{"id":39885,"date":"2019-07-04T12:31:25","date_gmt":"2019-07-04T12:31:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39885"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:53:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:53:38","slug":"5-formas-inquietantes-en-las-que-una-pareja-controladora-te-engana","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-formas-inquietantes-en-las-que-una-pareja-controladora-te-engana\/","title":{"rendered":"5 formas inquietantes en las que una pareja controladora te enga\u00f1a"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tristemente, emocionalmente abusivo<\/a> relationships are very common. The controlling nature of the abusive partner\u2019s behaviour is well hidden in the beginning. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Suelen enmascararlo con palabras falsas y grandes gestos hasta que un d\u00eda se les cae la m\u00e1scara.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It is very likely that your parents and close ones tried to warn you about it, but you didn\u2019t want to listen. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It is much easier for people outside of the relationship to notice the red flags, so don\u2019t blame yourself for one second.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Controlling partners are usually well experienced in their pursuits for their victims and won\u2019t let you see who they really are until ellos<\/em> decide it\u2019s time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And the worst part is \u2013 they make it seem as if they are doing you a favor by acting this way. They make it seem as some sort of a nice gesture that you need to appreciate, or else.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019ve had experience with an emotionally abusive and\/or controlling partner, you will recognize the following ways in which they deceive their victims.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y aquellas que se sientan atrapadas en este tipo de relaci\u00f3n, sigan leyendo y corran r\u00e1pido si su hombre est\u00e1 usando esto con ustedes. No es m\u00e1s que chantaje emocional que eventualmente destruirte<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Te presta una atenci\u00f3n que nunca antes te hab\u00edan prestado<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Al iniciar una nueva relaci\u00f3n, la pareja controladora se empe\u00f1ar\u00e1 en conquistarte d\u00e1ndote toneladas de atenciones a las que no est\u00e1s acostumbrada. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quiz\u00e1 por primera vez en tu vida, sentir\u00e1s que por fin alguien te ve y te escucha.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se sentir\u00e1 querido, apreciado e importante. Esto ser\u00e1 muy halagador al principio, hasta que un d\u00eda empiece a comportarse como una persona totalmente distinta.\u00a0 <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Once he\u2019s got you hooked, he is going to start denying you your personal space and make you do things that are outside your comfort zone.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He will emotionally blackmail you into doing things you\u2019re not comfortable with by telling you that you owe him that. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He has been treating you like a princess and now it\u2019s time to pay him back. And from then on, it only starts getting worse.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Te hace sentir que quiere un compromiso real<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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As\u00ed es como consigue f\u00e1cilmente que hagas lo que \u00e9l quiere. Simplemente expresa su deseo de comprometerse contigo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And if you\u2019ve experienced relaciones t\u00f3xicas<\/a> en el pasado con chicos que ten\u00edan problemas para comprometerse, esto ser\u00e1 m\u00fasica para tus o\u00eddos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Har\u00e1 que parezca que te quiere s\u00f3lo para \u00e9l, y puede que al principio parezcan arco iris y mariposas, pero pronto se vuelve excesivamente controlador y t\u00f3xico. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He doesn\u2019t let you be who you are, you always have to check with him before doing something. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tambi\u00e9n empieza a decirte con qui\u00e9n puedes pasar tiempo y con qui\u00e9n no.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lo que antes te hac\u00eda sentir feliz y agradecida ahora se est\u00e1 convirtiendo en una pesadilla porque te est\u00e1s dando cuenta de que \u00e9l no es el tipo de chico que acepta un no por respuesta. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And by the time you figure this out, you\u2019re already deep in his web of deceit.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Te colma de atenciones, afecto y cumplidos<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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It is as if you can do no wrong. Whatever you do \u2013 he is so proud and excited for you. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Whenever you get ready for a night out \u2013 you are the most gorgeous person he has ever seen and you make him feel like no one else could.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A veces puede parecer demasiado, pero lo ignorar\u00e1s porque sabes que mereces estar con alguien que te quiera y te aprecie tanto. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Despu\u00e9s de todas esas relaciones malsanas, por fin puedes disfrutar de esto.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Con el tiempo, empezar\u00e1s a sentir un poco de presi\u00f3n para estar siempre lo mejor posible y hacer lo que sabes que \u00c9L quiere que hagas.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y pronto te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que eso es lo que espera de ti. Si intentas hacer algo a tu manera, te dar\u00e1s cuenta de que ya no es una opci\u00f3n. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y d\u00eda a d\u00eda, va a quedar claro que su camino es el \u00fanico camino.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Te muestra lo apasionado que est\u00e1 por ti<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Al principio, va a ser muy halagador y reconfortante. Va a luchar por ti y a defenderte. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

De vez en cuando, puede que se pelee con otro hombre que te mir\u00f3 en un bar, pero lo ignorar\u00e1s, ya que es lo que hacen a veces los hombres.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pero esta pasi\u00f3n pronto demostrar\u00e1 ser algo m\u00e1s. Ya no es pasi\u00f3n, sino agresi\u00f3n. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you look a certain way that he doesn\u2019t approve of, he will make it clear to you to go change. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y si vuelve a pasar que un t\u00edo te mire fuera, se pondr\u00e1 como una fiera.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Basically, what was passion in the beginning, is becoming a real problem now, and it will have escalated so fast that you won\u2019t know how it got this far, but you\u2019ll know it is no longer healthy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Te cuida como nadie lo ha hecho antes<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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He comes rushing home if you\u2019re sick and need help. He brings you flowers on the most random days and he takes you on date nights that blow your mind. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Te cuidan tan bien que te sientes como en una burbuja de felicidad.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But that\u2019s the thing about controlling partners. They take care of their women so much and so well, that they don\u2019t allow anyone else to do it other than them. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Son los \u00fanicos que pueden estar all\u00ed, y pronto lo dejan claro.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You are made to feel like you can\u2019t live without him and that he\u2019s the only one capable of helping you. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you even thought of calling someone else or getting out, you know it wouldn\u2019t end well. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Es una se\u00f1al de alarma de que se ha prendado de ti y tienes que encontrar una salida, como sea.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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