{"id":39660,"date":"2020-04-02T10:41:38","date_gmt":"2020-04-02T10:41:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39660"},"modified":"2022-03-07T16:20:49","modified_gmt":"2022-03-07T16:20:49","slug":"si-el-tiene-estos-10-rasgos-usted-puede-ser-victima-de-su-abuso-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-el-tiene-estos-10-rasgos-usted-puede-ser-victima-de-su-abuso-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"Si \u00e9l tiene estos 10 rasgos, usted puede ser v\u00edctima de su abuso narcisista."},"content":{"rendered":"

Un cuento de hadas. Vives en un cuento de hadas. Es tan hermoso. El hombre con el que est\u00e1s es todo lo que siempre quisiste en un hombre.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He is a gift sent from heaven. He is the man you\u2019ve been waiting for your whole life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00bfSabes que todos nos sentimos as\u00ed mientras todo est\u00e1 a\u00fan fresco? \u00bfSabes que cada hombre parece impecable y enviado de Dios?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t fall for the cheapest trick in the book. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, it\u2019s okay to have a honeymoon phase. You\u2019re still in love like a fool which makes you blind to his shortcomings.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Later on, those \u2018flaws\u2019 come to surface and in a normal relationship, you learn to live with them. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

After all, you\u2019re not perfect either. There are definitely things about you which drive him crazy, too. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But I\u2019m not talking about normal everyday quirks every person has. I\u2019m not talking about regular arguments every couple has.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I’m talking about real psychological and emotional abuse. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A primera vista, los narcisistas son iguales que los dem\u00e1s. A\u00fan m\u00e1s, los narcisistas son encantadores e hipnotizantes.<\/p>\r\n

Son incluso m\u00e1s atractivos que las personas psicol\u00f3gicamente sanas. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Los narcisistas son depredadores en el mundo de los humanos. En el mundo de los animales, los depredadores tienen caracter\u00edsticas f\u00edsicas que los definen como tales.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tienen dientes grandes, garras afiladas, etc. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Well, our predators don\u2019t have any indications of being hunters. They look and act like everyone else. But that is the catch.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Esa es exactamente su mayor arma contra nosotros. As\u00ed es como nos atrapan. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Los narcisistas encajan perfectamente en el mundo de las personas honestas y cari\u00f1osas. Se cuelan en nuestra vida y empiezan a alimentarse de nuestra energ\u00eda y de nuestra vida hasta que nos dejan completamente exhaustos. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The saddest thing is that they keep doing it until it\u2019s too late for us to run away without any serious consequences. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But enough with their terror already! I\u2019m not going to observe and do nothing while so many women lead the battles of their life. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I\u2019m going to help you recognize a narcissist while it\u2019s not too late, while there is still a chance for someone to save themselves.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Esto es lo que hacen todos los narcisistas. Estos son sus rasgos ocultos que pueden decir mucho.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

S\u00f3lo tienes que abrir los ojos y dejar a un lado tus sentimientos.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Every narcissist is one person at home and completely another when you\u2019re out<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Los narcisistas tienen dos caras en su personalidad. Una es especialmente para ti y la otra es para todos los dem\u00e1s. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

O mejor dicho, uno es quien realmente es y el otro es lo que quiere que la gente vea. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Por fuera, tu narcisista es encantador y simplemente perfecto. La gente se r\u00ede de sus chistes y absorbe cada peque\u00f1a cosa que dice.<\/p>\r\n

Sus historias son incre\u00edbles y \u00e9l es a\u00fan m\u00e1s perfecto. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Al llegar a casa, ese hombre perfecto se convierte en un manipulador exigente y asfixiante. Se vuelve imposible tratar con \u00e9l.<\/p>\r\n

Y si no se cumplen sus condiciones, se pone a\u00fan peor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. They criticize, but can\u2019t handle being criticized<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

They are thin-skinned which means they can\u2019t handle criticism, not even constructive criticism.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

They immediately think you\u2019re coming at them when in fact, you\u2019re just trying to point out some things to help them become a better person. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But, when it comes to you, the rules are different. He\u2019s judging you every chance he gets.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He\u2019s observing every step you take and if you make even the slightest mistake, he\u2019ll be all over you like a bloodthirsty wild dog.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Est\u00e1n obsesionados consigo mismos y te ignoran por completo<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Exageran sus logros y exageran su talento. Afirman que saben hacer todo lo que t\u00fa sabes hacer. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Aunque nunca lo demuestran, su historia es incre\u00edblemente veraz. La gente cree cada mentira que dicen. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Cuando haces algo realmente digno de elogio, enseguida socavan tu \u00e9xito o se ponen en plan reina del drama para robarte el protagonismo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, your achievements go unnoticed while his \u2018attempts\u2019 (even though he never did anything noticeable) are praised. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Son incapaces de tener una relaci\u00f3n significativa<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Aunque t\u00fa y todos los dem\u00e1s pens\u00e9is que tiene un mont\u00f3n de amigos, en realidad todo narcisista est\u00e1 solo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

