{"id":38777,"date":"2019-06-20T10:37:36","date_gmt":"2019-06-20T10:37:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38777"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:18:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:18:32","slug":"5-senales-aterradoras-de-que-tu-novio-es-un-narcisista-envidioso-patologico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-senales-aterradoras-de-que-tu-novio-es-un-narcisista-envidioso-patologico\/","title":{"rendered":"5 se\u00f1ales aterradoras de que tu novio es un narcisista envidioso patol\u00f3gico"},"content":{"rendered":"

La envidia patol\u00f3gica es uno de los principales rasgos del trastorno narcisista de la personalidad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Todo narcisista siente envidia de su pareja y de todos los que le rodean, pero, al mismo tiempo, piensa que todo el mundo tambi\u00e9n siente envidia de \u00e9l. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ese es el n\u00facleo de todo el problema. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re dating a man like this, then you must have experienced disrespect and sabotage. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whatever major success you\u2019ve had, your narcissist gave no meaning whatsoever to it, or even worse, he convinced you that you did nothing extraordinary or praiseworthy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Los narcisistas ans\u00edan el poder, que es una de las razones por las que abusan de sus v\u00edctimas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tienen la necesidad de ser mejores que los dem\u00e1s, as\u00ed que cuando aparece una persona que ha logrado algo, se sienten amenazados. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s when the envy kicks in. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The ironic thing is that narcissists pick victims who are special \u2013 people who have something unique about them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Pero al mismo tiempo, odian ese algo especial que tienen y est\u00e1n celosos de ellos, por lo que aprovechar\u00e1n cualquier oportunidad para menospreciarlos y menospreciarles. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every narcissist is the same \u2013 they need to feel superior to everyone else.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This need causes pathological envy and if this envy isn\u2019t put in order from the beginning, it will definitely kill your relationship, since a narcissist doesn\u2019t know when enough is enough or when to stop with their behavior. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Te utilizan y te drenan hasta que no queda nada que drenar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si ves que tu novio presenta algunos de estos 5 comportamientos, definitivamente es un narcisista patol\u00f3gicamente envidioso: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. He can\u2019t admit someone else\u2019s success<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Instead of congratulating you, he will find a way to belittle your success. It\u2019s his mission to make you feel bad and think that you are not good enough. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His pathological envy will do anything to make you feel like worthless crap. And the future plan is to make you give up on everything; it\u2019s his goal to ensure you that you are incapable of anything so you don\u2019t even try. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

People who care sincerely about you would never do something like that. On the contrary, they would make a big deal out of something not so significant you\u2019ve done. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lo har\u00e1n para que te sientas mejor y para animarte a seguir intent\u00e1ndolo y esforz\u00e1ndote.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La envidia narcisista deja a las v\u00edctimas rotas y llenas de verg\u00fcenza. Lo \u00fanico que la v\u00edctima ha aprendido es que todo lo que hace no es digno de elogio. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

After some time, they begin to think that they haven\u2019t deserved any kind of acknowledgement anyway. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Tiene una insaciable necesidad de atenci\u00f3n<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A narcissist won\u2019t allow his victim to keep the center of the stage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si la v\u00edctima ha logrado algo y est\u00e1 recibiendo elogios, un narcisista le quitar\u00e1 esos elogios hablando de sus propios logros, empujando a su v\u00edctima hacia atr\u00e1s. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sienten que la v\u00edctima les est\u00e1 robando los elogios a los que tienen derecho. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Either they will say something mean to you disguised as a compliment \u2013 and everyone will hear it as a compliment, except you because you know him better than anyone else \u2013 or they will just change the subject. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just because\u2026 well, because you\u2019re not important. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

El objetivo principal es humillar a la v\u00edctima delante de mucha gente y conseguir de alg\u00fan modo que otros se unan a su acoso. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

All of this is, of course, disguised as jokes at the victim\u2019s expense. The point is that the victim keeps quiet about their accomplishments after some time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Sabe sentirse poderoso<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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That is the catch. He doesn\u2019t even have to be more successful or more \u201cpowerful\u201d than you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He will find a way to accomplish that and ignore something successful you did like it\u2019s not that big of a deal \u2013 like you did something anyone can. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

En situaciones en las que se sienta amenazado por ti y tu poder, se har\u00e1 m\u00e1s poderoso mir\u00e1ndote por encima del hombro sin ninguna raz\u00f3n en particular, aunque lo tratar\u00e1 como algo completamente normal y esperado. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Piensa muy poco en ti<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Minimizar\u00e1 cada uno de tus \u00e9xitos a medida que se produzcan. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although you\u2019ve worked so hard to make something come true for you, he will hurt you by saying you did nothing special and it all happened because you got lucky. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por otra parte, su \u00e9xito ser\u00e1 descrito como el fruto del trabajo duro y la dedicaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is tragic because in every single case, it\u2019s the other way around. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Los narcisistas son los que cuentan con la suerte y las conexiones sociales para avanzar. El trabajo duro es algo que nunca hacen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Pone el list\u00f3n cada vez m\u00e1s alto<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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No matter what you do, nothing will ever be good enough. The victim\u2019s confidence is the narcissist\u2019s worst nightmare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Significa que ha perdido el control sobre ti. Cuando eso ocurre, existe la posibilidad de que la v\u00edctima se d\u00e9 cuenta de que puede hacerlo mejor y se marche. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para evitar que esto ocurra y asegurarse de que tienen un suministro narcisista ilimitado, los narcisistas pondr\u00e1n el list\u00f3n m\u00e1s alto cada vez que tengas \u00e9xito en algo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nothing will ever be good enough for them. They will always ask you for more than you\u2019ve already done.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They will always use your insecurities against you. They will try their best not to let you forget what you\u2019re insecure about. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re special. You should know that from the moment a narcissist picked you. That\u2019s why you were his target. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eres capaz de hacer cosas que \u00e9l nunca podr\u00eda hacer. Quiere alimentarse de tu \u00e9xito y atribuirse a s\u00ed mismo ese mismo \u00e9xito.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s not your fault that you\u2019ve been abused. You had something unique that drew him to you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Next time, it will draw the right person \u2013 the person you deserve. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Pathological envy is one of the main traits of narcissistic personality disorder. Every narcissist is envious of their partner and everyone around them, but at the same time, they think everyone is envious of them, too. That is the core of the whole problem. If you\u2019re dating a man like this, then you must have…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":38784,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38777","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_1236719455.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38777","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38777"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38777\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38784"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38777"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38777"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38777"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}