{"id":40159,"date":"2020-03-10T09:22:36","date_gmt":"2020-03-10T09:22:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40159"},"modified":"2022-05-04T11:04:29","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T11:04:29","slug":"pistantrofobia-definicion-sintomas-y-formas-de-superarla","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/pistantrofobia-definicion-sintomas-y-formas-de-superarla\/","title":{"rendered":"Pistantrofobia: definici\u00f3n, s\u00edntomas y formas de superarla"},"content":{"rendered":"

Definici\u00f3n de pistanthropia<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

La pistantrofobia es un miedo enorme a confiar en la gente debido a horribles experiencias pasadas.<\/p>\n

Es esa horrible sensaci\u00f3n de sentir celos en una nueva relaci\u00f3n porque otra persona te hizo da\u00f1o <\/a>en la anterior.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t feel nice when you have trust issues and you can’t relax in a new relationship because your previous partner hurt you in the last one.<\/p>\n

Es imaginar el peor escenario posible en tus relaciones futuras, incluso si lo que sientes es s\u00f3lo miedo irracional.<\/p>\n

This is something that happens to more and more Americans and that’s why many of them have failed relationships.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re uncertain whether or not you are suffering from pistanthrophobia, I suggest you check these symptoms and signs that can reveal this issue in time.<\/p>\n

S\u00edntomas de la pistantrop\u00eda<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Crees firmemente que cada nueva pareja te har\u00e1 da\u00f1o<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Si crees que cada persona nueva en tu vida amorosa te har\u00e1 da\u00f1o, es una se\u00f1al inequ\u00edvoca de que padeces este estado.<\/p>\n

You have a negative way of thinking because you have been hurt in the past and you simply can’t relax.<\/p>\n

Piensas que tarde o temprano tu ser querido te har\u00e1 da\u00f1o mientras imaginas el peor escenario posible en tu cabeza.<\/p>\n

That’s why you keep your walls up, not letting anyone in and get to know you better.<\/p>\n

Si este estado se prolonga durante mucho tiempo, puede volverse cr\u00f3nico y acabar actuando con frialdad hacia todo el mundo, impidiendo que los dem\u00e1s se acerquen a ti y lleguen a conocerte.<\/p>\n

Piensas demasiado<\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Pensar demasiado es muy com\u00fan si te encuentras en este estado mental. Aunque intentes entregar tu coraz\u00f3n a alguien, te necesitan seguridad constante<\/a> que te quieren.<\/p>\n

Si salen solos, te preocupar\u00e1 que te enga\u00f1en.<\/p>\n

But just because others were cheaters, it doesn’t mean that your loved will act the same.<\/p>\n

Debes saber que tus experiencias pasadas no equivalen a tus relaciones futuras.<\/p>\n

Si te relajas un poco m\u00e1s, ver\u00e1s que no hay nada de qu\u00e9 preocuparse.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s celoso todo el tiempo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nIf you always doubt that your partner will cheat on you, you won’t be able to live your life to the fullest.<\/p>\n

Instead of enjoying, you will constantly have trust issues you won’t be able to get rid of.<\/p>\n

Yes, intimate relationships are tricky and so many things can happen, but if you keep in a negative frame of mind, you will never be able to enjoy it fully. What you currently feel is irrational fear and it\u2019s not good for you.<\/p>\n

Si sigues viviendo as\u00ed, cerrar\u00e1s totalmente el contacto interpersonal con tu ser querido.<\/p>\n

M\u00e1s tarde, te convertir\u00e1s en un aislacionista, incapaz de hacer frente a los traumas del pasado. Y s\u00e9 que esa no es la vida que anhelas tener.<\/p>\n

Te encari\u00f1as f\u00e1cilmente<\/h2>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

Cuando sufras este miedo, empezar\u00e1s a creer en cuentos de hadas, deseando poder tener ese tipo de historia de amor.<\/p>\n

But we all know that fairy tales don’t exist unless you go the extra mile to create them.<\/p>\n

Tu problema es que te apegas con facilidad y necesitas seguridad constante en tu relaci\u00f3n actual.<\/p>\n

Even if you want a happy relationship, you think negatively so much that you can’t make one.<\/p>\n

You want your partner to be your best friend, your lover, and your soulmate the day you meet him, but you don’t think about the time that needs to pass to get there.<\/p>\n

Asumes que todas las personas son tramposas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nDebido a tantos problemas de confianza, piensas constantemente que todos los hombres acabar\u00e1n enga\u00f1\u00e1ndote.<\/p>\n

Tus relaciones \u00edntimas est\u00e1n llenas de pensamientos negativos que te convierten en una persona aislacionista y que odia a las personas.<\/p>\n

El motivo por el que mucha gente deja de seguirte y se aparta de ti es tu energ\u00eda negativa.<\/p>\n

Tus traumas del pasado tuvieron un gran impacto en tu vida amorosa y ya nada es tan sencillo como antes.<\/p>\n

Siente que no es lo suficientemente bueno para su pareja<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Como tienes problemas para confiar en la gente, desarrollar\u00e1s el miedo a no ser lo suficientemente bueno para tu pareja.<\/p>\n

It doesn’t happen immediately, but rather along the road after many failed relationships.<\/p>\n

