{"id":38843,"date":"2020-07-21T07:58:31","date_gmt":"2020-07-21T07:58:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38843"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:09:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:09:18","slug":"como-te-trata-es-lo-que-siente-por-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-te-trata-es-lo-que-siente-por-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo te trata es lo que siente por ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Guys really aren\u2019t that hard to figure out. Our tendency to read into every mensaje de texto<\/a>cada conversaci\u00f3n sin importancia y cada se\u00f1al no verbal que emiten ha ido demasiado lejos.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time we stop overanalyzing every single thing they do and accept that their actions speak louder than our misinterpretations ever will. Once you realize this, you\u2019ll see how simple it really is to read them.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be the first to admit I\u2019ve made a gazillion excuses every time I didn\u2019t want to accept that he actually did that shitty thing. I would always assure myself he was just in a bad mood and it had nothing to do with me.<\/p>\n

And every time he\u2019d hurt me with his words, I\u2019d just assume he had a lousy day at work and he was just airing his frustrations and I was the first person there.<\/p>\n

But no. That\u2019s not correct and it\u2019s not okay. We all have shitty days, don\u2019t we? How many times did you come home from a dreadful day at work to a messy house, nothing cooked for dinner and him just lounging on the sofa watching a game?<\/i><\/p>\n

\"Foto<\/p>\n

\u00bfY qu\u00e9 hiciste t\u00fa? En esta situaci\u00f3n, ten\u00edas todo el derecho a estar realmente cabreada con \u00e9l, pero apuesto a que te tomaste un respiro, le diste un beso de saludo, te fuiste a la cocina y te pusiste a cocinar.<\/i><\/p>\n

And then you go and make excuses for HIM? Think about it. It\u2019s so messed up.<\/p>\n

They hardly even appreciate all the \u2018little\u2019 things we do for them and our family on a daily basis, so the last thing they deserve is that we cut them some slack!<\/p>\n

La pr\u00f3xima vez tu hombre<\/a> puts you through any crap, instead of making an excuse for him, confront him and let him know you\u2019re no longer putting up with that.<\/p>\n

And if you\u2019ve just started seeing a guy who doesn\u2019t seem to appreciate anything about you other than your body, believe him! Unless you want to be just his eye candy, go find someone with dignity and respect.<\/p>\n

We need to start believing guys when they show us how they feel about us through their actions. As much as you want him to be more than that and believe he\u2019s got potential to get better, it\u2019s highly unlikely he\u2019ll change.<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

How he treats you is how he feels about you, period! You can\u2019t let a guy walk all over you for days on end and then once he decides to have one good day, you feel like the luckiest girl alive.<\/p>\n

The luckiest girl would never put up with that. She\u2019d be with a man who is consistent in his efforts and treated her with respect. She would never need to poner excusas<\/a> for him because she wouldn\u2019t be with a crappy dude in the first place.<\/p>\n

Tienes que empezar a creer que te mereces algo mejor. Como te trates a ti misma es como \u00e9l te va a tratar. Si ve que aceptas sus esfuerzos a medias...<\/i>\u2014<\/i>that\u2019s all you\u2019ll ever get from him!<\/i><\/p>\n

If he sees he can get away with tons of shit, he\u2019s just going to keep acting like a jerk. See? It\u2019s all up to you to decide how you want to be treated. Raise your standards and if he stays down, leave him there!<\/i><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Guys need to see that they can\u2019t just pick and choose days when they\u2019ll be on their best behavior and when they\u2019ll be a total jerk. Either you\u2019re suficientemente bueno<\/a> for your woman or she\u2019s going to show you the door.<\/p>\n

Los chicos que respetan a sus chicas y s\u00f3lo quieren lo mejor para ellas lo demuestran con sus acciones.<\/p>\n

Este chico te dar\u00e1 un beso de buenos d\u00edas cada vez que te levantes y te dar\u00e1 un beso de buenas noches cada noche antes de acostarse. Te ayudar\u00e1 en todo lo que pueda haciendo recados y recogiendo la ropa de la tintorer\u00eda de vez en cuando.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t be mad you didn\u2019t make dinner because he\u2019ll know you were swamped that day and he\u2019ll run to the kitchen and make your favorite dish.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t be offended if you don\u2019t want to have sex every single night because you\u2019re both grown-ups with a bunch of shit to do and it\u2019s perfectly normal to just want to sleep and rest your mind and soul.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Este es el tipo de hombre que merece tu amor, \u00a1y realmente existe! No es un privilegio encontrar a alguien as\u00ed, \u00a1es tu derecho!<\/i><\/p>\n

Y una vez que te des cuenta de esto, dejar\u00e1s de perder el tiempo con gilipollas inmaduros que s\u00f3lo te complican la vida y centrar\u00e1s tu atenci\u00f3n en todos esos chicos de buen coraz\u00f3n que simplemente te har\u00e1n la vida un poco mejor y te har\u00e1n feliz de estar viva.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not a fairy tale and it\u2019s not wishful thinking. They may not be around every single corner but they\u2019re around. And when you find that guy, you\u2019ll see how easy life can actually be with the right person by your side.<\/i><\/p>\n

So stop making excuses and stop thinking you\u2019re not worthy of that kind of love. You are and you will find it. Maybe not today but when you stop looking for it, that\u2019s when it usually knocks on your door.<\/p>\n

Love is supposed to make you feel better and smile harder. Don\u2019t stop until you\u2019ve found exactly that, because it\u2019s going to knock you off your feet!<\/p>\n

\"C\u00f3mo<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Guys really aren\u2019t that hard to figure out. Our tendency to read into every text message, every minor conversation and every single non-verbal sign they give out has gone way too far. It\u2019s time we stop overanalyzing every single thing they do and accept that their actions speak louder than our misinterpretations ever will. Once…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":95666,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38843","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/How-He-Treats-You-Is-How-He-Feels-About-You-3.jpg",800,550,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38843","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38843"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38843\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95666"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38843"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38843"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38843"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}