{"id":40437,"date":"2020-06-16T09:48:53","date_gmt":"2020-06-16T09:48:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40437"},"modified":"2021-08-11T14:18:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T14:18:25","slug":"esta-es-la-razon-por-la-que-un-narcisista-odia-verte-feliz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/esta-es-la-razon-por-la-que-un-narcisista-odia-verte-feliz\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que un narcisista odia verte feliz"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Las personas que pueden describirse como narcisistas son incapaces de sentir aut\u00e9ntica felicidad y plenitud, por lo que dependen de factores externos para sentirse mejor consigo mismas.<\/p>\r\n<p>They are deeply insecure, jaded people who need to diminish other people\u2019s self-worth in order to feel important and powerful. Their sense of self is severely distorted and this is why they need YOU to keep their ego on a high.<\/p>\r\n<p>Son personas miserables que necesitan dinero, estatus y cosas caras para seguir adelante; ver que a otras personas les va mal les hace sentirse m\u00e1s poderosos y alimenta su energ\u00eda.<\/p>\r\n<p>Los narcisistas necesitan menospreciar a la gente para elevarse a s\u00ed mismos.<\/p>\r\n<p><b>Cuando un narcisista ve que te va bien y que eres realmente feliz, le recuerda lo vac\u00edo que est\u00e1 por dentro.<\/b> Evoca un fuerte impulso en su interior de joder con <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/la-situacion-sentimental-no-define-la-felicidad\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tu felicidad<\/span><\/a> para ponerte a su nivel.<\/p>\r\n<p>People of narcissistic tendencies are envious and entitled so they cannot fathom seeing others succeed. They think they are better than you, so naturally to them, you don\u2019t deserve anything.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92710\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-looking-at-upset-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer mirando a hombre disgustado\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-looking-at-upset-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-looking-at-upset-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/woman-looking-at-upset-man-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Therefore, when they see you with something they don\u2019t have, they immediately go into attack mode.<\/p>\r\n<p>Para ellos, se lo merecen m\u00e1s que t\u00fa y sus celos y necesidad de hundirte est\u00e1n a flor de piel.<\/p>\r\n<p>Narcissists lack empathy and this leads to them being frustrated with seeing you gain so much respect and praise for something, because they believe you didn\u2019t work for it.<\/p>\r\n<p>Los narcisistas utilizan t\u00e1cticas s\u00f3rdidas y su encanto para conseguir lo que quieren, por lo que son incapaces de creer que hayas hecho lo tuyo por las malas.<\/p>\r\n<p>They feel more deserving of everything than you and they can\u2019t accept the fact that you\u2019re more successful than them.<\/p>\r\n<p>Para un narcisista, es imposible que otra persona sea capaz de tener m\u00e1s talento y val\u00eda que \u00e9l, por lo que se llena de rabia y descontento al ver que recibes los elogios que cree que deber\u00edan ir dirigidos a \u00e9l.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92713\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/couple-arguing-in-bedroom.jpg\" alt=\"pareja discutiendo en el dormitorio\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/couple-arguing-in-bedroom.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/couple-arguing-in-bedroom-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/couple-arguing-in-bedroom-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p><b>And that is why they learn to hate seeing you\u2019re happy and thriving, even though you did everything the right way<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span> To them, it\u2019s extremely unfair.<\/p>\r\n<p>O hay ganadores o hay perdedores, no hay t\u00e9rmino medio, y ellos tienen que ser los ganadores en todos los escenarios.<\/p>\r\n<p>Para elevarse, los narcisistas intentar\u00e1n ponerte en tu lugar desafi\u00e1ndote o atac\u00e1ndote.<\/p>\r\n<p>En cualquier caso, necesitan ganar. Necesitan sentirse superiores, porque es la \u00fanica forma en que pueden prosperar.<\/p>\r\n<p>Son personas profundamente inseguras (cosa que negar\u00e1n con vehemencia) y esta inseguridad les lleva a actuar de las formas m\u00e1s t\u00f3xicas y malvadas.<\/p>\r\n<p>Un narcisista ve tu felicidad y tu \u00e9xito como una amenaza, y debe hacer todo lo posible por eliminarlos.<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/life\/5-diferencias-cruciales-entre-un-narcisista-y-un-sociopata\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un narcisista<\/span><\/a> se comparar\u00e1 contigo hasta el punto de verte como el malo por hacerlo bien y necesitar quit\u00e1rtelo.