Te quedas confuso y destrozado, y tu autoestima est\u00e1 ahora por los suelos. Dejas de creer en ti mismo y piensas que ella es mucho mejor que t\u00fa, incluso cuando los dem\u00e1s intentan se\u00f1alarte todas tus ventajas.<\/p>\n
As\u00ed que aqu\u00ed tienes algunos pasos para evitar compararte con ella:<\/p>\n
Al\u00e9jate de su p\u00e1gina en las redes sociales<\/h2>\n
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Esa puede ser la parte m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil, porque hoy en d\u00eda la gente est\u00e1 deseando colgarlo todo en las redes sociales y todos tenemos un poco de voyeur dentro.<\/p>\n
By visiting her and his pages, you will most likely see some photos of them together and burst into tears again. Everyone puts idyllic photos on social media \u2013 remember, it\u2019s not real!<\/p>\n
Deber\u00edas bloquearlos a ambos o incluso alejarte de tu propia p\u00e1gina de FB o IG por un tiempo.<\/p>\n
Deja de preguntar por ella<\/h2>\n
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Puede que finjas que ya no te interesan sus vidas ni la de ella, pero todos sabemos que est\u00e1s soltando su nombre a prop\u00f3sito.<\/p>\n
Mejor ded\u00edcate a tu propia vida y a la de tus amigos y familiares. Ella no es el centro de tu universo; no es una persona importante en absoluto.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t compare your physical appearance to hers<\/h2>\n
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She might be prettier, taller, or younger and therefore have glowing skin, but you are a beautiful individual with your own features and personal style. You shouldn\u2019t need to crave someone else\u2019s looks.<\/p>\n
Si fue su f\u00edsico lo que hizo que tu ex te dejara, entonces eres una persona feliz por no estar m\u00e1s con \u00e9l porque es muy superficial.<\/p>\n
En realidad deber\u00edas sentir l\u00e1stima por ella porque \u00e9l podr\u00eda volver a hacer lo mismo si ella envejece o engorda.<\/p>\n
Deja de culparte<\/h2>\n
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Si pensabas que vuestra relaci\u00f3n iba bastante bien y nunca viste grandes problemas, entonces est\u00e1s mejor sin \u00e9l. No es una persona segura de s\u00ed misma y podr\u00eda dejarte en el peor momento.<\/p>\n
It is not your fault that she stumbled into his world at that moment and he didn\u2019t have the guts to confront you or try to mend things.<\/p>\n
He was the one running away and she obviously had no concerns with him being involved with you \u2013 that\u2019s her issue.<\/p>\n
No es perfecta<\/h2>\n
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No hay ninguna posibilidad de que sea la chica m\u00e1s guapa, inteligente o amable que jam\u00e1s haya conocido.<\/p>\n
Puede que tenga los pies feos, que tenga mal genio cuando se emborracha, que no sea capaz de cocinar su comida favorita tan bien como t\u00fa. Puede que le ponga los cuernos o que se casen dentro de un mes, qui\u00e9n sabe.<\/p>\n
Pronto se dar\u00e1 cuenta de que ella no es tan perfecta como pensaba. Puede que se parezca a ti a sus ojos y que acabe enga\u00f1\u00e1ndola con otra mujer. Sin embargo, ella no es perfecta, \u00a1porque nadie lo es!<\/p>\n
At the end of the day, if he left you like that, he was never good enough for you. And he is obviously not mature enough because he doesn\u2019t want to fix things, just replace them.<\/p>\n
And she might get replaced too \u2013 or not. Regardless, ask yourself if you would have stayed with your ex after all. Maybe those two deserve each other.<\/p>\n
The point is, you should never change your appearance or interests to make someone love you or try to copy the other woman, thinking she\u2019s doing everything better.<\/p>\n
Tarde o temprano, ella se desvanecer\u00e1 y \u00e9l se dar\u00e1 cuenta de que, para empezar, ella no es tan especial.<\/p>\n
\u00bfY t\u00fa? Trabaja en ti mismo, s\u00e9 fiel a ti mismo y ve a conocer gente nueva.<\/p>\n
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