{"id":40832,"date":"2019-07-23T07:43:03","date_gmt":"2019-07-23T07:43:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40832"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:24:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:24:54","slug":"si-estas-harta-de-que-te-jodan-los-tios-empieza-a-vivir-segun-estas-9-reglas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-estas-harta-de-que-te-jodan-los-tios-empieza-a-vivir-segun-estas-9-reglas\/","title":{"rendered":"Si est\u00e1s harta de que los chicos te jodan, empieza a vivir seg\u00fan estas 9 reglas"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s true that men can be real assholes when it comes to relationships, romances, and love life in general. They are perfectly capable of pretending how gentlemanly nice they are, only to fuck things up later on.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pero, ya sabes lo que dicen: \u201cFool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.\u201d<\/em> If you\u2019ve had more than a few bad experiences with men, I\u2019m sorry to admit it to you, but the problem might lie in you instead.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Now, I\u2019m not saying that it is your fault because some men are genuine assholes. But, it is your fault that you didn\u2019t protect your heart by establishing some essential rules that will keep you away from hombres t\u00f3xicos y manipuladores<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, if you\u2019re really sick of getting screwed over by guys (which I surely am), consider starting to live by these 9 golden rules that will help you find a man that you deserve!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Siempre lo primero<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Remember that you\u2019re the captain of your own ship and responsible for your own happiness. Remember that if you don\u2019t fight for yourself, no one else will. Always put yourself first, no matter what!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t wait for him to start treating you the way you deserve. Instead, always treat yourself the best you can. That will let him know that you will not tolerate him treating you any differently.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you make yourself number one priority, your heart will be protected because he won\u2019t be able to reach it so easily.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Don\u2019t let him into your world so easily<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The number one mistake that many women are guilty of is letting guys into their world so easily. Men live for challenges and it\u2019s in their blood to fight for a woman they like.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y puedes adivinar lo que pasa cuando te entregas y entregas tu coraz\u00f3n tan f\u00e1cilmente a un chico. \u00a1Exactamente!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He takes it for granted. He never makes you his priority because he knows that he didn\u2019t have to fight so hard to win you, which, in a way, makes you a girl with low standards.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t be that girl. Always keep your head and standards as high as possible because one day you will thank yourself for that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 8 malentendidos de los chicos sobre salir con chicas exigentes<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Vive el momento<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re probably confused by this one, but there\u2019s a perfect reason why you should be reminded to live in the moment.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Many women, not long after they\u2019ve entered a relationship, start fantasizing about the future with their partner.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Believe me, we women are so good at it that we can imagine ourselves already married with three kids and one on the way, living in a perfect house with flowers and shit \u2013 and all of it in only three seconds.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I think it\u2019s not even necessary to mention what\u2019ll happen when you realize that your guy is not even close to this imagination.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Por eso siempre hay que ir d\u00eda a d\u00eda. No pienses demasiado. Vive el momento, aprovecha el d\u00eda y repite.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Don\u2019t let him control the pace of your relationship<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Imagine that you let a guy control how fast or slow your relationship moves. If you do that or have already done that, I\u2019m sure that things didn\u2019t end up peachy. That\u2019s because guys want it all and they want it now.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Te ven como el caramelo perfecto que necesitan tener para alcanzar la felicidad. Quieren arrancarte la ropa, observarte y seguir haci\u00e9ndolo una y otra vez.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And, guess what, you\u2019re the one who needs to keep things in control if you don\u2019t want to end up with a broken heart.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re the one who needs to control the pace of your relationship because it is your duty to protect yourself!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Presta atenci\u00f3n a las acciones y S\u00d3LO a las acciones<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has escuchado lo que te dice un chico sin cuestionarte sus verdaderas intenciones?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has olvidado centrarte en sus acciones en lugar de s\u00f3lo en las palabras que salen de su boca?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Muchas mujeres olvidan que, cuando se trata de hombres, las palabras son totalmente insignificantes. Lo \u00fanico a lo que debes prestar atenci\u00f3n es a sus actos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Despu\u00e9s de todo, \u00bfqu\u00e9 significa para ti que te diga que te quiere pero nunca te lo demuestre con hechos? <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s easy to give lip service, but only a few real men know that actions speak louder than words. And you should wait for such a man!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Los hombres de verdad te quieren con acciones reales, no con palabras falsas<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. Escucha siempre a tu instinto<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you feel like something\u2019s wrong in your relationship, then it probably is. Always remind yourself to listen to that small voice in your head telling you that something\u2019s just not right.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tu instinto es tu mejor amigo cuando se trata de relaciones y nunca debes restarle importancia.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Cambia tus h\u00e1bitos<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Let\u2019s say that you go to a place where you keep on meeting douchebags, but instead of learning your lesson, you keep visiting that same place like nothing happened.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si notas que tu historia se repite una y otra vez, deber\u00edas plantearte cambiar de h\u00e1bitos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Your choices and habits are closely connected to your happiness. You would be surprised how much you can benefit by only changing places or trivial things like your walking route, or something else that you\u2019re doing on a daily basis.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. Avoid \u201crebound\u201d relationships<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si quieres olvidar a ese tipo en particular, olv\u00eddate de relaciones de rebote<\/a>. No one has ever gotten over someone by entering into a new relationship (that\u2019s, of course, if your feelings were genuine).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lo que tienes que hacer es darte tiempo para curarte y no precipitarte.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I know it sounds a little clich\u00e9, but it\u2019s true that time heals all wounds. It is the main cure for all types of breakups and conflicts. Don\u2019t ever forget that!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

9. Don\u2019t make excuses for the guy<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Si<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Do you know what\u2019s worse than letting guys into your world so easily? It\u2019s making excuses for those same guys who are acting like assholes.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Por favor, hazte un favor y no te esfuerces en encontrar una excusa perfecta para su comportamiento cada vez que te haga algo malo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Open your eyes and see the truth. Understand that if he\u2019s been repeatedly acting like a douche towards you, it means he doesn\u2019t deserve you and you shouldn\u2019t waste a second longer on him, let alone make excuses to justify his behavior. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Recuerda que la felicidad est\u00e1 en tus manos, \u00a1as\u00ed que juega siempre con sabidur\u00eda!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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