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92714\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/couple-arguing-at-home-1.jpg\" alt=\"pareja discutiendo en casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/couple-arguing-at-home-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/couple-arguing-at-home-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/couple-arguing-at-home-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>They cannot fathom being seen as flawed or imperfect, and your success makes him feel like he\u2019s below you.<\/p>\r\n<p><b>Desde su punto de vista s\u00e1dico, te mereces sentirte mal, equivocado y puesto en tu sitio.<\/b> It makes them happy when you\u2019re feeling pain and distress because, in their eyes, you\u2019re bad.<\/p>\r\n<p>There are some worse cases where a narcissist will feel so threatened by your mere presence that they will smear your name and try to make you look bad in everybody else\u2019s eyes.<\/p>\r\n<p>Esto s\u00f3lo es una prueba m\u00e1s de lo t\u00f3xicos y da\u00f1ados que est\u00e1n realmente.<\/p>\r\n<p>Si recientemente te han relacionado sentimentalmente con un chico narcisista, lo mejor que puedes hacer es poner tanta distancia como puedas entre t\u00fa y \u00e9l.<\/p>\r\n<p>If he\u2019s still pining after you and you\u2019ve <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-senales-de-que-has-dejado-atras-a-tu-ex-toxico\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">continu\u00f3<\/span><\/a>...tu nueva felicidad s\u00f3lo har\u00e1 que \u00e9l se sienta menos suficiente y digno.<\/p>\r\n<p><b>Narcissistic men cannot stand seeing their ex doing well post-breakup because that means there is somebody else out there more capable of making you happy \u2013 therefore making him a loser in his eyes.<\/b><\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92712\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/depressed-man-holding-his-head-beside-window.jpg\" alt=\"hombre deprimido sujet\u00e1ndose la cabeza junto a la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/depressed-man-holding-his-head-beside-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/depressed-man-holding-his-head-beside-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/depressed-man-holding-his-head-beside-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Esto har\u00e1 que se comporte mal y, posiblemente, se acerque y trate de despreciar a su nuevo hombre para que parezca menos atractivo a sus ojos y le d\u00e9 una mejor imagen de s\u00ed mismo.<\/p>\r\n<p>Necesitan ser los mejores y necesitan que T\u00da pienses eso. La idea de que otro hombre te haga tan visiblemente feliz es el mayor golpe a su autoestima.<\/p>\r\n<p>Las personas con graves tendencias narcisistas simplemente son incapaces de verte feliz.<\/p>\r\n<p>Esto se debe a que lo consideran un ataque a su superioridad y no pueden permitirlo.<\/p>\r\n<p>Utilizar\u00e1n cualquier justificaci\u00f3n que necesiten para que tu felicidad parezca un acto hostil contra ellos.<\/p>\r\n<p>It\u2019s important that you never let this get to you. This is a big issue on his part and it doesn\u2019t have to affect you in any way. Unless you give him the attention he so badly craves, you\u2019re going to be just fine.<\/p>\r\n<p><b>He needs your reaction to feed off. If you don\u2019t give it to him, he\u2019s got nothing to work with, and that\u2019s your upper hand.<\/b><\/p>\r\n<p>Narcissists will always find a way and reason to feel jealous and attacked, but that doesn\u2019t mean you have to do it too. Simply <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/horoscope\/el-tipo-de-hombre-del-que-debes-alejarte-segun-tu-signo-del-zodiaco\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mantente alejado<\/span><\/a> and don\u2019t give into his cheap attempts to bring you down.<\/p>\r\n<p>You do you and let him brew in his misery. On the outside, he might seem calm and collected \u2013 but on the inside, it\u2019s slowly killing him! So, let him suffer in his silent agony, and enjoy your narcissist-free life.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-92711\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/This-Is-Why-A-Narcissist-Hates-Seeing-You-Happy-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que un narcisista odia verte feliz \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/This-Is-Why-A-Narcissist-Hates-Seeing-You-Happy-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/This-Is-Why-A-Narcissist-Hates-Seeing-You-Happy-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":92709,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40437","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/This-Is-Why-A-Narcissist-Hates-Seeing-You-Happy.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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