{"id":40130,"date":"2019-07-10T07:45:43","date_gmt":"2019-07-10T07:45:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40130"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:42:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:42:31","slug":"el-no-es-malo-en-los-mensajes-de-texto-hes-ya-sea-perezoso-o-no-que-en-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-no-es-malo-en-los-mensajes-de-texto-hes-ya-sea-perezoso-o-no-que-en-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"No es \"malo enviando mensajes\", o es vago o no le gustas tanto"},"content":{"rendered":"

If I could go back to that moment he first used the \u201cI\u2019m bad at texting\u201d excuse, I would slap myself out of that romantic daydream ASAP and see him for who he is right then and there. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De este modo, perd\u00ed demasiado tiempo y soport\u00e9 un mundo de dolor por alguien indigno. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I knew the truth deep down: he was just another selfish prick who has no other agenda other than doing what\u2019s convenient for him. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aun as\u00ed, justificaba su comportamiento porque ten\u00eda muchas ganas de confiar en \u00e9l. Recuerdo que pens\u00e9 que los mensajes de texto no son tan importantes, hay otras cosas m\u00e1s importantes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But it is important. Texting, messaging, snapchatting, calling \u2013 they are all ways of keeping in touch. They are all small ways to demu\u00e9strale a alguien cu\u00e1nto te importa<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se tarda tan poco tiempo en enviar un mensaje de texto a alguien y, sin embargo, significa tanto para alguien que espera ese mensaje. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 tiene que ser todo tan complicado cuando se trata de simples mensajes de texto? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"No<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Along with being lazy and uninterested, there might be one more reason for them not texting \u2013 they\u2019re playing games. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al no iniciar los mensajes de texto, retrasar las respuestas o contestar tarde, quieren parecer fuera de su alcance para que puedas perseguirles. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Perhaps they are counting on women to want what they can\u2019t easily have. Which is true \u2013 to a point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But somebody should tell them that women also don\u2019t appreciate someone messing with their heads. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you don\u2019t like that either, simply don\u2019t play along. It will just come out to bite you in the end. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t fall for the \u201cbad texter\u201d  excuse. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI am not into texting,\u201d and all the varieties of that excuse are lame. A decade ago, this could pass as a solid excuse, but today it\u2019s just ridiculous. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Los mensajes de texto son una de las formas m\u00e1s sencillas de comunicaci\u00f3n hoy en d\u00eda y cualquier persona adulta que diga que es mala enviando mensajes de texto deber\u00eda sentir verg\u00fcenza al instante. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Recibi\u00f3 tu mensaje. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

En esta era moderna, una cosa es segura: recibi\u00f3 tu texto. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unless his phone is powered off, stolen, lost, broken, or drowning in his toilet bowl, they\u2019ve surely already read your text. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

There is no need for a follow-up text, because that\u2019s never a good idea and it just makes you look desperate. He doesn\u2019t need that ego boost. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Naturally, if your text came at some inconvenient hour \u2013 for instance, when he\u2019s sleeping \u2013 he can\u2019t respond immediately. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Still, he should send you a reply as soon as he can. It’s a basic form of respect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You know how the \u201cI\u2019ve been busy\u201d story goes. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t need to hear it again. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He will say that he was super busy and didn\u2019t have time to reply (till the next day),  he didn\u2019t checked in because he was swamped at work, and all the excuses in between. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vamos, nadie est\u00e1 tan ocupado. Creo que la persona m\u00e1s ocupada del mundo se toma un momento de su tiempo para enviar un mensaje de texto a su pareja. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"\"<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s all a matter of priorities. It\u2019s all about how much someone cares for you. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

La fea verdad que nadie quiere o\u00edr es: <\/em>Si realmente le importara, enviar\u00eda un mensaje. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aunque sea el peor texteador del mundo, har\u00eda un esfuerzo. Te llamar\u00eda. Encontrar\u00eda tiempo para verte m\u00e1s a menudo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Har\u00eda lo imposible antes de decir que se le dan mal los mensajes de texto. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Todo lo dem\u00e1s son excusas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sea honesto consigo mismo y ah\u00f3rrese mucho dolor y decepci\u00f3n m\u00e1s adelante. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If the reason he is supposedly \u201cbad at texting\u201d is lack of his interest in you, then it\u2019s pretty clear that you should try your luck somewhere else because with him there will be none. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Probablemente est\u00e9 jugando y mantenerte en el banquillo<\/a> enviando mensajes de vez en cuando. Si \u00e9l estaba en algo m\u00e1s, que enviar\u00eda mensajes de texto al menos una vez al d\u00eda. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aunque le d\u00e9 pereza enviar mensajes, no merece tu tiempo. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If he is unable to do the bare minimum \u2013 like texting you goodnight or good morning \u2013 right from the start, imagine how bad things are going to be later. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

As\u00ed que, conf\u00edo en que sepas hacerlo mejor la pr\u00f3xima vez que conozcas a alguien que diga que es malo enviando mensajes de texto y simplemente mires para otro lado. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because a man who doesn\u2019t make an effort isn\u2019t worth of yours either. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"No<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If I could go back to that moment he first used the \u201cI\u2019m bad at texting\u201d excuse, I would slap myself out of that romantic daydream ASAP and see him for who he is right then and there.  This way, I wasted too much of my time and endured a world of pain for somebody…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":34,"featured_media":40133,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29650],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40130","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-girl-code"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29650,"label":"girl code"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_617234354.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Inna Williams","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/inna\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29650,"name":"girl code","slug":"girl-code","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29650,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Only girls will understand these unedited truths about men and girl code rules. Join us at the girl cave, where no guy is allowed to enter.","parent":29643,"count":41,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29650,"category_count":41,"category_description":"Only girls will understand these unedited truths about men and girl code rules. Join us at the girl cave, where no guy is allowed to enter.","cat_name":"girl code","category_nicename":"girl-code","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40130","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/34"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40130"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40130\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/40133"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40130"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40130"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40130"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}