They have acquaintances, people they can talk to about superficial things, but their relationships don\u2019t go further than that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

La raz\u00f3n es que carecen de empat\u00eda, por lo que son incapaces de establecer una relaci\u00f3n con otro ser humano. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The only thing they know how to do is catch you in a trap and pretend they care for you for as long as you\u2019re giving them their narcissistic supply.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Se alimentan de poder pero tienen miedo cobarde al fracaso<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

There is an image which follows them, an image they created for themselves. Almost every narcissist is surrounded by power and apparent \u2018success\u2019. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

En realidad, no tienen tanto \u00e9xito ni son tan poderosos. S\u00f3lo saben presentarse como si lo fueran.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

What really goes around in their mind is an enormous fear of failure. That\u2019s why a narcissist will never admit he did something wrong.<\/p>\r\n

Nunca se disculpar\u00e1 por nada. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

En esas situaciones, te desviar\u00e1 hacia otra cosa, normalmente algo que hayas hecho mal, o cambiar\u00e1 el tema de la conversaci\u00f3n para que \u00e9l deje de ser el centro de atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. S\u00f3lo dan afecto cuando les conviene <\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Life can be beautiful with a narcissist\u2014for a few days. Seriously, when you\u2019re doing everything he wants, he will give you all the love you need. I mean, it\u2019s not real love, it\u2019s affection. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Los narcisistas son incapaces de amar a nadie. Pero son capaces de mostrar afecto si les beneficia de alguna manera. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As soon as he doesn\u2019t need anything from you, he will take that affection back. He will act like you\u2019re a nobody, like you\u2019re not worthy to breathe let alone anything else.<\/p>\r\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: \u00bfPuede un estafador enamorarse de su v\u00edctima? La verdad revelada<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Les gustan las peleas<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A narcissist will pick on you, he will provoke you until you lose it and say something back at him. That\u2019s a perfect way to start a fight.<\/p>\r\n

Y lamentablemente, eso es exactamente lo que quiere. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When your relationship is in complete chaos and when you\u2019re falling apart, it\u2019s the paradise they\u2019ve been dreaming of. In those moments, they are at their peak. They are absolute rulers. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si les atacas verbalmente con argumentos leg\u00edtimos, se ponen a la defensiva. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You can\u2019t break them, no matter how hard you try because their t\u00e1cticas manipuladoras <\/a>son impecables. Al final, t\u00fa eres el que se queda roto mientras ellos son m\u00e1s fuertes que nunca.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. Los narcisistas est\u00e1n obsesionados con el orden<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Como ya se ha mencionado, los narcisistas carecen de empat\u00eda. Por eso, son incapaces de ver otra cosa que no sea blanco o negro. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you could look at the world through their eyes, you would only see things as simple as that. For a narcissist, there is no in-between. Either it is or it\u2019s not. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Algunos de ellos est\u00e1n obsesionados con la limpieza y el orden y si algo se sale de su sitio, pierden la cabeza y descargan su rabia con la primera persona que ven.<\/p>\r\n

They don\u2019t need a reason. They don\u2019t even have one.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

9. They depend on the attention they\u2019re getting <\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Enjoying the spotlight is their drug. Other people\u2019s attention is what gets them going.<\/p>\r\n

\u00bfY sabes qu\u00e9? No hay lugar en ese escenario para nadie que no sea un narcisista. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Su necesidad de atenci\u00f3n llega tan lejos que cuando tus amigos hablan de otra persona de forma positiva, un narcisista lo ve como un ataque personal. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Justo en ese momento, la conversaci\u00f3n y los focos tienen que volver sobre ellos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

10. Son emocionalmente agotadores y completamente despistados<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No tienen ni idea de que son el origen de todos los problemas. Agotan emocionalmente a la gente que les rodea y se pelean cada vez que pueden. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The pain which they cause on a daily basis is enormous and they are completely clueless that people feel that pain. Since they are emotionless, they cannot understand other people\u2019s emotions either.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Actually, when you look a bit deeper into their behavior, when you sit and analyze why someone is acting the way they are, things won\u2019t be so unclear anymore. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Los narcisistas carecen de empat\u00eda porque probablemente nunca tuvieron a alguien en su vida que les ense\u00f1ara lo que es la empat\u00eda y c\u00f3mo se debe tratar a las personas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Los narcisistas no soportan las cr\u00edticas y tienen que presentarse como los mejores posibles porque son inseguros hasta la m\u00e9dula. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lamentablemente, van en la direcci\u00f3n contraria cuando se trata de gestionar sus miedos. Est\u00e1n haciendo lo peor posible por las personas que les rodean y, al final, tambi\u00e9n por ellos mismos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"Si<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Fairy tale. You\u2019re living in a fairy tale. It\u2019s so beautiful. The man you\u2019re with is everything you ever wanted in a man. He is a gift sent from heaven. He is the man you\u2019ve been waiting for your whole life. Do you know that we all feel like this while everything is still fresh?…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":39679,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-39660","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1188884551.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":232,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":232,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39660","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39660"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39660\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/39679"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39660"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39660"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39660"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}