{"id":40768,"date":"2019-07-22T10:23:53","date_gmt":"2019-07-22T10:23:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40768"},"modified":"2022-06-10T11:09:38","modified_gmt":"2022-06-10T11:09:38","slug":"estar-soltero-es-mejor-que-lidiar-con-estos-10-problemas-de-pareja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estar-soltero-es-mejor-que-lidiar-con-estos-10-problemas-de-pareja\/","title":{"rendered":"Estar soltero es mejor que lidiar con estos 10 problemas de pareja"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Si eres soltero, \u00bfalguna vez has tenido la sensaci\u00f3n de que alguien se esfuerza por hacerte sentir que te pasa algo s\u00f3lo por ser soltero?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Los medios de comunicaci\u00f3n y la sociedad en general han hecho realmente dif\u00edcil que los solteros disfruten de su libertad sin sentir que les falta algo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>All those headlines, like: \u2018<em>If you feel like you\u2019ll be single forever, read this<\/em>!\u2019 Really? But what is it about those who are in relationships? Why is it that no one ever mentions them?&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>If someone is in a relationship, this doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that they are happy. And if someone is single, this doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that they are miserable!&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>De hecho, si miramos las cosas m\u00e1s de cerca, nos daremos cuenta de que estar soltero es MEJOR que lidiar con estos 10 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-expectativas-poco-razonables-que-los-hombres-tienen-de-las-mujeres-en-sus-relaciones\/\">problemas de pareja<\/a>!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Preguntarse constantemente por qu\u00e9 tardan tanto en enviarte un mensaje de texto o devolverte la llamada.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40769\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1139758664-1.jpg\" alt=\"Estar soltero es mejor que lidiar con estos 10 problemas de pareja\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1139758664-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1139758664-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1139758664-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Is there anything more annoying in the whole wide world than waiting and contemplating why they didn\u2019t text or call you back? Too many what ifs and not a single answer.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>This is an inevitable, stressful part of every single relationship and by God, I\u2019d rather save my nerves and stay single for the rest of my life than deal with this crap ever again.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/12-razones-por-las-que-nunca-te-manda-un-mensaje-primero-pero-siempre-responde-cuando-le-mandas-un-mensaje\/\">12 razones por las que nunca te escribe primero (pero siempre responde cuando le escribes)<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Tener que llevarse bien con los miembros de su familia<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40770\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_539055682.jpg\" alt=\"Estar soltero es mejor que lidiar con estos 10 problemas de pareja\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_539055682.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_539055682-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_539055682-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If you\u2019re in a relationship, this doesn\u2019t mean that your job there is done. Nope.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Adem\u00e1s de preocuparte por los problemas en tu relaci\u00f3n, tambi\u00e9n tienes que preocuparte por llevarte bien con sus familiares y asegurarte de que les caes bien.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Y siempre habr\u00e1 ese miembro de la familia con el que no te llevar\u00e1s bien, hagas lo que hagas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Y esto a menudo significa desviarte de tu camino s\u00f3lo para apaciguarlos y cambiarte a ti mismo por el bien de su aprobaci\u00f3n. \u00bfQui\u00e9n necesita esto en su vida?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Querer quedarse en casa cuando ellos quieren salir y viceversa<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40771\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_681819469.jpg\" alt=\"Estar soltero es mejor que lidiar con estos 10 problemas de pareja\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_681819469.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_681819469-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_681819469-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>En una relaci\u00f3n todo es cuesti\u00f3n de compromiso, pero incluso las parejas con m\u00e1s \u00e9xito fracasan en alg\u00fan momento.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Siempre habr\u00e1 momentos en los que querr\u00e1s quedarte en casa, ver una pel\u00edcula o tu programa de televisi\u00f3n favorito y disfrutar del relax rodeado de toneladas de comida, s\u00f3lo para o\u00edr que ellos quieren salir.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But this never happens when you\u2019re single! If you want to go out, you go out. If you want to chill and stay in, you do so.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>There are no boundaries and you don\u2019t have to worry about if someone will feel comfortable with your choice.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Sentirse demasiado c\u00f3modo o aburrido en la relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40772\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_735138154.jpg\" alt=\"Estar soltero es mejor que lidiar con estos 10 problemas de pareja\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_735138154.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_735138154-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_735138154-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>When you just start dating, everything\u2019s fresh and you feel like you will never get bored of any of it. But over time, you start feeling too comfortable or even bored in the relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Yes! It\u2019s actually possible to feel <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/aburrido-en-una-relacion\/\">aburrido en una relaci\u00f3n<\/a> porque te quedas atrapado en la rutina y ya nada te parece interesante.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But if you\u2019re single, the game instantly changes. You can always dictate your tempo and spice things up whenever and however you want.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Nunca te aburrir\u00e1s porque tienes m\u00e1s opciones y m\u00e1s libertad para explorar el mundo y disfrutarlo al m\u00e1ximo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/lee-esto-si-tu-relacion-a-largo-plazo-esta-estancada\/\">Lee esto si tu relaci\u00f3n a largo plazo est\u00e1 estancada<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Being forced to watch things on TV that don\u2019t interest you<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40775\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1034230603.jpg\" alt=\"Estar soltero es mejor que lidiar con estos 10 problemas de pareja\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1034230603.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1034230603-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1034230603-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Is there anything more annoying than being forced to watch things that you couldn\u2019t give less of a shit about? I didn\u2019t think so.