{"id":4039,"date":"2020-09-04T12:29:43","date_gmt":"2020-09-04T12:29:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4039"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:41:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:41:51","slug":"no-estas-loco-echas-de-menos-a-alguien-no","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-estas-loco-echas-de-menos-a-alguien-no\/","title":{"rendered":"No est\u00e1s loco por echar de menos a alguien que no es tuyo"},"content":{"rendered":"

People are aching for places they never been to, craving things others have, being afraid of the things that haven\u2019t happened yet\u2014so why couldn\u2019t you be missing somebody who isn\u2019t yours?<\/p>\n

La idea de no tener a alguien y desearlo es, cuando menos, escabrosa. La gente lo ve sobre todo como un deseo que sufre, pero tiene otra cara.<\/p>\n

Wanting somebody who is not yours is full of \u201cwhat if\u201d questions. It\u2019s knitted with imagination and it\u2019s what occupies your brain twenty-five hours a day.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, s\u00f3lo hay veinticuatro horas al d\u00eda, pero piensa en la persona a la que echas de menos veinticinco horas al d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

La trampa de no saber qu\u00e9 quiere alguien a quien quieres s\u00f3lo para ti es la sensaci\u00f3n de tener una pieza de un rompecabezas que encaja en m\u00e1s de un sitio.<\/p>\n

What does his gaze towards you in a room full of people mean? He has the need to touch you\u2014your hair, your arm, put his hand on your waist when he is trying to move past you, to make you notice him.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not crazy\u2014he is doing all these things. Little does he know that even a small stupid conversation means so much to you. All this is like a promise of a together future but never spoken out loud.<\/p>\n

Little did he know that when you send even the smallest signal of affection to a person that has a vivid imagination, you\u2019re simultaneously giving that person the permission to miss you.<\/p>\n

When you get to think about it, it does make sense. Who\u2019s there to stop a person from daydreaming?<\/p>\n

Te lo imaginas teniendo ojos s\u00f3lo para ti. Deseas sentarte a su lado en una cena siendo inteligente y divertida. Piensas en \u00e9l teniendo ojos s\u00f3lo para ti, y fantaseas con este amor \u00e9pico.<\/p>\n

Because there is a part of you that you haven\u2019t yet shown to the world. Because there is much more to you than people are able to see.<\/p>\n

The furthest place your imagination goes is not down the sexual road, but you believe that he\u2019ll manage to see the true you\u2014the one that deserves all the love in this world.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Missing him comes in waves and tonight you are drowning. The only thing that\u2019s keeping you from swimming is the fear that you don\u2019t have the permission to miss him.<\/p>\n

That fear feels like you have a stone tied to your legs. To miss him doesn\u2019t make sense, but when did anything about feelings make sense?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re allowed to have feelings for him even though they are messy. You\u2019re allowed to wake up in the morning and stay a bit longer in the bed daydreaming about him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re allowed to miss the days that you haven\u2019t had with him. You\u2019re allowed to look forward and crave happiness that you still haven’t experienced with him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re allowed to look forward to your next meeting and to wish for the happiness that comes together with him choosing you. You\u2019re not crazy for missing him even though he is not yours.<\/a><\/p>\n

El coraz\u00f3n quiere lo que quiere.<\/p>\n

\"No<\/p>\n

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People are aching for places they never been to, craving things others have, being afraid of the things that haven\u2019t happened yet\u2014so why couldn\u2019t you be missing somebody who isn\u2019t yours? The idea of not having somebody and wanting them is skittish, to say the least. People mostly see it as suffering desire, but there…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":110379,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4039","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Youre-Not-Crazy-For-Missing-Somebody-Who-Is-Not-Yours-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4039","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4039"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4039\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/110379"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4039"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4039"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4039"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}