Empiezas a ser cada vez m\u00e1s consciente de tu aspecto y tu forma de actuar, y crees que simplemente no eres lo bastante bueno.<\/p>\n

Vives con el miedo constante de que tu pareja se enamore de otra persona y acabes solo.<\/p>\n

Tienes cero confianza en tu pareja, que es la definici\u00f3n real de pistantrofobia, seg\u00fan Urban Dictionary.<\/p>\n

Sientes que nunca encontrar\u00e1s el amor verdadero<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nSince you\u2019re unable to trust others so easily, you know in advance that it\u2019s hard to find real love.<\/p>\n

De hecho, cree firmemente que ning\u00fan hombre te valorar\u00e1<\/a> y comprometerme contigo plenamente.<\/p>\n

Tienes esa mentalidad debido a malas experiencias que te ocurrieron antes.<\/p>\n

Despite you believing that you\u2019re the only one with these thoughts, there are a lot of Americans who struggle to get rid of this issue.<\/p>\n

Conocer gente nueva te hace sentir mal porque crees que te van a dar por sentada, sobre todo los hombres.<\/p>\n

Even if people close to you, like your best friend, try to convince you that everything is perfectly fine with you, you still won’t believe them.<\/p>\n

Si siente que su pareja no es lo que hab\u00eda imaginado, cerrar\u00e1 al instante el contacto interpersonal con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

You won’t even give him a chance to explain anything. And though this is a painful thing to find out, your attitude will be so bad that will make some people unfollow you.<\/p>\n

You hate meeting people thinking that you won’t like them<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando te encuentras en este estado de \u00e1nimo, no es muy f\u00e1cil acudir a reuniones sociales y fingir que te gusta toda esa gente.<\/p>\n

Debido a las malas experiencias que te han ocurrido, crees que todo el mundo te har\u00e1 da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

Simplemente tiene problemas para confiar en los dem\u00e1s y es muy dif\u00edcil quitarse ese h\u00e1bito.<\/p>\n

A quienes no conocen este estado les cuesta entender que es muy dif\u00edcil desarrollar una relaci\u00f3n feliz.<\/p>\n

Pero si lo intentas y sales de tu zona de confort, pueden ocurrir cosas incre\u00edbles. Cr\u00e9eme, \u00a1porque yo he pasado por eso!<\/p>\n

C\u00f3mo superar la pistantrofobia<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Conozca sus desencadenantes<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nSi quieres volver a confiar en los dem\u00e1s, especialmente en tu pareja, tienes que conocer los desencadenantes que te hacen sentir as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Once you find out what hurts you the most, try to work on that in everyday life. Step by step, get out of your comfort zone and do things you haven’t yet done.<\/p>\n

It will be tough at the beginning, but you\u2019ll learn new things about yourself and you\u2019ll feel much better.<\/p>\n

Date tiempo<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Different people react differently to some things. That’s why you can’t expect that you will overcome this state quickly.<\/p>\n

Lleva tiempo deshacerse de algo que tiene profundas ra\u00edces en tu interior. Ten paciencia y date tiempo para conocer mejor a tu nuevo yo.<\/p>\n

In that way, you don’t rush and you won’t feel any pressure. Everything will happen when it is supposed to happen and you will finally be able to empezar un nuevo cap\u00edtulo de tu vida.<\/a><\/p>\n

If you can’t do it alone, ask for therapy<\/h2>\n

\"mujer
\nIt is completely fine to ask for help if you feel that you can’t do it alone.<\/p>\n

Finding a good therapist will make you feel calmer and you\u2019ll know that you did something good for yourself.<\/p>\n

This is actually the best way to help yourself because you\u2019ll know exactly what you need to do to be the old version of yourself again.<\/p>\n

You won’t believe in fairy tales anymore; you will be aware of the reality around you.<\/p>\n

Intenta pensar en positivo<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

It is hard to switch from a negative mindset to a positive one in no time. That’s why you should work on that every day.<\/p>\n

Cuando te enfrentes a situaciones dif\u00edciles, intenta pensar de una forma distinta a la que sol\u00edas hacerlo.<\/p>\n

I know this is not easy, but you will never get where you want to be if you don’t try.<\/p>\n

Una vez que te liberes de una forma de pensar negativa, todo se ver\u00e1 mucho mejor.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9jese de las cosas negativas<\/h2>\n

\"vista
\nSi est\u00e1s constantemente rodeado de negatividad en tu vida, tendr\u00e1s m\u00e1s posibilidades de caer en la depresi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

That’s why you should step away from everything that disturbs your peace.<\/p>\n

If you think there are toxic people in your life, just cut them off. If you don’t like spending time in one place, just move to another.<\/p>\n

Pamper yourself, because you have been doing too much for people who don\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

It is finally time to put yourself first and live the life you\u2019re proud of. Remember, nothing is impossible if you really want it!<\/p>\n

In the end, I just want to say that there are no problems that you can’t solve.<\/p>\n

You can change your life even if you are 80 years old. It\u2019s never too late for good things.<\/p>\n

Hope you will listen to my advice and that you won’t sweat the small stuff anymore. I know that it is hardest to fight against yourself.<\/p>\n

But if you win, there isn’t any other battle that you can’t win!
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