{"id":40750,"date":"2019-07-22T07:51:04","date_gmt":"2019-07-22T07:51:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40750"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:38:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:38:11","slug":"10-cosas-que-no-se-deben-hacer-con-narcisistas-y-psicopatas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-cosas-que-no-se-deben-hacer-con-narcisistas-y-psicopatas\/","title":{"rendered":"10 cosas que NO se deben hacer con narcisistas y psic\u00f3patas"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. Don\u2019t buy into their seemingly perfect exterior (it\u2019s all play pretend)<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Para los narcisistas y los psic\u00f3patas, crear una fachada cre\u00edble y perfecta es el objetivo final. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

They need to convince you that they have it all figured out \u2013 that they\u2019re smart, resourceful, intelligent, and well-off. They mantener el control<\/a> y lo que se dice se hace.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tienen una fuerte atracci\u00f3n por la gente, lo que les facilita manipular y mentir. Pero debajo de esa necesidad de manipulaciones y juegos viciosos hay una visi\u00f3n insegura y profundamente distorsionada de s\u00ed mismos. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And this is what makes them resort to lies and games. This is how they fill the emptiness and void that\u2019s killing them on the inside.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Don\u2019t tell them more about yourself than absolutely necessary<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Utilizar\u00e1n todo lo que tengan contra ti como munici\u00f3n para atacarte en el momento que consideren oportuno. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Cuanto m\u00e1s sepan, m\u00e1s material tendr\u00e1n para usar contra ti y tus seres queridos. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Para ellos, la informaci\u00f3n es un arma. Util\u00edzala a tu favor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Prot\u00e9jase y proteja a sus seres queridos ocultando toda la informaci\u00f3n posible sobre usted. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Eso les va a dificultar atacarte (verbalmente) porque tendr\u00e1n muy poco con lo que seguir. En estas situaciones, la intimidad es sagrada. Nunca la pongas en peligro por nada.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Don\u2019t let them make you second-guess yourself<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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First and foremost \u2013 you don\u2019t have to justify<\/a> nada a nadie. Tienes derecho a tener tus propios pensamientos, opiniones e ideas. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As\u00ed que nunca dejes que los narcisistas y los psic\u00f3patas te hagan dudar de ti mismo. Reconoce que es su forma malvada de socavarte y controlarte, y c\u00f3rtala de ra\u00edz.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t explain yourself, don\u2019t justify your actions, and don\u2019t seek their approval. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ni siquiera por un segundo, porque basta un solo instante para caer en esa trampa y a partir de ah\u00ed todo puede ir cuesta abajo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Firmly stand your ground and don\u2019t let them shake you. This will cause them distress, even though they will never let you see it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Don\u2019t make excuses for their evil and controlling behavior<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Nunca categorices lo que hacen a diario como un inconveniente menor. A veces puede parecer menor, pero solo porque te manipulan para que pienses eso. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sus juegos mentales y su necesidad de atenci\u00f3n pueden ser insoportablemente agotadores, lo que a veces te deja incapaz de valerte por ti mismo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But never let that minimize the shit they do to you. Just because you\u2019re too tired from their crap, doesn\u2019t mean you should downplay or put up with it. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Debes reaccionar con calma cuando intenten provocarte y mantener siempre la calma, pero nunca olvides ni minimices la cantidad de mierda que te causan. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Eso har\u00e1 que inconscientemente lo aceptes como un comportamiento aceptable y rara vez hay vuelta atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Don\u2019t expect them to own up to any of their shit<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Los narcisistas y los psic\u00f3patas creen que tienen derecho a todo y no se disculpan por nada. Para ellos, todo lo que hacen es perfectamente justificable y con raz\u00f3n. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If they cause you harm \u2013 you had it coming. If they verbally attack you \u2013 you provoked them. And if they disregard your concerns \u2013 they deem you unworthy of their attention.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Nunca esperes que reconozcan su mierda. Son categ\u00f3ricamente incapaces de hacerlo. Por tu propio bien, siempre debes se\u00f1alarles cuando te causen alguna molestia. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But do it for yourself, never to seek reaction from them, because it\u2019s not going to happen. They will never take credit for their negative actions.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. Don\u2019t think for a second they share any of your dreams and passions<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Pueden enga\u00f1arte haci\u00e9ndote creer que se preocupan por tu visi\u00f3n de futuro o que est\u00e1n entusiasmados con tu nueva oportunidad laboral. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pero eso no es m\u00e1s que un medio para conseguir un fin. Al fingir su apoyo y entusiasmo, esperan de ti el doble a cambio.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

They don\u2019t give a shit about your life, thoughts, or dreams. All they do is feign their interest so they can use it as leverage when they want something from you. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y lo utilizar\u00e1n descaradamente para manipularte y agotarte hasta el punto de que accedas a lo que quieran de ti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Don\u2019t try to play their game<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Don\u2019t think for a second you can keep up with their games. They are people who have spent the majority of their lives perfecting their craft and testing it with various people until it was perfect. They can do it in their sleep.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00bfY por qu\u00e9 querr\u00edas caer tan bajo? Narcisistas y psic\u00f3patas<\/a> tienen graves problemas emocionales que les hacen recurrir a este tipo de manipulaciones y mentiras. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No pueden soportar sentirse inferiores o defectuosos, por lo que dedican cantidades inquietantes de tiempo a hacerte creer que son intocables. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Deja que jueguen a sus juegos y mant\u00e9n tu integridad. De todos modos, est\u00e1s muy por encima de ellos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. Don\u2019t take anything they do to you personally<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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It never is. They will use anything and anyone if it means getting something from it. It can be the closest person to them in the world, or a complete stranger. It doesn\u2019t make a difference to them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s never you, and it\u2019s ALWAYS them. The way they mistreat you and use you is extremely wrong and disturbing, but if anything, you can at least find solace in the fact it has nothing to do with you. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

They will cross anyone who\u2019s in their way; it\u2019s simply how they operate.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

9. Don\u2019t expect them to be fair to you<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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La equidad es una palabra que no est\u00e1 en su diccionario. Desconocen la empat\u00eda y por una buena raz\u00f3n. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

La empat\u00eda significa ser consciente de que todo el mundo merece la felicidad por igual. Para los narcisistas y los psic\u00f3patas, esto no es as\u00ed.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lo \u00fanico que les importa es conseguir lo que quieren. Y har\u00e1n lo que haga falta para conseguirlo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If it means treating you unfairly, it\u2019s just another Monday to them. Don\u2019t expect empathy from people who have a void in their soul.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

10. Don\u2019t expect them to ever change<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Este tipo de comportamiento est\u00e1 profundamente grabado en ellos y no va a cambiar por nadie. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

They may alter their behavior based on who they are around, but it\u2019s only for manipulative purposes.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

They don\u2019t feel the necesidad de cambiar<\/a> because they don\u2019t believe they are doing anything wrong. And that is the main issue with them. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo esperas que un hombre que se considera intachable cambie alguna vez sus patrones de conducta? <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lo \u00fanico que puedes hacer es aceptar que \u00e9l es as\u00ed y avanzar en la direcci\u00f3n opuesta. Algunas personas no merecen tu esfuerzo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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