{"id":40671,"date":"2019-07-18T11:45:12","date_gmt":"2019-07-18T11:45:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40671"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:25:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:25:07","slug":"4-razones-por-las-que-desenamorarse-da-mas-miedo-que-enamorarse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/4-razones-por-las-que-desenamorarse-da-mas-miedo-que-enamorarse\/","title":{"rendered":"4 razones por las que desenamorarse da m\u00e1s miedo que enamorarse"},"content":{"rendered":"

Crees que enamorarse da miedo<\/a>. You\u2019re letting yourself be led by something you can\u2019t control \u2013 your emotions.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, you\u2019re opening up to a completely new person. You\u2019re letting them in your life without holding yourself back; you\u2019re putting yourself out there.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You risk being hurt and having your heart broken. And that is something that we\u2019re all afraid of, whether we\u2019d like to admit it or not.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por otro lado, piensas que desenamorarse siempre es un alivio. Que esa sensaci\u00f3n de pasar una nueva p\u00e1gina de tu vida equivale a una liberaci\u00f3n emocional, f\u00edsica y mental.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, think again. The process of falling out of love is everything but that. In fact, in most cases, it\u2019s scarier than falling in love. Here is why.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Es algo que nadie quiere<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Let\u2019s face it. No matter where you stand in life right now, we all want to fall in love at one point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Puede que actualmente huya de ese pensamiento debido a una experiencia dolorosa anterior, pero lo cierto es que uno de los objetivos \u00faltimos de toda persona viva es, entre otros, encontrar el amor rom\u00e1ntico.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuando eso ocurre, nadie piensa en el final. En cambio, a todos nos gusta suponer y esperar que cada relaci\u00f3n que entablamos durar\u00e1 toda la vida. Que cada vez que nos enamoramos, ser\u00e1 para siempre.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re not expecting your romance to end when you\u2019re starting it. You don\u2019t put an expiration date on your relationship and your feelings.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, sadly, things don\u2019t always end up the way we want and imagine them to. Sometimes, you fall out of love, despite that being the last thing you planned.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that makes all of it even scarier \u2013 the fact that it hits us, contrary to our desires. The way it is something we can\u2019t control and something we never wish for.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. You’re hurting yourself and the other person<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Desamor<\/a> nunca es pan comido y es todo menos f\u00e1cil. Por el contrario, es doloroso tanto para la persona que lo experimenta como para la que se queda atr\u00e1s.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you\u2019re falling in love, you never expect things to fall apart. You are not doing it, consciously knowing that you\u2019re soon to hurt both yourself and the person you loved so dearly until now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sin embargo, cuando se trata del proceso inverso, todo es diferente. Se trata de un proceso desgarrador que no puede evitarse.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe your relationship is theoretically perfect, but you simply don\u2019t feel anything for your significant other. If this is the case, then you feel guilty for allowing yourself to fall out of love with someone who didn\u2019t deserve it.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Te sientes culpable por no poder controlar el hecho de tener que romper su coraz\u00f3n en pedazos. Y saber que tambi\u00e9n destroza el tuyo.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you\u2019re forcing yourself to fall out of love with someone you know <\/p>\n\n\n\n

doesn\u2019t deserve your heart, it also hurts. It hurts knowing that you need to let go, that you must walk away, that you have to kill all of your emotions.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Cuestionas todo lo que sab\u00edas<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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When you\u2019re falling out of love, you start questioning yourself, your romantic partner, your entire relationship, and everything you once knew about love.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Are you doing the right thing? Or you\u2019re making the mistake of your life?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Is this just a phase? Or is everything you\u2019ve felt for your partner really forever gone?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

All of these questions are making you anxious, depressed and nervous. Most importantly, they\u2019re making you doubt your own sanity and decision-making skills.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. You’re leaving your comfort zone<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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It doesn\u2019t matter if you were happy in love or not, throughout the years, this feeling has become familiar to you. It has become a part of who you are and now you have to leave it behind.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re falling out love after a long term relationship or with someone who\u2019s nunca te correspond\u00ed<\/a>El punto es m\u00e1s o menos el mismo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ese sentimiento que te ha abrumado durante a\u00f1os y que se ha convertido en tu consuelo ahora ha desaparecido y tienes que seguir adelante sin \u00e9l.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tienes que reinventarte y descubrir la vida sin esas emociones que tantas veces te guiaron. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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You think that falling in love is scary. You\u2019re letting yourself be led by something you can\u2019t control \u2013 your emotions.\u00a0 Also, you\u2019re opening up to a completely new person. You\u2019re letting them in your life without holding yourself back; you\u2019re putting yourself out there.\u00a0 You risk being hurt and having your heart broken. And…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":40678,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40671","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1170996397.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40671","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40671"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40671\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/40678"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40671"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40671"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40671"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}