{"id":40490,"date":"2019-07-16T09:44:26","date_gmt":"2019-07-16T09:44:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40490"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:24:38","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:24:38","slug":"una-carta-a-mi-mejor-amiga-que-me-ayudo-a-superar-mi-ruptura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/una-carta-a-mi-mejor-amiga-que-me-ayudo-a-superar-mi-ruptura\/","title":{"rendered":"Una carta a mi mejor amiga que me ayud\u00f3 a superar mi ruptura"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Querida Bestie,<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>I\u2019ve never once doubted our friendship. This might sound cheesy, but since the day I met you, I knew you\u2019d make a difference in my life and become someone special for me.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>This really was and still is the truth. Through all these years, you\u2019ve been my partner in crime, my other half, and my family. You\u2019ve become <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/friendship\/querida-bestie-siempre-persona\/\">mi persona<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>And that is something I could never thank you enough for. During all this time, you\u2019ve done more than anyone has ever done for me \u2013 no exaggerating.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>However, the thing that showed me I could count on you for as long as I breathe was my heartbreak. The heartbreak I didn\u2019t go through alone, the heartbreak you went through with me, as if it was happening to you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>No, I won\u2019t be talking about the pain I experienced. I won\u2019t be talking about the trauma and scars all of that left on me.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>\u00bfSabes por qu\u00e9? Porque <strong>this isn\u2019t about me, it\u2019s about you.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>The truth is that I\u2019m not much of a writer, but I just want to say thank you. Thank you for not letting me fight my demons alone and for never abandoning me.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40492\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1046476249.jpg\" alt=\" Una carta a mi mejor amiga que me ayud\u00f3 a superar mi ruptura\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1046476249.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1046476249-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1046476249-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Gracias por aguantarme.<\/strong> Por no perder los nervios cuando estaba enfadada, hist\u00e9rica e insoportable. Por no perder la paciencia y no mandarme al infierno, incluso cuando me lo merec\u00eda.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Gracias por escucharme siempre.<\/strong> For always being there, for never telling me that I\u2019m boring you with my endless stories you\u2019ve heard a thousand times, and never being too busy to hear me out.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Gracias por coger el tel\u00e9fono en mitad de la noche y aparecer en mi puerta cada vez que te necesitaba. Por cuidar de m\u00ed como si fuera un ni\u00f1o y por no permitir que me perdiera nunca de vista.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Gracias por ser tan comprensivo y compasivo.<\/strong>. Por comprender mi dolor y por no permitir que me comiera viva.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Gracias por no juzgarme.<\/strong> Por no culparme por c\u00f3mo me sent\u00eda.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Por darte cuenta de que necesitaba tiempo para recuperarme. Por no pensar que era una lun\u00e1tica por actuar como lo hice.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Thank you for holding my hand and wiping all of my tears. For staying with me all those times I was afraid to sleep alone and for living my life instead of me when I wasn\u2019t capable of functioning.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Gracias por ser a veces <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/friendship\/6-razones-por-las-que-tu-amiga-mala-es-la-amiga-que-mas-se-preocupa\/\"><strong>media<\/strong><\/a><strong>...duro y brutal.<\/strong> Por quitarme las gafas de sol de color de rosa y abrirme los ojos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Por todas esas veces que me hiciste afrontar la dolorosa verdad que me negaba a aceptar. Por no haberme mentido nunca para hacerme sentir mejor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>For telling me all the things I didn\u2019t want to hear, only because they were for my own good. For all the times I hated you when I should have been grateful for your honesty.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>Thank you for never giving up on me. Thank you for healing me, because I wouldn\u2019t have made it without you.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Sin embargo, <strong>I also want to tell you that I\u2019m sorry<\/strong>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Lo siento por poner a mi ex primero mientras est\u00e1bamos en una relaci\u00f3n. Lo siento por no darte suficiente de mi amor y atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Siento haber estado ciego en todas esas situaciones en las que intentaste decirme que no serv\u00eda para nada.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>For not believing you and your judgments, despite knowing that you always want what\u2019s best for me.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Lo siento por ser ego\u00edsta. Por no pensar en tus necesidades, mientras estaba en un momento de angustia.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>For spending all those months in my personal agony, without once asking you how you\u2019ve been. Without understanding that you have a life outside of my friendship and for not wondering if you ever needed me during that time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>I\u2019m<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/para-el-amigo-que-piensa-que-apesto-tienes-razon-y-lo-siento\/\"> siento no ser el amigo que te mereces<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>I know that I could never repay you for all you\u2019ve done for me. I only hope that you know that I would be lost without you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>S\u00f3lo espero que sepas que <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/friendship\/una-carta-a-mi-mejor-amiga-tu-me-inspiras\/\"><strong>me inspiras<\/strong><\/a><strong>que sepas cu\u00e1nto te quiero y cu\u00e1nto significas para m\u00ed. Y espero que aprendas de mis errores, para nunca repetirlos. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-40494\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-16T113944.288-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Una carta a mi mejor amiga que me ayud\u00f3 a superar mi ruptura\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-16T113944.288-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-16T113944.288-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-16T113944.288.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Bestie, I\u2019ve never once doubted our friendship. This might sound cheesy, but since the day I met you, I knew you\u2019d make a difference in my life and become someone special for me. This really was and still is the truth. Through all these years, you\u2019ve been my partner in crime, my other half,&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":40496,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40490","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&amp;family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_499880986.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&amp;family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? 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