{"id":40173,"date":"2019-07-10T10:23:07","date_gmt":"2019-07-10T10:23:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40173"},"modified":"2021-09-08T09:53:28","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T09:53:28","slug":"5-heridas-emocionales-de-tu-pasado-que-te-impiden-seguir-adelante","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-heridas-emocionales-de-tu-pasado-que-te-impiden-seguir-adelante\/","title":{"rendered":"5 heridas emocionales del pasado que le impiden seguir adelante"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cada desamor, cada amistad fallida y todas las desgracias de tu vida te han moldeado de alguna manera para convertirte en la mujer que eres hoy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Cada cicatriz que te has ganado te ha hecho un poco m\u00e1s fuerte. Cada dolor lecci\u00f3n de amor<\/a> te ha hecho un poco m\u00e1s precavido y cada decepci\u00f3n te ha hecho un poco m\u00e1s cerrado.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You didn\u2019t want it. You didn\u2019t expect it. But one thing after another has led you to become a different person than you used to be. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

El tipo de persona que ha perdido la chispa que una vez posey\u00f3 y cuyo entusiasmo por la vida se desvanece poco a poco.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Algunas heridas se curan y se quedan en el pasado, pero hay otras que siempre permanecen en el fondo y te impiden avanzar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Those emotional wounds are far too scarring not to leave a lasting mark on you. And as much as you try to pretend they\u2019re not there and that you\u2019re okay, they keep reminding you otherwise.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Some life experiences are just too damaging to kid yourself into thinking they wouldn\u2019t still have an effect on your life. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Puedes intentar huir y puedes intentar negarlo, pero algunas cosas siempre te van a alcanzar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Aqu\u00ed tienes 5 heridas emocionales de tu pasado que te est\u00e1n dificultando ver la luz al final del t\u00fanel. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As much as you wish they weren\u2019t there, you know they are the reason you just can\u2019t seem to move forward with that beaming smile you once had.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Ser humillado por alguien a quien quer\u00edas<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Ser humillado, en privado o en p\u00fablico, por una persona a la que aprecias tanto es una de las p\u00edldoras m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles de tragar. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Que te arrebaten la dignidad y te conviertan en un objeto de degradaci\u00f3n es extremadamente dif\u00edcil de procesar y superar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Cuando una persona a la que amas profundamente te quita eso, te hace dif\u00edcil confiar en alguien despu\u00e9s de ella.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Te hicieron sentir bajo, sin valor e irrelevante. Recuperarse de eso va a ser un trabajo duro. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This emotional wound is forever engraved in you and it will always make your eyes tear up when you\u2019re randomly reminded of it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Sentirte decepcionado por la persona que ten\u00edas en un pedestal<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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These days, it\u2019s hard letting people in. It\u2019s hard letting somebody occupy a huge chunk of your heart, letting them settle in comfortably in your mind and in tu alma<\/a>esperando que nunca deseen abandonar ese lugar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Hasta que lo hagan. Hasta que decidan que tu coraz\u00f3n ya no es lo suficientemente bueno. Hasta que decidan que ya no eres lo que quieren. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Simplemente se van y a ti s\u00f3lo te queda una mente decepcionada que se pregunta por qu\u00e9 ha tenido que ocurrir.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Why weren\u2019t you enough? Why did the person you let so close to you end up being the worst thing for you?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo es que siempre te pasa a ti y c\u00f3mo se supone que vas a confiar ya en nadie?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Ser enga\u00f1ado<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Le dejaste entrar en tu vida y todo lo que pediste fue una cosa. Fidelidad. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lo \u00fanico que esperabas era que te respetaran y que no te dejaran en rid\u00edculo. Y sin embargo, de alguna manera, eso termin\u00f3 sucediendo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Busc\u00f3 la compa\u00f1\u00eda de otra mujer y nunca entender\u00e1s por qu\u00e9. Nunca sabr\u00e1s qu\u00e9 le llev\u00f3 a acostarse con una chica cualquiera cuando t\u00fa estabas all\u00ed mismo, dispuesta a darle todo lo que quisiera de ti.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And now, you expect the same thing from anyone who enters your life. You don\u2019t want to be a skeptic but that\u2019s what he made you into.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You don\u2019t want to expect the next guy to do the worst thing but you do. That scar will always be there and you are finding it hard to shake it off.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Que alguien a quien quer\u00edas te sea indiferente<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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La indiferencia es el peor sentimiento que existe. No te aceptan y no te ignoran. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You are simply not even considered. It\u2019s like you\u2019re such a waste of time that you\u2019re not worth being noticed.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And that hurts more than being ignored. Because when you\u2019re ignored, at least your presence is noticed. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Usted es una opci\u00f3n<\/a> and you are in the mix. But when somebody you care for is indifferent to you, it feels like you\u2019re merely a shadow of a person.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A fly on the wall that is clearly there but nobody can see it. Or worse yet\u2026 nobody wants to see it. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It hurts and you\u2019d rather be alone than risk feeling this void ever again. Being hurt at least makes you feel algo<\/em>. Esto te hace sentir invisible.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Perder a un ser querido<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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It goes without saying that losing a loved one is the hardest thing to deal with. It wasn\u2019t something that was meant to hurt you. It wasn\u2019t planned. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And it wasn\u2019t about YOU. It was the worst thing you ever experienced and it hit you like a thousand blows to your chest.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It just happened, they left this earth and your life suddenly turned gray and your soul became numb. You didn\u2019t know how to deal with it. You couldn\u2019t comprehend the pain that was overcoming every fiber of your being.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Te quedaste all\u00ed inconsolable, devastado e incapaz de entender por qu\u00e9.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Incapaz de aceptar que se hab\u00edan ido. Incapaz de aceptar que ya no pod\u00edas sentir su presencia f\u00edsica en tu vida. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The one you would\u2019ve given your life for\u2026 lost theirs. And now\u2026 nothing is the same and nothing will ever be the same again.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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