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Being in a relationship with someone means being forced to watch things that don\u2019t really interest you just because they mean a lot to them and you don\u2019t want to ruin their fun.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Pero estar soltero significa ver lo que quieras, cuando quieras y durante el tiempo que quieras. Sin fingir, sin perder la cabeza y sin dramas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Seeing that they liked some girl\u2019s\/guy\u2019s picture on Instagram and wanting to confront them about it but not wanting to seem crazy<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40776\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_572367250-1.jpg\" alt=\"Estar soltero es mejor que lidiar con estos 10 problemas de pareja\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_572367250-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_572367250-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_572367250-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If you\u2019ve ever been in a relationship or you know someone who is, this must have happened to you or them more than once.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It is really frustrating to witness your partner liking some girl or guy\u2019s half-naked picture or any picture on social media.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>\u00bfY sabes qu\u00e9 es a\u00fan m\u00e1s frustrante? No saber qu\u00e9 hacer al respecto. Si saltas sobre ellos como Godzilla, pondr\u00e1s en peligro tu bienestar y tu cordura.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Y si decides no hacer nada al respecto, te devorar\u00e1. Esta es una de las muchas razones por las que estar soltero es diez veces mejor que lidiar con este tipo de mierda.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Feeling like you\u2019re missing out on fun times with your friends<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40777\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_493326574.jpg\" alt=\"Estar soltero es mejor que lidiar con estos 10 problemas de pareja\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_493326574.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_493326574-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_493326574-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Cr\u00e9eme, no importa cu\u00e1ntas veces te repitas a ti mismo que esta vez no descuidar\u00e1s a tus amigos en t\u00e9rminos de socializaci\u00f3n, no funcionar\u00e1.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Estar en una relaci\u00f3n simplemente significa pasar menos tiempo con tus amigos, no porque quieras, sino porque simplemente ocurre as\u00ed.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>And then you will start feeling like you\u2019re missing out on fun times with them and you will regret your decision to be in a relationship in the first place.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>As\u00ed que la \u00fanica conclusi\u00f3n l\u00f3gica es evitar toda esta mierda y ser soltero.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">8. Preguntarse si su amigo es realmente S\u00d3LO un amigo<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40778\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_637889722.jpg\" alt=\"Estar soltero es mejor que lidiar con estos 10 problemas de pareja\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_637889722.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_637889722-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_637889722-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>We all have friends and they are all JUST friends until it is proven otherwise. And when that happens, it\u2019s kind of too late.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>No one will ever give you back your time spent wondering about whether their friend is really JUST a friend or a potential threat. But if you\u2019re single, you don\u2019t have to EVER worry about this one.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">9. Enfadarse o ponerse celoso cuando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/por-que-el-es-tu-prioridad-cuando-tu-eres-su-opcion\/\">you\u2019re not their priority<\/a><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40779\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_388577281.jpg\" alt=\"Estar soltero es mejor que lidiar con estos 10 problemas de pareja\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_388577281.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_388577281-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_388577281-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Sometimes they will choose a guy\u2019s or girl\u2019s night or some meaningless event over a night spent with you. Sometimes you will not be their priority and you will get annoyed or even jealous. And all of this shit will happen if you\u2019re in a relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But if you\u2019re single, you are your own priority and nothing and no one can make you feel less important.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If you\u2019re single, you don\u2019t freak out about trivial things like being jealous over something because you\u2019re occupied with more important things like having fun and not giving a damn about anything else around you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">10. Sentirse cansado de pensar demasiado constantemente<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40780\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1145571935-2.jpg\" alt=\"Estar soltero es mejor que lidiar con estos 10 problemas de pareja\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1145571935-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1145571935-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1145571935-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><em>\u201cWhat will they think if I do this or that? Will they like this color on me? Why didn\u2019t they call me? What should I do next? Do they think that I\u2019m desperate?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Estar en una relaci\u00f3n significa sentirse cansado de pensar constantemente en cualquier cosa y en todo, lo que conduce al trastorno llamado exceso de pensamiento.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But being single means not giving a damn about what others will think of you. It means enjoying your own choices and having fun till you get bored of it! (Hmm\u2026 if that\u2019s even possible!)<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-40795\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-22T122333.254-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Estar soltero es mejor que lidiar con estos 10 problemas de pareja\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-22T122333.254-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-22T122333.254-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-22T122333.254.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019re single, do you ever feel like someone out there is trying really hard to make you feel like something\u2019s wrong with you just because you\u2019re solo? The media and society in general have made it really difficult for single people to enjoy their freedom without feeling like they are missing something. All those&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":40789,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40768","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1064879747.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? 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