{"id":3898,"date":"2017-08-25T13:15:22","date_gmt":"2017-08-25T13:15:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3898"},"modified":"2021-08-31T13:27:04","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T13:27:04","slug":"3-razones-comunes-pero-no-sorprendentes-por-las-que-los-hombres-se-distancian-emocionalmente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/3-razones-comunes-pero-no-sorprendentes-por-las-que-los-hombres-se-distancian-emocionalmente\/","title":{"rendered":"3 razones comunes (aunque no sorprendentes) por las que los chicos se distancian emocionalmente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Every woman who experienced that awful feeling of a guy pulling away surely felt powerless and weak. It\u2019s a scenario in which you can\u2019t do much\u2014except give him space to clear his things out.<\/p>\n

Si te entrometes y fuerzas demasiado las cosas, puedes hacer que se aleje a\u00fan m\u00e1s de ti. Y entonces estar\u00e1s indefenso.<\/p>\n

Uno se pregunta qu\u00e9 ha fallado y c\u00f3mo se ha llegado a este punto.<\/p>\n

Emotional distancing is a sneaky bastard. You\u2019ll never know when it\u2019s going to hit you and why. And what\u2019s even worse, there is no exact magic formula to fix it.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, you can\u2019t do anything else except play along with his game and wait for the moment he decides to talk to you. Then, you\u2019ll be on the team that\u2019s winning.<\/p>\n

Instead of obsessing about it and questioning your own actions, let it go because you\u2019re not the one to blame for that. I know because I\u2019ve been there, too.<\/p>\n

I also struggled to find an answer to the question, \u201cWhy? Why is he pulling away?\u201d<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Por qu\u00e9 los hombres se alejan en las primeras etapas<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Quiero hacerte sentir mejor y quiero convencerte de que las cosas a\u00fan no han terminado. Hay maneras de ser una persona mejor y m\u00e1s considerada y de comprenderle de verdad.<\/p>\n

But, first, you have to get why he\u2019s acting the way he is in order to try and fix it. If you care enough for him, you will do everything that\u2019s in your power to get him back.<\/p>\n

Here are some of the reasons why he\u2019s emotionally distancing from you:<\/em><\/p>\n

You are the one who\u2019s always in charge<\/h2>\n

Here\u2019s the thing and I\u2019m not being offensive here\u2014just realistic because things are like this. Men like to be leaders. They like to think they have the final word. They are made like that. If you go back to your childhood, don\u2019t you remember boys were always competing over every little thing?<\/p>\n

That\u2019s because they have the need to show off their masculinity. That may be the reason he\u2019s pulling away from you\u2014you\u2019re not letting him be your rock. Now, I know you don\u2019t need a rock and I know you don\u2019t need a protector. That\u2019s why you were acting like this in the first place.<\/p>\n

Pero debe saber que Las mujeres fuertes e independientes intimidan a los hombres.<\/a> I\u2019m not saying you have to submit yourself to him. You just have to just let some things slide. Let him initiate things\u2014let him \u2018steer the wheel\u2019 for a change. After all, relationships are all about the compromise, so being the one in charge all the time is not so healthy for your relationship, after all.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 estresado<\/h2>\n

Lo \u00fanico que las mujeres tenemos que entender y aceptar ya es eso: LOS HOMBRES NO FUNCIONAN COMO NOSOTRAS <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Son completamente diferentes. Cuando est\u00e1n estresados, necesitan un tiempo a solas.<\/p>\n

Necesitan un lugar seguro y un entorno sin amenazas en el que se sientan c\u00f3modos. Necesitan tiempo para ordenar sus pensamientos y decidir qu\u00e9 es lo correcto.<\/p>\n

Women, on the other hand, do quite the opposite. Our first instinct is to let it all out. I\u2019ve never met a woman who kept her mouth shut at the question: \u201cIs everything ok?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

If not the first time, then the second or third time you\u2019ve asked the question. We have the need to talk it all out.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s where the problem is. If you see that your guy is being unusually quiet and he refuses to talk to you, it\u2019s because he needs some time alone.<\/p>\n

Nunca te lo dir\u00e1: \u201cWell, you know dear\u2026I have some issues and some things on my mind. I would really like to share them with you?\u201d<\/em> I mean come on, that even doesn\u2019t happen in the movies\u2014it\u2019s so surreal.<\/p>\n

Si le presionas e intimidas para que te hable de su problema, se alejar\u00e1 a\u00fan m\u00e1s de ti. Si quiere tu ayuda o tu consejo, te lo pedir\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t insist on offering your opinion as a cure for his problems. If he reaches out to you, be there for him and hear him out. Until then, just let him sort his s**t out by himself.<\/p>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

You\u2019re being needy<\/h2>\n

As I said before. Some things are not your fault. It\u2019s strange to say, but being needy is not your fault either.<\/p>\n

I know that some women can\u2019t shake that behavior off. That is a state of mind.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 nos ocurre esto? Sinceramente, creo que las mujeres que se vuelven necesitadas tuvieron alguna mala experiencia antes, as\u00ed que se vuelven necesitadas por miedo.<\/p>\n

Se vuelven necesitadas porque temen perder a ese hombre que las trata como se merecen.<\/p>\n

But, truth to be told, we really can go too far in the whole thing and that\u2019s when things go south.<\/p>\n

Los hombres odian que actuemos as\u00ed, porque tienen la sensaci\u00f3n de que les asfixiamos.<\/p>\n

Men like to feel wanted and desired\u2014not needed. Their only fear is that they will lose their freedom in a relationship.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that they hate relationships. On the contrary, there is nothing better than being with a woman who they care for. But, there is that fear a woman will suck them dry.<\/p>\n

So, play this one wisely because as soon as they get the feeling you\u2019re being too needy, they will start pulling away out of fear they\u2019re losing their freedom.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to keep a happy and healthy relationship. But remember, you\u2019re not in it alone\u2014compromise and talk are the cure for every relationship\u2019s bump in the road. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Tu distanciamiento me est\u00e1 matando<\/a><\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Every woman who experienced that awful feeling of a guy pulling away surely felt powerless and weak. It\u2019s a scenario in which you can\u2019t do much\u2014except give him space to clear his things out. If you meddle and force things too much, you can make him pull away from you even more. And then you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":3899,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3898","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/StockSnap_RH6QLDY6W2.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3898","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3898"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3898\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3899"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3898"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3898"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3898"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}