{"id":40195,"date":"2020-11-10T12:17:46","date_gmt":"2020-11-10T12:17:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40195"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:40:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:40:25","slug":"7-argumentos-que-senalan-el-principio-del-fin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-argumentos-que-senalan-el-principio-del-fin\/","title":{"rendered":"7 discusiones que se\u00f1alan el principio del fin"},"content":{"rendered":"

En cualquier relaci\u00f3n habr\u00e1 pruebas y tribulaciones, y las sanas son capaces de soportarlas todas. Pelear forma parte de la vida, y una dosis normal es perfectamente normal y esperable.<\/p>\r\n

God knows that I\u2019ve had my fair share of arguments with mi hombre<\/a>, but I actually believe that it only brings us closer. Because if we didn\u2019t fight, ever\u2026 how would I even know he cared enough about me to fight for me?<\/p>\r\n

It is general knowledge that when a person is indifferent, they don\u2019t feel like fighting and just let the other person win. But the opposite means that you actually care deeply for one another.<\/p>\r\n

Discutir de vez en cuando est\u00e1 bien. Pero ciertos tipos de discusiones y su volumen y frecuencia podr\u00edan ser una se\u00f1al de que el final est\u00e1 cerca.<\/p>\r\n

There are some things that are worth fighting over, and some that are beyond any argument. And if you and your man engage in any of the following 7 types of arguments, I\u2019m sorry to say this, but it is possible that it is the beginning of your end.<\/p>\r\n

Aver\u00edg\u00fcelo y, si es posible, haga algunos cambios antes de que le cueste caro. tu relaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n

Aqu\u00ed tienes 7 tipos de discusiones que son serias se\u00f1ales de alarma para tu relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n

Argumentos sobre los objetivos y aspiraciones vitales<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

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If you and your man simply aren\u2019t in sync when it comes to this serious issue, you\u2019ve got a problem on your hands.<\/p>\r\n

Las relaciones duraderas se basan en el respeto mutuo y la capacidad de compromiso.<\/p>\r\n

But if you two just can\u2019t see eye-to-eye on things such as where you\u2019re going to live, what you\u2019re going to do with your life, and where you see yourselves in 5 years time, perhaps you\u2019re only postponing the inevitable.<\/p>\r\n

De cara al futuro, los dos deber\u00edais coincidir en estas cuestiones, y vuestro futuro deber\u00eda incluiros el uno al otro sin ninguna duda.<\/p>\r\n

But if you\u2019re unsure about what that is and what it means for the both of you, it\u2019s not looking good.<\/p>\r\n

Discusiones sobre su vida sexual<\/h2>\r\n

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Lo que ocurre entre las s\u00e1banas es asunto exclusivamente tuyo. Nadie puede decirte lo que debe gustarte o disgustarte y lo que debes aguantar.<\/p>\r\n

Esa es tu prerrogativa, y nunca debe ser algo que sacrifiques por nadie.<\/p>\r\n

If your man likes to have sex in a way that doesn\u2019t suit you, that\u2019s a problem.<\/p>\r\n

If your man pressures you into having sex when you\u2019re not into it, that\u2019s also problematic.<\/p>\r\n

If you can\u2019t enjoy being intimate with him due to all of these issues, you shouldn\u2019t put up with it.<\/p>\r\n

You have to be able to be open and honest when it comes to sex. If you are unhappy and can\u2019t really work it out no matter how hard you try, maybe you\u2019re not with the right person after all.<\/p>\r\n

Argumentos sobre la necesidad de que un miembro de la pareja cambie por el otro<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

\"un<\/p>\r\n

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\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has intentado cambiar algo de otra persona y cu\u00e1ntas veces lo has conseguido?<\/p>\r\n

I think I already know the answer. People are who they are, period. If you want to change them, you don\u2019t really deserve them.<\/p>\r\n

If you can\u2019t accept your man for who he is and vice versa, why don\u2019t you just find someone who actually works for you?<\/p>\r\n

Instead of changing the person you\u2019re with, leave them be, and find somebody you won\u2019t want to change. It\u2019s that simple!<\/p>\r\n

Argumentos donde siempre tienes que tener la \u00faltima palabra<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

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Pelear en una relaci\u00f3n nunca debe ser ganar. Nunca debe tratarse de tener raz\u00f3n o no.<\/p>\r\n

It should be a way to find a common ground that you\u2019re BOTH okay with.<\/p>\r\n

If you\u2019re using these arguments simply to have the last word and you keep tabs on who\u2019s right or wrong, you\u2019re in it for all the wrong reasons.<\/p>\r\n

Piense en ello. El bienestar de tu relaci\u00f3n deber\u00eda SIEMPRE sea su prioridad<\/a> – no<\/em> tener raz\u00f3n o re\u00edr el \u00faltimo.<\/p>\r\n

Argumentos sobre sus finanzas<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

\"un<\/p>\r\n\r\n

You should have a system where you both contribute and nobody feels like they\u2019re being used or taken advantage of.<\/p>\r\n

If you\u2019re not okay with how much money is spent on certain things, you need to speak up.<\/p>\r\n

If you keep fighting about money and how you spend it, it\u2019s not going to change unless you have a mature conversation about it and make adjustments that work for the both of you.<\/p>\r\n

If you can\u2019t find a way that makes you happy, it\u2019s a problem.<\/p>\r\n

Las finanzas son una parte importante de las relaciones, y tus h\u00e1bitos de gasto deben ser consensuados. Cualquier otra cosa es el principio de un final muy turbio.<\/p>\r\n

Argumentos sobre lo mismo en un bucle<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

\"un<\/p>\r\n\r\n

When you keep fighting about the very same thing over and over again, I think you already know it\u2019s a red flag.<\/p>\r\n

Not being able to find a compromise you\u2019re both fine with is a problem. Right now it might be a minor argument that doesn\u2019t seem so serious.<\/p>\r\n

But over time and as your relationship progresses, it\u2019s only going to get worse.<\/p>\r\n

Either get your affairs in order or accept that it\u2019s just not worth it being with someone you can\u2019t find middle ground with.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s hurting you both, and it\u2019s unfair to the both of you.<\/p>\r\n

Argumentos de que la otra persona no se esfuerce<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

\"un<\/p>\r\n

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If your spark is dying and you feel your partner can\u2019t be bothered, it doesn\u2019t seem like the fairy-tale ending you always wished for.<\/p>\r\n

Y si tu pareja tiene alg\u00fan problema con el esfuerzo que pones para que funcione, tambi\u00e9n es una mala se\u00f1al.<\/p>\r\n

You should never feel like your partner doesn\u2019t care enough to make you feel special, and vice versa.<\/p>\r\n

Por supuesto que habr\u00e1 zonas dif\u00edciles<\/a>pero las relaciones que merecen la pena siempre recuperan la chispa. Piensa en ello.<\/p>\r\n

\u00bfRealmente est\u00e1is intentando que esto siga adelante, o ambos os hab\u00e9is rendido en secreto y ten\u00e9is miedo de admitirlo?<\/p>\r\n

The sooner you accept reality, the sooner you\u2019re going to feel like the weight of the world has fallen off your shoulders.<\/p>\r\n

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