{"id":40347,"date":"2019-07-11T13:36:50","date_gmt":"2019-07-11T13:36:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40347"},"modified":"2022-01-13T00:28:54","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T00:28:54","slug":"darle-otra-oportunidad-significa-darte-otro-desengano","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/darle-otra-oportunidad-significa-darte-otro-desengano\/","title":{"rendered":"Darle otra oportunidad significa darte otra decepci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

S\u00e9 que le quieres. S\u00e9 que m\u00e1s que nada, quieres que las cosas entre vosotros funcionen.<\/p>\r\n

A pesar de que tu mente te dice lo contrario, tu coraz\u00f3n quiere creer que cambiar\u00e1. A pesar de que tu mente te dice que miente, tu coraz\u00f3n quiere creer en sus promesas y justificaciones vac\u00edas.<\/p>\r\n

From this point of view, you can\u2019t imagine your life without this man by your side. You keep on forgiving him things you know you shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\r\n

Sigues mirando para otro lado cuando comete un error, todo con la esperanza de que alg\u00fan d\u00eda vuestra relaci\u00f3n sea diferente. Dejas que te mienta, y lo que es peor, te mientes a ti misma, confiando en \u00e9l.<\/p>\r\n

As\u00ed que sigue d\u00e1ndole segundas oportunidades<\/span><\/a>. You keep praying that this time it will be the last time\u2014that this time he\u2019ll come back to you as a new man, as the man you want and need him to be.<\/p>\r\n

That this time, things will finally fall into place; that he\u2019ll see he can\u2019t live without you either and that he\u2019ll finally learn to appreciate and respect you.<\/p>\r\n

\"Darle<\/p>\r\n

Por supuesto, cada vez que vuelve a las andadas, te prometes a ti misma que \u00e9sta fue la \u00faltima vez que ca\u00edste en sus enga\u00f1os; la \u00faltima vez que te humillaste acept\u00e1ndole de nuevo.<\/p>\r\n

Sin embargo, antes de que te des cuenta, te encuentras de nuevo en el c\u00edrculo interminable de rupturas y reconciliaciones; en el c\u00edrculo interminable de sus mentiras y tus esperanzas; en el c\u00edrculo interminable de segundas oportunidades interminables que \u00e9l siempre encuentra la manera de echar a perder.<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t worry, I won\u2019t be a smartass who will try to tell you that it is easy to turn down a man you\u2019re crazy for because it is without a doubt one of the most painful and bravest things a woman has to do.<\/p>\r\n

I know that he begs, that he cries, and that he doesn\u2019t leave you alone until le dejaste arrastrarse de nuevo en tu vida<\/a>. Por supuesto, todo eso te pone las cosas mucho m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles.<\/p>\r\n

Olvidar a un hombre que amas ya es bastante dif\u00edcil. Sin embargo, olvidarle mientras sigue apareciendo en tu puerta y pidiendo constantemente otra oportunidad parece imposible. Pero es posible.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

You just need to realize that every time you give this guy another chance, you\u2019re actually giving him a green light to keep on breaking your heart. Every time you ll\u00e9valo de vuelta<\/span><\/a>le est\u00e1s dando permiso para alejarse de ti cuando le apetezca.<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re showing him that you\u2019re not going anywhere\u2014that no matter what he does, you\u2019ll be right there where he left you, patiently waiting for his sorry ass to come back. That no matter what he does, you\u2019ll always find a way to forgive him.<\/p>\r\n

That no matter how badly he hurts you, you\u2019ll always keep on loving him.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

 <\/p>\r\n

\"Darle<\/p>\r\n

Every time you give him another chance, you\u2019re showing this man that you\u2019re perfectly fine with the situation you two are in because let\u2019s face it\u2014you aren\u2019t doing much to change it. You\u2019re showing him that his behavior is acceptable and that there is nothing wrong with being a selfish asshole.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

Every time you give him another chance, you show him that he can count on you at all times and on all occasions; that you\u2019ll forever be his red de seguridad<\/span><\/a> y su plan de respaldo.<\/p>\r\n

What is even worse, that your status in his life doesn\u2019t bother you at all. You\u2019re showing him that you\u2019re satisfied with the crumbs he\u2019s been giving you and that you\u2019ll always crave more.<\/p>\r\n

Most importantly: every time you give this guy another chance, you\u2019re showing him that you have no self-respect. You\u2019re telling him that you don\u2019t value your time, efforts, and sacrifices.<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re showing him that your tears obviously don\u2019t matter, since you can forget about them easily.<\/b> That all the heartbreaks he\u2019s put you through are not such a big deal because you are always ready to care for him, as if nothing has happened.<\/p>\r\n

Every time you give this man another chance, you\u2019re showing him that you don\u2019t love yourself, since you\u2019re more than willing to put yourself through all of this pain over and over again.<\/p>\r\n

Dime una cosa: si no tienes amor ni respeto por ti misma, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 iba a tenerlo \u00e9l?<\/b><\/p>\r\n

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