{"id":38771,"date":"2019-11-20T07:57:23","date_gmt":"2019-11-20T07:57:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38771"},"modified":"2022-01-25T09:08:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-25T09:08:00","slug":"si-no-te-hubiera-roto-el-corazon-no-serias-quien-eres-ahora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-no-te-hubiera-roto-el-corazon-no-serias-quien-eres-ahora\/","title":{"rendered":"Si no te hubiera roto el coraz\u00f3n, no ser\u00edas quien eres ahora"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cuando piensas en este hombre, sientes todo tipo de emociones negativas.<\/p>\n

At the same time, you are sad that you lost him, nostalgic about your past together, angry at him for breaking your heart, angry at yourself for letting him do so, disappointed for trusting the wrong person\u2026<\/p>\n

Al mismo tiempo, le echas de menos y le odias a muerte. Hay d\u00edas en los que solo piensas en vengarte y otros en los que solo quieres olvidar que ese hombre t\u00f3xico existi\u00f3 o form\u00f3 parte de tu vida.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014after everything you\u2019ve been through next to him and everything he\u2019s done to you, feeling all of this is completely normal.<\/p>\n

However, I\u2019m here to tell you to be grateful, instead of resentful.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, lo has o\u00eddo bien. Puede que te parezca una chorrada, pero deber\u00edas estar agradecido por todo lo que te ha hecho pasar este gilipollas.<\/p>\n

Ante todo, agradece a la fe que lo envi\u00f3 a tu vida, porque sin duda ten\u00eda un prop\u00f3sito.<\/p>\n

Un prop\u00f3sito para ense\u00f1arte algunas valiosas lecciones de vida, <\/a><\/b>y un prop\u00f3sito para transformarte en la mujer que deb\u00edas ser.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Si<\/p>\n

I know that now you\u2019re probably wondering, in shock, why you should be thankful to someone who crushed you, emotionally destroyed you and damaged you to this point.<\/p>\n

Well, the truth is that without intending to so, this manipulative and awful man helped you become the woman you\u2019re today.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, puede que haya matado a la chica inocente y vulnerable que sol\u00edas ser antes de que \u00e9l entrara en tu vida. Borr\u00f3 a esa rom\u00e1ntica desesperada que cre\u00eda en las personas y en los felices para siempre.<\/p>\n

Y ese es un pecado por el que nunca podr\u00e1 ser perdonado.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, al mismo tiempo, ayud\u00f3 a nacer a la mujer que eres ahora<\/b> . Te ayud\u00f3 a ver todo tu potencial y a reconstruirte.<\/p>\n

If this guy hadn\u2019t put you through misery, nunca te habr\u00edas convertido en la mujer fuerte e independiente que eres hoy.<\/b> .<\/p>\n

You would have never seen everything you can do, and you\u2019d never have grown into the badass, tough heroine of your own life.<\/p>\n

If he hadn\u2019t made you stop trusting everyone around you, nunca habr\u00edas encontrado la fe en Dios<\/b> . You would have never put your destiny in His hands, knowing that He\u2019ll always do what\u2019s best for you.<\/p>\n

If this guy hadn\u2019t abandoned you, nunca habr\u00edas descubierto qui\u00e9n es tu <\/b>amigos de verdad<\/b><\/a> eran<\/b> .<\/p>\n

Nunca habr\u00edas sabido qui\u00e9nes eran las personas con las que siempre pod\u00edas contar y las onex que nunca se apartar\u00edan de tu lado cuando m\u00e1s las necesitaras.<\/p>\n

If he hadn\u2019t walked away from you, nunca te habr\u00edas dado cuenta de que pod\u00edas lograrlo por ti mismo<\/b> .<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t have known that you don\u2019t need a man in order to feel good about yourself and that you\u2019re the maker of your own happiness.<\/p>\n

If this guy hadn\u2019t treated you the way he did, nunca habr\u00edas apreciado a otros hombres que son diferentes a \u00e9l<\/b> .<\/p>\n

You would have never had the chance to see what the things you should never settle for are, and you wouldn\u2019t have known how a relationship shouldn\u2019t look like.<\/p>\n

You would have never met the man of your dreams\u2014the one who will give you everything you need without even knowing it and who will treat you the way you deserve from day one.<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t have cherished his love the way you should. You wouldn\u2019t have been aware that you\u2019ve hit the jackpot because you wouldn\u2019t have had this horrible past experience to compare it with.<\/p>\n

If he hadn\u2019t spent years making you feel like you\u2019re no destinado a ser amado <\/a> and as if you don\u2019t deserve anyone better, este rencor que te mantiene en movimiento nunca se habr\u00eda despertado dentro de ti<\/b> .<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t have started loving yourself so much, and you wouldn\u2019t know how to appreciate honest love when you get it.<\/p>\n

If this guy hadn\u2019t broken your heart, you would have never fixed it. And let\u2019s face it<\/b> \u2014 now it\u2019s better and stronger than it ever was.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you think of this man, you feel all sorts of negative emotions. At the same time, you are sad that you lost him, nostalgic about your past together, angry at him for breaking your heart, angry at yourself for letting him do so, disappointed for trusting the wrong person\u2026 At the same time, you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":38773,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38771","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock-9.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38771","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38771"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38771\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38773"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38771"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38771"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38771"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}