{"id":39464,"date":"2020-06-28T11:24:29","date_gmt":"2020-06-28T11:24:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39464"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:18:08","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:18:08","slug":"6-lecciones-inesperadas-que-los-psicopatas-acaban-ensenandote","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-lecciones-inesperadas-que-los-psicopatas-acaban-ensenandote\/","title":{"rendered":"6 lecciones inesperadas que los psic\u00f3patas acaban ense\u00f1\u00e1ndote"},"content":{"rendered":"

A pesar de lo horribles, t\u00f3xicos y manipuladores que son, los psic\u00f3patas pueden ense\u00f1arte algunas lecciones de vida realmente valiosas, si decides profundizar un poco m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong. Dating a psychopath or merely having one in close proximity is a nightmare.<\/p>\n

Te deja marcado, vulnerable, expuesto y herido. Te hace sentir mal contigo mismo y su personalidad manipuladora y malvada te hace temblar de miedo.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve ever been in a situation where you dealt with this, I\u2019m truly sorry. But I also have some kind of good news for you.<\/p>\n

Conoces a todos esos rasgos malvados<\/a> que tienen y que a menudo utilizan en tu contra? Bueno, en realidad puedes usarlos en tu beneficio.<\/p>\n

Evidentemente, no de la forma destructiva que ellos eligen, pero s\u00ed de una forma que te ayudar\u00e1 a hacer la vida un poco m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil y a hacer las cosas con un poco m\u00e1s de eficacia.<\/p>\n

Puedes darle la vuelta para que la experiencia que tuviste con tu psic\u00f3pata sea en realidad una bendici\u00f3n disfrazada.<\/p>\n

No s\u00f3lo te ayuda a identificar uno para que puedas mantenerte alejado de ellos en el futuro, sino que tambi\u00e9n te sirve como un incre\u00edble truco de vida.<\/p>\n

And here is what I\u2019m talking about!<\/p>\n

6 lecciones totalmente inesperadas que un psic\u00f3pata puede acabar ense\u00f1\u00e1ndote.<\/p>\n

La importancia de ser impulsivo y perseguir lo que uno quiere<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

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If there\u2019s one thing a psychopath can teach you it is to simply let yourself be impulsive and grab life by the balls!<\/p>\n

If you want something, go after it. If you feel it may be out of reach, run and don\u2019t give up until you\u2019ve got your way.<\/p>\n

Puedes hacer que tu vida sea mucho mejor si decides cambiar esta cualidad de forma que te beneficie enormemente.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 claro que los psic\u00f3patas utilizan esto para conseguir lo que quieren sin tener en cuenta c\u00f3mo hace sentir a los dem\u00e1s, pero a diferencia de ellos, t\u00fa lo har\u00e1s con consideraci\u00f3n y sin segundas intenciones.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let shit affect you easily and never dwell on things you cannot change<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s plain and simple. Psychopaths do not care about the opinions of others.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t dwell on unimportant shit and they don\u2019t care what you think of it. Period. And that is exactly what you should be doing!<\/p>\n

When something crappy happens and you can\u2019t change it, stop giving a fuck.<\/p>\n

Si alguien te ofrece su opini\u00f3n no solicitada sobre algo que no le incumbe, m\u00e1ndalo al infierno.<\/p>\n

Simply put \u2013 stop paying attention to others and focus on what YOU think and what YOU feel is right.<\/p>\n

This is a valuable lesson you can take away from them, as long as you make sure not to hurt anyone in the process. There\u2019s a fine line you don\u2019t want to cross.<\/p>\n

Stop feeling guilty over every minor thing and learn to say \u201cFuck it!\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

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When you look at it from a psychopath\u2019s point of view, this can sound a bit extremist, but obviously you\u2019ll take it down a notch.<\/p>\n

Cuando ocurre algo que estaba totalmente fuera de tu control pero te acaban echando la culpa igualmente, deja que piensen lo que quieran y marcharse<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, the smartest thing you can do is just say \u201cScrew this!\u201d and go do your thing.<\/p>\n

People will say what they want to say and make you feel guilty if that\u2019s what they want.<\/p>\n

But YOU can choose to not give a shit, knowing that you\u2019re conscious is clear. Not everyone is worth your attention. So stop giving it to them!<\/p>\n

A veces s\u00f3lo tienes que recurrir a tu encanto para hacer las cosas<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

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Ain\u2019t nothing wrong with that! I mean, it\u2019s not like you\u2019re looking to murder anyone or make their life a living hell.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about less dreadful things here. Like getting a guy to do something he might not be fond of, or getting that promotion you know you deserve.<\/p>\n

No hay nada malo en saber encender tu encanto y utilizar tu personalidad burbujeante para salirte con la tuya.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s just how life works sometimes and you have to roll with it. Your charm is there for a reason; it would be a shame not to use it.<\/p>\n

Conoce tu val\u00eda y conf\u00eda en tus capacidades<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

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Be a boss-ass bitch and own it! Get your confidence on and don\u2019t let some basic bitch put you down.<\/p>\n

Sabes que tu valor<\/a> and there\u2019s nobody and nothing that can ruin this for you.<\/p>\n

Y si una chica lo intenta, s\u00edrvele una frase fabulosa que la aleje de ti para siempre.<\/p>\n

There will always be people rooting against you and hoping you\u2019ll fail.<\/p>\n

Pero el truco est\u00e1 en que no te importe una mierda y te centres en llegar a la cima por m\u00e9ritos propios, todo ello con una sonrisa reluciente en la cara.<\/p>\n

Never let people see you cry. You\u2019re a tough chick and no one can tell you otherwise.<\/p>\n

No te aburras nunca y no dejes de trabajar.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

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Esto es algo natural para los psic\u00f3patas, pero tambi\u00e9n se puede aprender. (Obviamente, con menos mala intenci\u00f3n).<\/p>\n

In life, it\u2019s so easy to get bored and just settle for mediocre shit out of fear of going after the big things.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s exactly what you should be doing. There is always a way to get things done, you just have to explore your options.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying to break rules or something like that. What I mean is that sometimes you just have to look outside the box.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll be surprised at how many alternative ways there are to achieve what you want, be that in work, personal life, or your romantic pursuits.<\/p>\n

Where there\u2019s a will, there\u2019s most certainly a way.<\/p>\n

Sigue avanzando y llegar\u00e1n cosas buenas. Nunca te detengas a la primera se\u00f1al de problemas.<\/p>\n

That is simply the first step toward something awesome \u2013 just keep on hustling!<\/p>\n

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