{"id":40174,"date":"2020-08-10T10:39:53","date_gmt":"2020-08-10T10:39:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40174"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:08:02","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:08:02","slug":"7-razones-por-las-que-se-comprometio-con-otra-chica-despues-de-haber-sido-casual-contigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-razones-por-las-que-se-comprometio-con-otra-chica-despues-de-haber-sido-casual-contigo\/","title":{"rendered":"7 razones por las que se comprometi\u00f3 con otra chica despu\u00e9s de salir contigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Estoy seguro de que conoces la famosa frase: \"No te pasa nada, soy yo\".<\/p>\n

De hecho, esto me pas\u00f3 a m\u00ed y tambi\u00e9n a algunas de mis amigas, que estuvieron saliendo con un chico durante unas semanas y todo parec\u00eda perfecto.<\/p>\n

Estaban seguros al cien por cien de que establecer\u00edan una saludable, relaci\u00f3n comprometida<\/span><\/a> (como yo).<\/p>\n

And then, all of a sudden, the guy told them that he didn\u2019t want anything serious. To be more specific, the guy told them that he was NOT INTERESTED in anything serious.<\/p>\n

Lord knows when someone tells me this, I instantly withdraw and respect their opinion because I\u2019m definitely not desperate and neither are my friends. But what happened next is what actually caught my attention.<\/p>\n

Poco despu\u00e9s de decir que no estaban interesados en nada serio, todos y cada uno de ellos estaban en una relaci\u00f3n seria y comprometida. \u00a1Qu\u00e9 iron\u00eda!<\/p>\n

Al principio, mi \u00fanico deseo era borrar a toda la especie masculina del planeta, pero luego llegu\u00e9 a una soluci\u00f3n m\u00e1s racional.<\/p>\n

Since there\u2019s no point in holding grudges forever, my friends and I decided to look at things from a different perspective.<\/p>\n

We tried to understand and explain this phenomenon of the guy \u2018who wants something casual\u2019 but then commits to the next girl and if you\u2019re going through the same, here are 7 possible reasons why he committed to another girl after going casual with you!<\/p>\n

He does want commitment, he just doesn\u2019t want it with you<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

I know it sounds harsh but sometimes it\u2019s the truth. Many guys out there really do want commitment but with the right one. Now, what does this mean?<\/p>\n

This definitely doesn\u2019t mean that there is something wrong with you or that you should have changed for him only to make him commit to you. No.<\/p>\n

It means you just weren\u2019t meant to be together and there\u2019s no point in blaming him for committing to the next girl.<\/p>\n

En realidad, deber\u00edas darle las gracias por no comprometerse contigo porque te acaba de ahorrar mucha ansiedad y te ha evitado un desenga\u00f1o a\u00fan m\u00e1s doloroso.<\/p>\n

No tiene ni idea de lo que quiere<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

And there\u2019s this other category of guys who have no idea what they really want. To me, personally, this is the worst one.<\/p>\n

Cuando un chico no tiene ni idea de lo que quiere, con qui\u00e9n lo quiere, cu\u00e1ndo o c\u00f3mo, las posibilidades de que la cague son realmente altas.<\/p>\n

Y por no mencionar que ser indecisa es un gran rechazo para cualquier mujer. As\u00ed que, si te dijo una cosa un d\u00eda y otra al siguiente, ya sabes que no ten\u00eda ni idea de lo que realmente quer\u00eda (y puedes alabar al Se\u00f1or por haberlo dejado).<\/p>\n

E incluso si decidiera comprometerse contigo, pronto probablemente cambiar\u00eda de opini\u00f3n y repetir\u00eda los mismos escenarios una y otra vez. Quiero decir, \u00bfqui\u00e9n necesita esto en su vida? Exactamente nadie.<\/p>\n

Ya estaba viendo a alguien m\u00e1s<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s an interesting one. There are some guys who, due to being indecisive or just due to being the ultimate assholes, choose to date two girls simultaneously (of course, without telling them this). You can probably guess the rest of the scenario.<\/p>\n

Sali\u00f3 con las dos y de repente se dio cuenta de que le gustaba m\u00e1s la otra chica, as\u00ed que decidi\u00f3 comprometerse con ella y abandonarte.<\/p>\n

Ah, el mundo en que vivimos. Tambi\u00e9n puedes interpretar esto como su falta de voluntad para herir tus sentimientos<\/span><\/a> o su falta de voluntad para ser atrapado en el acto. T\u00fa eliges.<\/p>\n

Era el momento equivocado<\/h2>\n

\"el<\/p>\n

Y a veces las cosas van muy bien, pero no es el momento adecuado. Tal vez algo sucedi\u00f3 en su vida que cambi\u00f3 su perspectiva sobre las relaciones en el momento en que estaba contigo. Y cuando conoci\u00f3 a la otra chica, el momento era el adecuado.<\/p>\n

Again, I would link this one with the first one that says you just weren\u2019t meant to be. After all, when two people are bound to be together, there is just no wrong time.<\/p>\n

Y si est\u00e1 mal, seguramente volver\u00edan a encontrarse cuando sea el momento adecuado. Visto as\u00ed, parece bastante razonable.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s facing external pressure<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Believe it or not, sometimes guys are facing external pressure from their friends or family. Sometimes the people close to them don\u2019t really like the girl they are dating, so they feel pressured to quit things.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve noticed that any of this was going on, then this could be the reason why he committed to another girl after going casual with you.<\/p>\n

Again, if this is the reason why he did that, it only shows his weakness and fickleness. It means he doesn\u2019t trust himself and he dances to other people\u2019s tunes.<\/p>\n

Now, I\u2019m not saying that he should never listen to his friends and family no matter what. Indeed he should but he should also listen to himself as well and that is the main characteristic of real men.<\/p>\n

Sus asociaciones con el compromiso cambiaron despu\u00e9s de perderte<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

When you mention the word \u2018commitment\u2019 to any guy, he will see it as something imprisoning. Boys and young men are encouraged to have fun, explore the world and only after to settle down to commit.<\/p>\n

And if the guy you were dating didn\u2019t go through any of this, he will feel imprisoned with you and he will tell you that he is not interested in or ready for anything serious.<\/p>\n

And after he\u2019s had his fun and explored the world, his associations with commitment will change. So, when he meets the next suitable girl, he will choose to commit to her because he feels he\u2019s finally ready for it.<\/p>\n

He really didn\u2019t want commitment but the right one came along<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

And the last but not the least. There are some guys who really didn\u2019t want commitment, not with you or with any others but somehow the right one came along after you.<\/p>\n

If this is the case, you can\u2019t really blame him because he was consistent in his decision that he didn\u2019t want commitment but then he was kind of forced to change his mind because he finally met the right one.<\/p>\n

And I can assure you that the same will happen to you sooner than you think and you will be happy that things didn\u2019t work out with the guy who refused to commit.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/b> 7 cosas que sentir\u00e1s cuando conozcas a la persona adecuada<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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