{"id":39504,"date":"2019-07-01T07:01:26","date_gmt":"2019-07-01T07:01:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39504"},"modified":"2022-01-05T15:33:16","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T15:33:16","slug":"4-tacticas-destructivas-de-ruptura-que-utilizan-los-narcisistas-abusivos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-tacticas-destructivas-de-ruptura-que-utilizan-los-narcisistas-abusivos\/","title":{"rendered":"4 t\u00e1cticas destructivas de ruptura que utilizan los narcisistas abusivos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ruptura<\/a> is always heavy stuff. Even when the guy you\u2019re breaking things off with is the most normal dude you\u2019ve ever dated, it still sucks big time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re ending a big chunk of tu vida<\/a>, and especially if you\u2019re the one being dumped, it can be hard to come to terms with it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Como cualquier otro cambio importante en tu vida, te costar\u00e1 acostumbrarte.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pero cuando el tipo que rompe contigo es un narcisista abusivo, las cosas se complican m\u00e1s y son m\u00e1s destructivas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Un narcisista nunca pone nada f\u00e1cil. \u00c9l es el que necesita tener todo el control, as\u00ed que pase lo que pase, vas a acabar siendo el receptor de sus despiadadas intenciones.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As I\u2019ve mentioned above, narcissists can\u2019t cope with not being in control.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y en cuanto sientan que est\u00e1n perdiendo la m\u00e1s m\u00ednima ventaja sobre ti, recurrir\u00e1n a medidas dr\u00e1sticas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If he senses that you\u2019re trying para acabar con las cosas<\/a> or that you\u2019ve started defying him, he\u2019s going to make sure to be the one to end it first.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y no de una manera amistosa. Va a ser de acuerdo a sus planes tortuosos y picar\u00e1 AF.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si sientes que tu narcisista podr\u00eda estar prepar\u00e1ndose para dejarte, prep\u00e1rate para cualquiera de los 4 escenarios siguientes.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

These are his most common choices of letting you know he\u2019s done with you. Consider yourself warned!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. \u00c9l ya tiene un inter\u00e9s rom\u00e1ntico de respaldo y te dejar\u00e1 abruptamente, sin ninguna explicaci\u00f3n.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"4<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Cuando un narcisista est\u00e1 seguro de que va a terminar contigo, se asegura de tener ya otro compa\u00f1ero de cama.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Siempre tiene que tener opciones por si las cosas se tuercen. Y en este caso, tendr\u00e1 cero avisos y cero explicaciones.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Su humor se volver\u00e1 imprevisible de repente, estar\u00e1 muy irritable y tendr\u00e1 una actitud desagradable contigo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Remember, narcissists don\u2019t possess the ability to feel shame and regret, so it really won\u2019t make a difference to him if you cause a scene.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He will leave you with no apologies and he will make sure you know that he\u2019s already got another chick to fill in for you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y ese ser\u00e1 el final de tu narcisista y de ti. Terminar\u00e1 tan abruptamente como empez\u00f3.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Te har\u00e1 quedar como el malo de la pel\u00edcula abusando verbalmente de ti y ech\u00e1ndote toda la culpa.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"4<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

His plan is going to be so devious and sneaky that you won\u2019t know what hit you. Firstly, he\u2019s going to cause minor inconveniences to make you appear really shitty.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He is going to make sure to let you know just how bad he thinks you are and he won\u2019t mince his words.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Then, he\u2019s going to push your buttons by doing stuff he knows you don\u2019t like and that way, he\u2019s going to make you go at least a little bit mad and he will use it against you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Te tender\u00e1 una trampa para que parezcas loca, inestable y como una mala novia y fingir\u00e1 ser un pobre tipo que cay\u00f3 en tu red de mentiras y enga\u00f1os.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You won\u2019t even understand how he\u2019s doing it and he\u2019ll already be gone, having achieved his goal.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll be feeling like you did something wrong but all that really happened was he manipulated the shit out of you and left with his head held high.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Como siempre hab\u00eda planeado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Va a dar y negar su afecto hasta el punto de alejarte<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"4<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sus emociones (las que finge tener) estar\u00e1n por todas partes.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

One day he will adore you and shower you with love and the next day he\u2019ll be mad about the crumbs you left on the kitchen floor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You won\u2019t know what to do about it, as his behavior is going to drastically escalate and the smallest things will push him over the edge.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And that\u2019s exactly what he wants you to think. He is going to make you do all the work for him by appearing like a raging lunatic and making you end things as if it was all your idea.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This is going to be an extremely toxic atmosphere and you won\u2019t be able to handle it for long.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

While he thrives in it, you\u2019ll simply have to put an end to it and there you go.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Just like that, it\u2019s over and he didn\u2019t have to pull the trigger. You did it for him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Va a utilizar el sexo como arma para desmoralizarte<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"4<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

El sexo se convertir\u00e1 en un arma poderosa en su arsenal. Lo usar\u00e1 contra ti de cualquier manera que pueda.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y si tienes un buen vida sexual<\/a>, it\u2019s going to be especially difficult.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He will deny you sex when he sees you really want it. And when he notices you\u2019re too tired to function, he\u2019ll ask you if you\u2019re in the mood (knowing that you\u2019re NOT).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He is going to make you beg him to have sex with you, which is something you never thought you\u2019d do.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pero su comportamiento no te dejar\u00e1 otra opci\u00f3n. Puede que sea un desperdicio t\u00f3xico de aliento, pero seguro que puede d\u00e1rtelo en la cama.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And damn it, you want it one last time. And that\u2019s how he\u2019s going to get you. Your ego is going to suffer a big blow every time he says, \u201cNo,\u201d and he will enjoy every second of it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And once he\u2019s done having his fun, he\u2019ll end it with you, leaving you struggling to cope with the aftermath of his actions. And it will suck. Profoundly.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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Breaking up is always heavy stuff. Even when the guy you\u2019re breaking things off with is the most normal dude you\u2019ve ever dated, it still sucks big time. You\u2019re ending a big chunk of your life, and especially if you\u2019re the one being dumped, it can be hard to come to terms with it. Just…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":39510,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-39504","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1084354871.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39504","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39504"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39504\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/39510"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39504"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39504"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39504"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}