise<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

This is pure selfishness. He wants things to go only his way\u2014no other way is acceptable.<\/p>\n

That is a huge alert that he is a complete a-hole. He\u2019s showing you he couldn\u2019t care less about your feelings and wishes. S\u00f3lo se preocupa por s\u00ed mismo.<\/a> Piece of advice\u2014\u00a1\u00a1D\u00c9JAME!!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You\u2019re the last on his list<\/h2>\n

\"tres<\/p>\n

Everything else is more important than you. He has to go somewhere important (doesn\u2019t tell you where), he has to play video-games because they make him feel \u2018relaxed\u2019\u2014relaxed my ass! These are all just excuses.<\/p>\n

Get it into your head that he DOESN\u2019T want to spend time with you\u2014he HAS the time, but he doesn\u2019t want to. Don\u2019t be anybody\u2019s doormat.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Te da por sentado<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Todo lo que haces, \u00e9l lo da por sentado.<\/p>\n

The fact you are going an extra mile to humor him and that you are super romantic\u2014planning romantic dinners, dates, and trips\u2014is completely normal to him. I mean, that\u2019s what you are supposed to do, while he puts the bare minimum into your relationship.<\/p>\n

I think that no one wants that\u2014neither should you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Es manipulador<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Se har\u00e1 pasar por alguien que s\u00f3lo intenta ayudarte cuando, en realidad, lo \u00fanico que est\u00e1 haciendo y lo \u00fanico que quiere es amoldarte a algo que \u00e9l considera aceptable.<\/p>\n

Do you want to be shaped by someone else\u2019s wishes, or do you want to shape yourself according to what you want?<\/p>\n

If it hasn\u2019t yet, this will suffocate you in the near future and things will explode. Evite la cat\u00e1strofe y al\u00e9jese a tiempo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <\/strong>As\u00ed es como te da\u00f1an los narcisistas manipuladores, los psic\u00f3patas y otras personas t\u00f3xicas<\/a><\/p>\n

T\u00fa tienes la culpa de todo<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You are the source of his failures\u2014at least he makes you think that. Anything he does wrong will somehow be your fault.<\/p>\n

Si no consigue terminar una tarea en el trabajo, te echar\u00e1 la culpa a ti por haber quedado con \u00e9l la noche anterior.<\/p>\n

\u00a1\u00bfEn serio?! \u00bfQuieres ser tan pat\u00e9tico y dejar que eso pase siempre? Yo creo que NO.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong> 6 cosas que hacen los hombres para hacerte sentir que t\u00fa eres la loca<\/a><\/p>\n

He\u2019s abusive<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 sea demasiado obvio para incluirlo en esta lista, pero nunca se sabe. El maltrato no es s\u00f3lo f\u00edsico.<\/p>\n

El tipo emocional es a\u00fan peor.<\/a> Don\u2019t let anyone dictate your life and play mind games with you.<\/p>\n

If you let them, they will do it, but if you show them they can\u2019t \u2018touch\u2019 you by telling them to f**k off, they won\u2019t be brave as in the beginning.<\/p>\n

Los maltratadores emocionales son d\u00e9biles personajillos que chupan la vida de la gente que se lo permite.<\/p>\n

Show your strength and scare him to death\u2014that\u2019s the thing they are afraid of the most.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u2018I\u2019m Sorry\u2019 doesn\u2019t exist in his vocabulary<\/h2>\n

\"triste<\/p>\n

Imagine someone being on that level of being a complete douche that he never admits he\u2019s done something wrong. He\u2019s perfect.<\/p>\n

\u00a1Vamos! Todos somos iguales y todos cometemos errores.<\/p>\n

La \u00fanica diferencia entre nosotros y los gilipollas es que siempre seremos personas m\u00e1s grandes y admitiremos si hemos hecho algo mal.<\/p>\n

Un novio gilipollas fingir\u00e1 que no ha pasado nada porque seguro que es impecable. Tell him YOU\u2019RE SORRY you ever dated him!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care when you\u2019re hurting<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esto es totalmente insensible. C\u00f3mo puedes pensar que te quiere alguien que hace la vista gorda ante tu sufrimiento y tu dolor?<\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re making excuses for him every time he sees you crying and passes next to you like you\u2019re doing nothing in particular.<\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re comforting yourself by making yourself believe he didn\u2019t see you or he\u2019s \u2018too busy\u2019 right now.<\/p>\n

A real man\u2014a man worth your attention\u2014will put everything he\u2019s got aside if he sees you are in a bad place. \u00a1Te mereces a alguien a quien realmente le importe una mierda!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Te hace pensar menos de ti mismo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

He makes you believe you\u2019re not good enough. He makes you believe he\u2019s more than good or too good for you and he rubs it in your face.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you won\u2019t\u2014can\u2019t\u2014leave him. You think you\u2019ve hit the Jackpot.<\/p>\n

Let me tell you something. The only thing you\u2019ve hit is rock bottom.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t settle for less than you deserve<\/a>\u2014and this shitty person is definitely that!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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