{"id":40431,"date":"2019-07-15T13:51:10","date_gmt":"2019-07-15T13:51:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40431"},"modified":"2022-01-19T15:32:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T15:32:44","slug":"todos-los-novios-que-he-tenido-me-han-enganado-y-ni-siquiera-lo-lamentan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/todos-los-novios-que-he-tenido-me-han-enganado-y-ni-siquiera-lo-lamentan\/","title":{"rendered":"Todos los novios que he tenido me han enga\u00f1ado y ni siquiera lo sienten"},"content":{"rendered":"

En primer lugar, quiero dejar clara una cosa: enga\u00f1ar es una elecci\u00f3n, no un error<\/a>. You can\u2019t just come to your partner and tell them that you\u2019ve made a mistake the other night. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Como si accidentalmente te hubieras resbalado y tropezado con una chica y una vez que ya estabas all\u00ed, te hubieras acostado con ella. No.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That\u2019s not how things work. When you cheat on your partner, you do it consciously; it is never something you can call a mistake. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

There are many mistakes that you can correct, but once you betray your loved one in this way, I don\u2019t think your relationship can ever be the same. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I wasn\u2019t lucky in my love relationships and all of my boyfriends cheated on me. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I don\u2019t know why, because I didn\u2019t do anything bad. But that fact didn\u2019t stop me from thinking that I was the guilty one.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pens\u00e9 que el problema estaba en m\u00ed todo el tiempo. Pero despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo, me di cuenta de que el problema estaba en ellos todo el tiempo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Eran inseguros y lo hac\u00edan todo para sentirse mejor. Cada uno de ellos me enga\u00f1\u00f3 para sentirse mejor en su propia piel.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y lo peor era que nadie lo sent\u00eda. Ni siquiera uno de ellos se me acerc\u00f3 para decirme que lo sent\u00eda. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And you can just imagine how I felt after that. I couldn\u2019t believe that all my boyfriends were doing the same thing and that I wasn\u2019t capable of building a normal and a healthy relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pens\u00e9 que me quedar\u00eda soltera el resto de mi vida y que nunca encontrar\u00eda lo que buscaba.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"Todos<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Yo era un desastre y quer\u00eda que lo vieran. Quer\u00eda mostrarles en qu\u00e9 me hab\u00eda convertido despu\u00e9s de que me destrozaran. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pero por mucho que llorase delante de ellos, por mucho que Me estaba desmoronando<\/a>, they didn\u2019t give a damn about me.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Supongo que pensaban que yo era demasiado bueno para ellos, as\u00ed que me dieron por sentado. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Obviously, I wasn\u2019t the girl who could make them do crazy things just to see me happy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Yo era la que llevaba el coraz\u00f3n en la manga todo el tiempo, la honesta y sincera. Pero eso me cost\u00f3 mucho en cada una de mis relaciones sentimentales. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pero cuando lo miro todo ahora, I don\u2019t want any revenge.<\/a> I don\u2019t even wish that I could have been different toward them and give them what they deserve.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I am a smart girl. And smart girls never take revenge \u2013 they let karma do its dirty work. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I hope that all my tears and suffering isn\u2019t in vain. I hope that the right one will come along and show me why it never worked out with anyone else before him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quiero estar con alguien que nunca me d\u00e9 por sentada, que nunca me enga\u00f1e y que siempre est\u00e9 ah\u00ed. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I know a man like that will come into my life. I also know it won\u2019t be when I want it, but when heaven wants it. I will just be patient enough and let destiny do its work. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

S\u00e9 que un d\u00eda conocer\u00e9 a un chico<\/a> que me demostrar\u00e1 que todo est\u00e1 bien conmigo. S\u00e9 que me demostrar\u00e1 que soy lo suficientemente buena, digna, completa y hermosa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00c9l estar\u00e1 ah\u00ed para recordarme lo especial que soy realmente. \u00c9l borrar\u00e1 todas mis inseguridades y besar\u00e1 el lugar donde otros infligieron una herida profunda. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Estar\u00e1 ah\u00ed para abrazarme y hacerme sentir mejor con un solo abrazo. Un hombre como \u00e9l ser\u00e1 especial. Ser\u00e1 totalmente opuesto a todos los que me enga\u00f1aron. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Dir\u00e1 que lo siente si comete un error. Estar\u00e1 orgulloso de todos mis \u00e9xitos. Me cuidar\u00e1 como si fuera la ni\u00f1a de sus ojos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He will show me what real love is and explain that it didn\u2019t work out with anyone before him because I was too good for them. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ese hombre ser\u00e1 mi \u00e1ngel de la guarda, mi mejor amigo, mi diario humano y mi amante al mismo tiempo. \u00bfY sabes qu\u00e9? <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I can\u2019t wait for him to come! I can\u2019t wait to melt in his arms, to listen to his soft yet mainly voice, and to find rest on his chest. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I can\u2019t wait to give him all my love, dreams, and hopes so he could make the most beautiful love story out of them.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I can\u2019t wait for the one who will be all that I crave so much to be mine and only mine! <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"Todos<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

First of all, I want to make one thing straight: cheating is a choice, not a mistake. You can\u2019t just come to your partner and tell them that you\u2019ve made a mistake the other night.  Like you accidentally slipped and bumped into a girl and once you were already there, you slept with her. No….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":40448,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40431","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_211654111.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40431","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40431"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40431\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/40448"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40431"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40431"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40431"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}