{"id":4070,"date":"2020-09-05T09:01:10","date_gmt":"2020-09-05T09:01:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4070"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:37:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:37:23","slug":"amor-no-respeto-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/amor-no-respeto-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"Cuando hay amor pero no respeto en la relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos estamos un poco cegados por las hormonas cuando empezamos una relaci\u00f3n y no vemos las cosas como realmente son al principio.<\/p>\n

We feel happy and we want to hold on to it forever. The truth is, you can\u2019t really stay in a relationship for the same reasons you entered it.<\/p>\n

Al principio, caemos por las miradas y la atenci\u00f3n, pero a medida que pasa el tiempo, la relaci\u00f3n debe crecer<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you keep giving the same things all over again without adjusting to the needs of another person, there is the possibility that the person you\u2019re with might get fed up with you playing the same movie on repeat.<\/p>\n

Mira, me enamor\u00e9 de tu afecto. Me enamor\u00e9 de tus dulces palabras y cumplidos, y me encant\u00f3 la forma en que me miras. Ten\u00edas una mirada que dec\u00eda mucho de lo mucho que me quer\u00edas.<\/p>\n

And it felt good to be wanted. But these kinds of feelings don’t last forever.<\/p>\n

I know you want me. I know you love me. But that\u2019s just it. And I\u2019m sorry, at this point it\u2019s just not enough.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Me compras flores. Me besas en la frente cada ma\u00f1ana y me preguntas c\u00f3mo me ha ido el d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

You remember all the important dates. I get hugs, cuddles, and your hand in my hand on a regular basis. It feels good\u2014I swear it does.<\/p>\n

No dejas de hacerme cumplidos sobre mi aspecto y eso nunca cambia. Me dices lo guapa que te parezco y lo feliz que est\u00e1s de tenerme a tu lado.<\/p>\n

You often tell how you don\u2019t know what you did to deserve such a stunning woman. Little do you know, there was no need for you to deserve me\u2014I chose you because I wanted you as much as you wanted me.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong> 10 Undeniable Signs He\u2019s TRULY, MADLY, DEEPLY in Love with You<\/a><\/p>\n

But\u2026.<\/p>\n

I am afraid that\u2019s all I am to you. Just a pretty face and nothing more.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to admire me for my looks. That was my birth gift\u2014I didn\u2019t earn it.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Quiero que me admires por<\/a> mi intelecto y lo apasionada que soy y c\u00f3mo me brillan los ojos y c\u00f3mo mi voz adquiere otro color cuando hablo de algo que me apasiona. <\/b><\/p>\n

I want you to acknowledge my hard work, my dedication, to tell me you\u2019re happy to have such a purpose-driven woman next to you. <\/b><\/p>\n

Quiero que me quieras por lo que soy y no por lo que parezco. <\/b><\/p>\n

Haces todas estas cosas para demostrarme tu amor, pero me cuesta ver algo m\u00e1s en tu mirada.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t respect my decisions. You don\u2019t think I can make it no matter how hard I work. You think your success is more important than what I do.<\/p>\n

Nunca me dijiste lo inteligente que soy y nunca apoyaste ninguna de mis ideas. Simplemente me cortaste sin siquiera escucharme y te fuiste a tratar tus problemas por tu cuenta.<\/p>\n

Even when I am happy to help, you rush to somebody else for advice. You don\u2019t do these things in a relationship.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

No comprendes que el respeto es un factor clave que nos permite comprender y reconocer las ideas y decisiones del otro.<\/p>\n

True respect cannot be forced and I\u2019m not doing that, however, in most situations, people respect others due to power differentials.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong> Esta es la raz\u00f3n por la que tu novio te trata sin respeto<\/a><\/p>\n

Una mujer puede ser guapa e inteligente al mismo tiempo.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you\u2019d just give me the benefit of the doubt and listen to my advice for a change, you\u2019d see that what I say does make sense, in fact.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019d trust me with your problems, I\u2019d feel more appreciated.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to be proud of how beautiful I am\u2014I\u2019d get that anywhere.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cualquiera puede ser guapa y cualquiera podr\u00eda sustituirme, porque hay al menos mil millones de mujeres tan guapas como yo.<\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather have you be proud of what kind of women you have next to yourself.<\/p>\n

I am not a trophy and I wish you\u2019d just stop treating me like one.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want just your affection, I want your admiration as well\u2014but not for how I look but for what I am. <\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be just a pretty face. I don\u2019t want to be weaker than you. I want my opinion to count. I want you to actually hear what I have to say, and I want you to respect me.<\/p>\n

I want you to scratch the surface and see what\u2019s beneath it. <\/b><\/p>\n

Because if you don\u2019t start respecting me, if you don\u2019t try to see another side of me, I might just respect myself enough to walk away from you.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Cuando<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We\u2019re all a little blinded by hormones when we first enter a relationship and we don\u2019t see things as they really are at the beginning. We feel happy and we want to hold on to it forever. The truth is, you can\u2019t really stay in a relationship for the same reasons you entered it. At…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":112577,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4070","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/When-There-Is-Love-But-No-Respect-In-The-Relationship-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4070","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4070"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4070\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/112577"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4070"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4070"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4070"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}