{"id":40043,"date":"2019-07-09T07:06:20","date_gmt":"2019-07-09T07:06:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40043"},"modified":"2021-09-08T10:17:36","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T10:17:36","slug":"5-maneras-de-saber-si-es-amor-de-verdad-o-solo-una-ilusion-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-maneras-de-saber-si-es-amor-de-verdad-o-solo-una-ilusion-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"5 maneras de saber si es amor de verdad o s\u00f3lo una ilusi\u00f3n narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"

El amor es una calle de doble sentido. Ambos miembros de la pareja deben dar tanto como esperan recibir si se empe\u00f1an en que funcione. Y si es as\u00ed amor verdadero<\/a>, that shouldn\u2019t be a problem. Not one bit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pero cuando se trata de narcisistas, las cosas son un poco diferentes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lo que usted y yo consideramos amor, un narcisista lo ve como una oportunidad para atraer a otra v\u00edctima a su red de mentiras encantadoras y manipuladoras y falsas promesas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They don\u2019t see love the way we do, and they aren\u2019t capable of feeling it as deeply and profoundly as we are. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

They can fake it, and they are damn good at it. And that\u2019s the scariest thing of them all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How do you know if you\u2019re experiencing real love or if it\u2019s all just a well thought-out scam, designed to suck you dry and leave you hopeless? How do you know if you\u2019re living a narcissistic illusion?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Es una mierda que a menudo se llegue tan lejos. Apesta que tus esperanzas y sue\u00f1os sean aplastados debido a un hombre manipulador, carism\u00e1tico y encantador que no es m\u00e1s que un narcisista t\u00f3xico disfrazado<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Es tan lamentable hasta d\u00f3nde est\u00e1n dispuestos a llegar estos hombres y c\u00f3mo son capaces de salirse con la suya. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfY para qu\u00e9? Para aumentar su ego ya demasiado inflado y sentirse en control. Para usarte a ti y a todas las v\u00edctimas que vengan despu\u00e9s como saco de boxeo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In a narcissist\u2019s mind, love is but a means to an end. It is a perfect opportunity to manipulate, lie, deceive and demean. It is a game of sex and power. And they always win, don\u2019t they?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuando un narcisista te dice que te quiere, s\u00f3lo est\u00e1 siendo manipulador y cuidadoso. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sus palabras son tan vac\u00edas como su incapacidad para sentirlas realmente. Para \u00e9l, significa menos que nada. Y por eso le duele tanto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Knowing that you fell for the fake words of a controlling, sociopathic narcissist can be extremely discouraging. So here are 5 ways to know if you\u2019re experiencing real love or if it\u2019s all just a narcissistic illusion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Si fuera amor de verdad, le har\u00eda feliz verte feliz<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Simple y llanamente. La gente que se preocupa de verdad por ti salta de alegr\u00eda cuando te pasan cosas buenas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

They just can\u2019t help it. But when it\u2019s an illusion, they will try to appear happy and proud, but you\u2019ll be able to tell that it\u2019s fake.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They will put on a wide, fake smile, but their eyes won\u2019t be able to hide their emptiness. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sus ojos te dir\u00e1n todo lo que necesitas saber. All\u00ed ver\u00e1s el vac\u00edo, el vac\u00edo y la manipulaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He will try to fool you, but if you look really closely, you\u2019ll be able to tell the difference. And at that moment, you\u2019ll know for sure what you\u2019ve been denying all this time. It\u2019s not love\u2026 just a carefully planted illusion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Si fuera amor de verdad, tratarte con amabilidad ser\u00eda su prioridad<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Cuando quieres a alguien, le tratas bien. Le deseas lo mejor y haces todo lo que est\u00e1 en tu mano para preservar su bienestar y su felicidad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But when it\u2019s nothing but an illusion, things are way different. He will pretend he is doing something for your own good, but it will herirte<\/a> y hacerte sentir mal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even though he will assure you that he means well, it won\u2019t feel that way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sus palabras ser\u00e1n una cosa, pero sus acciones ser\u00e1n algo completamente diferente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Constantemente har\u00e1 cosas que perjudiquen tu bienestar y lo enmascarar\u00e1 con sus palabras como algo necesario para que crezcas y evoluciones. Sus palabras ser\u00e1n amables, pero sus acciones ser\u00e1n mezquinas y degradantes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Si fuera amor de verdad, tratar\u00eda vuestra relaci\u00f3n como una asociaci\u00f3n<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Si su amor fuera sincero, te considerar\u00eda una igual. Nunca te har\u00eda sentir que le debes algo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nunca tendr\u00e1s que sentirte menos que nadie, porque la relaci\u00f3n de pareja prosperar\u00e1 gracias al amor y el esfuerzo mutuos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But when you\u2019re living in a narcissistic illusion, he\u2019s the one in control. He\u2019s the one making the decisions, and he\u2019s the one with the upper hand. It\u2019s never you, and deep down, you know you\u2019re being played.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Intentar\u00e1 que parezca que tu opini\u00f3n importa, e incluso puede que te la pida. Pero a la hora de la verdad, lo \u00fanico que importa son sus actos y sus palabras. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Puedes decir lo que quieras, pero te entra por un o\u00eddo y te sale por el otro. No es m\u00e1s que ilusi\u00f3n y fantas\u00eda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Si fuera amor de verdad, nunca te pedir\u00eda cosas que te hacen sentir inc\u00f3moda<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Si te quisiera de verdad, te respetar\u00eda a ti y a tus deseos. Nunca te pedir\u00eda que hicieras nada que te hiciera sentir inc\u00f3moda. Te respetar\u00eda demasiado como para ponerte en esas horribles situaciones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But when it\u2019s an illusion, he will do whatever the hell he wants and make you believe that\u2019s what you want as well. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He will be so charming and convincing that you\u2019ll actually believe him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pero, en el fondo, sabes lo que te hace sentir bien y lo que te revuelve el est\u00f3mago. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If your guy causes the latter, you\u2019re living in an illusion that is slowly making you sick.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Si fuera amor de verdad nunca te har\u00eda elegir entre \u00e9l y tu familia y amigos<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Si tu hombre<\/a> realmente te amara, sabr\u00eda que tus seres queridos son una extensi\u00f3n de ti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Los amar\u00eda y los aceptar\u00eda como parte de lo que eres. Y ser\u00eda un placer para \u00e9l hacerlo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pero vivir en una ilusi\u00f3n narcisista significa perder poco a poco el contacto con las personas m\u00e1s cercanas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The guy is slowly alienating you from your support system and making you believe you don\u2019t need them in the first place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In his mind, he is the only one you\u2019ll ever need. And he won\u2019t be happy until he has distanced you from every single person you cherish. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That is his ultimate goal, and he won\u2019t stop until it\u2019s done. So MAKE him stop by realizing what he\u2019s doing, and choosing your family over a narcissistic egomaniac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That will be the best decision you will ever make, and it\u2019s not even close. Choose yourself, love yourself, and ALWAYS be your amazing self. Everybody else is already taken.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Love is a two-way street. Both partners need to give as much as they expect to receive if they are adamant to make it work. And if it is real love, that shouldn\u2019t be a problem. Not one bit. But when it comes to narcissists, things are a bit different. What you and I consider…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":40050,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40043","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_501607234.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40043","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40043"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40043\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/40050"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40043"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40043"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40043"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}