{"id":39901,"date":"2019-07-05T07:07:47","date_gmt":"2019-07-05T07:07:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39901"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:52:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:52:56","slug":"la-verdad-es-que-nunca-seras-el-hombre-que-quiero-que-seas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-verdad-es-que-nunca-seras-el-hombre-que-quiero-que-seas\/","title":{"rendered":"La Verdad Es Que Nunca Ser\u00e1s El Hombre Que Quiero Que Seas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ten\u00eda tantas ganas de que funcion\u00e1ramos. Quer\u00eda que fueras mi feliz para siempre<\/span><\/a>mi mejor amigo, y el hombre en quien puedo confiar. Quer\u00eda que me miraras como si fuera lo m\u00e1s preciado que tienes en la vida.<\/p>\n

Quer\u00eda que te volvieras loco por m\u00ed, que me necesitaras como se necesita el aire en los pulmones. Necesitaba que me pusieras en primer lugar, que me pidieras opini\u00f3n y que me recordaras lo buena que soy de vez en cuando.<\/p>\n

But none of that happened. I gave you my everything and you didn\u2019t reciprocate. You didn\u2019t even try; I was the one who was keeping us alive.<\/p>\n

You probably thought, \u201cWhy bother over someone who is already mine?\u201d Right?<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know if you ever loved me or just pretended to get things you wanted from me. If you were pretending, then I must say that you did it perfectly well. I never doubted anything you told me or did for me.<\/p>\n

You knew the perfect way to deceive me and get all that you wanted from me, while I was always at your disposal trying to satisfy you. I couldn\u2019t recognize that you were just taking advantage of me. I believed all that you told me; I believed that you love me and that you can\u2019t live without me.<\/p>\n

Pero de hecho, era lo contrario. Pod\u00edas vivir sin m\u00ed porque nunca signifiqu\u00e9 tanto para ti. Yo era bueno s\u00f3lo porque te conoc\u00eda muy bien. Era buena porque sab\u00eda qu\u00e9 tipo de caf\u00e9 te gusta, qu\u00e9 desayunas y c\u00f3mo te gusta que est\u00e9 organizada la ropa en tu armario para encontrar f\u00e1cilmente lo que necesitas.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t need a lover. You needed a housekeeper. Someone to clean, iron, and cook. Then someone you could take to bed from time to time when you want it.<\/p>\n

Alguien que te mirara y admirara todos tus \u00e9xitos empresariales. Necesitabas a alguien que obedeciera todo lo que dices y respeta tu opini\u00f3n<\/span><\/a> m\u00e1s de lo que ellos respetan a los suyos.<\/p>\n

Necesitabas una v\u00edctima que fuera todo lo que siempre quisiste, alguien que sacrificara su vida y su tiempo para hacerte sentir bien. Y quer\u00edas que todo eso ocurriera en nombre del amor.<\/p>\n

\u00bfY sabes qu\u00e9 fue lo peor?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I accepted to be that woman. I accepted to put myself second, to obey all your rules, and to be the woman you would like. I changed so much just so you would like me more. I still don\u2019t know why I did it, but I finally know that you weren\u2019t worth it. No man is worth it, in fact.<\/p>\n

\"La<\/p>\n

And the one who is will never make you go through something like that. In trying to impress you, I lost myself completely. All my days were focused on you and on what you wanted. I didn\u2019t even care about myself because you were the one who was more important.<\/p>\n

I gave myself to a man who couldn\u2019t care less for me. I thought that I found real love, where in the end, it was everything but love. It was a period in my life that cost me my nerves, well-being, and peace.<\/p>\n

Nunca pens\u00e9 que una mujer fuerte e independiente como yo se enamorar\u00eda de alguien como t\u00fa. Nunca pens\u00e9 que un hombre ser\u00eda capaz de enga\u00f1arme y obligarme a hacer lo que \u00e9l quisiera. Nunca pens\u00e9 que alguna vez pondr\u00eda a otra persona en primer lugar. Pero todas esas cosas sucedieron. Y fueron peores de lo que jam\u00e1s hubiera imaginado. Te quise como una loca y al final, acab\u00e9 siendo llamada loca por ti.<\/p>\n

I wanted my peace so much, but you wouldn\u2019t have it, telling me that I was weird for wanting to be alone all the time. And the truth is that I didn\u2019t want to be alone, I just wanted to be saved from you.<\/p>\n

When you told me you don\u2019t like me spending time with my friends, at first I thought that it\u2019s just because you love me so much and kind of sweet for not wanting to share me with other people.<\/p>\n

Pero cuando se transform\u00f3 en control obsesivo y gaslighting<\/span><\/a>, I knew I should do something about that. I couldn\u2019t lose my identity so easily. That should never happen. I couldn\u2019t let you take my life into your hands. And even though I gave you plenty of opportunities to change, that never happened. And it never will.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why this time, I am giving up on everything. I am giving up on your fake love, on your empty words, and on your actions you never took to show me your love. Your pseudo-love is killing me and it is time to finally save myself.<\/p>\n

Staying with you will just hurt me more and I am already destroyed from all your lies and cheating. I am leaving because you never were, you aren\u2019t, and you never will be the man worthy of me.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo espero que todos estos a\u00f1os que pasaste conmigo hayan servido para algo y que hayas aprendido c\u00f3mo no se debe tratar a una mujer. Tambi\u00e9n espero que te arrepientas de todo lo que me hiciste.<\/p>\n

And what\u2019s most important, I hope that one day, you will forgive yourself for all the torture you put me through. Because the truth is, I have no intention of doing that.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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