{"id":39942,"date":"2019-07-08T07:54:25","date_gmt":"2019-07-08T07:54:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39942"},"modified":"2022-07-06T09:34:25","modified_gmt":"2022-07-06T09:34:25","slug":"si-tienes-miedo-de-pedirle-a-un-chico-estas-10-cosas-no-deberias-estar-con-el","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-tienes-miedo-de-pedirle-a-un-chico-estas-10-cosas-no-deberias-estar-con-el\/","title":{"rendered":"Si tienes miedo de pedirle a un chico estas 10 cosas, no deber\u00edas estar con \u00e9l"},"content":{"rendered":"

So, you\u2019re really into that one guy you find special and you think he\u2019s the right one for you, but you\u2019re still a bit cautious because you don\u2019t want to fuck things up. And you shouldn\u2019t be alarmed \u2013 this is completely normal.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

After all, if you\u2019re really meant to be, your decisions won\u2019t push him away from you, but bring him even closer!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, stop looking for excuses only to validate his behavior. If you\u2019re miedo de preguntar a un chico<\/a> for these 10 things, then you know you definitely shouldn\u2019t be with him!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: As\u00ed es como sabes que es hora de pasar p\u00e1gina, seg\u00fan tu zodiaco<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Compromiso<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Muchos hombres son jugadores o tienen fobia al compromiso.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And what makes the situation even more difficult is that you can seldom predict if he\u2019s a player or he has commitment issues.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, you keep dating not knowing what\u2019s next, and when it happens, it happens too late.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ver\u00e1s, el compromiso es algo que nunca debes tener miedo de pedir y si lo tienes, significa que he\u2019s not the right one for you<\/a>. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Because if he\u2019s ready to be with you and if he really wants to be with you, he would have never let you question his intentions.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se asegurar\u00eda de hacerte suya y s\u00f3lo suya.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Esperar el sexo<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Remember that any guy who pushes you into doing something you\u2019re not comfortable with, is not worthy of you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re afraid that he will turn his back and abandon you when you tell him that you need some time before getting intimate, then you know you\u2019re better off without him anyway.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Te mereces a alguien que te aprecie a ti y a tu cuerpo, y que no piense s\u00f3lo en s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Un futuro<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Are you looking for someone to build a future with? Then you shouldn\u2019t be afraid to say so.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re not interested in casual romances and you\u2019re afraid that this might turn him off, you should run as far as you can from him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If he\u2019s subconsciously forcing you to do something only to keep him, it means he\u2019s a dirty player<\/a> \u00a1y t\u00fa deber\u00edas ser m\u00e1s sabio!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Mereces labrarte un futuro con alguien que lo desee tanto como t\u00fa y nada m\u00e1s deber\u00eda importarte.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Convertirte en su prioridad<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you feel like everything and everyone is more important to him than you, then you shouldn\u2019t be afraid to tell him so.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re not his toy and you\u2019re not there to fulfill his every wish. You\u2019re a human being and you deserve to be put on his priority list.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And if he\u2019s unwilling to do so, then you shouldn\u2019t beg for it either.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If making you his priority doesn\u2019t come natural to him and he doesn\u2019t even consider it despite your complaints about it, it means he\u2019s too off and definitely no good for you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Monogamia<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Algunas mujeres se sienten c\u00f3modas con el concepto de una relaci\u00f3n abierta en la que sales con varias personas a la vez.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But, if you\u2019re not of them, that\u2019s nothing you should be ashamed of.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you want to be in a monogamous relationship, you should say so \u2013 it is your right and you should always listen to your inner voice.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You shouldn\u2019t discard your feelings and go against your values only to appease his ego.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And if you\u2019re afraid to tell him for fear that he will head for the hills, then you know he\u2019s not the one for you and you should move on.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. Una disculpa<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019ve just started dating or already been in a relationship for some time, there will always be some situations where you will say something insulting or something you didn\u2019t really mean.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Siempre habr\u00e1 situaciones en las que os hag\u00e1is da\u00f1o mutuamente, y disculparse por ello es imprescindible si quer\u00e9is seguir construyendo una una relaci\u00f3n feliz y sana.<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But, if he doesn\u2019t apologize and you\u2019re too scared to ask him to do so, you know you\u2019re with the wrong man.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Nunca debe dar por sentadas tu felicidad y tu respeto. Y el mero hecho de que tengas que pedirle perd\u00f3n ya es suficiente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Ni\u00f1os<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si deseas tener hijos alg\u00fan d\u00eda en el futuro, debes ser libre de decirlo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And if he doesn\u2019t agree with your decision and he can\u2019t promise you that he would want to become a parent one day, then you know what to do.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Decidir si tener hijos o no es algo importante y nunca debes comprometer tus deseos s\u00f3lo porque temes perderle con el tiempo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you choose to stay with him even though you know that he\u2019ll never want to become a parent, you\u2019re deliberately depriving yourself of happiness.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. Perd\u00f3n<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You said something you didn\u2019t really mean and you\u2019re genuinely sorry for it, but you\u2019re afraid to seek forgiveness because you think you will be rejected.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ninguna persona deber\u00eda temer pedir perd\u00f3n cuando lo siente de verdad (sobre todo si no es para tanto y sobre todo si le has perdonado varias veces hasta ahora).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re afraid to ask for forgiveness, it means he\u2019s definitely not worthy of you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

9. Respetar<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

El respeto es nuestro derecho humano desde que nacemos y nunca se te ocurra quedarte callado ante cualquier tipo de falta de respeto o maltrato.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re afraid to speak your mind and tell him that you deserve better conduct and respect from him, it means he\u2019s in a way emotionally abusing you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And you definitely shouldn\u2019t accept such treatment in return!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 7 formas de protegerse del maltrato emocional<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

10. Esfuerzo<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si es evidente que te est\u00e1 dando por sentado y nunca hace nada para que te sientas especial<\/a>, it means he\u2019s a selfish and egocentric low-effort prick.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And if you\u2019re afraid to acknowledge it to his face, it means he\u2019s even bigger prick and you should make a run for it ASAP.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Recuerde que real men don\u2019t make excuses \u2013 they make an effort<\/a> sin ni siquiera tener que ped\u00edrselo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Los hombres de verdad nunca te har\u00edan cuestionar sus intenciones y nunca te har\u00edan sentir menos importante; su prioridad n\u00famero uno es tu felicidad.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As\u00ed que espera a un hombre que te muestre el verdadero significado de esforzarse y que nunca te decepcionar\u00e1, pase lo que pase.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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