{"id":41052,"date":"2019-07-26T07:23:03","date_gmt":"2019-07-26T07:23:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=41052"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:22:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:22:41","slug":"por-que-fracasan-las-relaciones","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-que-fracasan-las-relaciones\/","title":{"rendered":"8 razones principales por las que fracasan las relaciones (y c\u00f3mo evitarlas)"},"content":{"rendered":"
No se sabe a ciencia cierta por qu\u00e9 fracasan las relaciones. Siempre hay m\u00e1s de una raz\u00f3n que contribuye a una ruptura. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Cada relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica es diferente y se basa en valores distintos. Por eso, decidir qu\u00e9 es lo que falla en una relaci\u00f3n es casi imposible.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
If there has to be a major reason responsible for a relationship fail, I’d say it’s different priorities. Each person values something else. If your significant other considers relationships to be something you don’t agree with, it’s only natural to expect those kinds of relationships end. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
S\u00e9 que todos buscamos constantemente una relaci\u00f3n sana. Sin embargo, incluso cuando encuentras esa relaci\u00f3n, no hay garant\u00eda de que vaya a durar. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
En La raz\u00f3n de este giro de los acontecimientos es muy sencilla. Las personas cambian. Como las personas cambian, las relaciones tambi\u00e9n cambian. La persona de la que te enamoraste no puede ser la misma despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo p<\/strong>asses. So naturally, your true love doesn’t have to remain your true love. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
The thing I’ve learned after observing people in relationships around me and my current relationship is that hard work is the recipe of every relationship success. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
It’s important to keep investing in your relationship. Even more important\u2014don’t give up after the first obstacle. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
The list of reasons I’m going to mention as potential relationship killers are not the same in every long-term relationship, although these are the most common reasons out there.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
If you are tackling some of the listed problems, I’m offering the best possible solutions to save your relationship. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
8 <\/strong>principales razones<\/strong> por qu\u00e9 <\/strong>las relaciones fracasan<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
1. <\/strong>Cuestiones de confianza<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
La falta de confianza es la causa m\u00e1s com\u00fan de muerte en las relaciones. La confianza es la base sobre la que toda pareja construye su relaci\u00f3n. Sin confianza, una relaci\u00f3n no puede avanzar. S\u00f3lo puede deteriorarse con el tiempo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Trust issues may appear because of two reasons. Firstly, if one person in the relationship constantly makes promises and breaks them, it’s logical for trust issues to rise.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
En segundo lugar, los problemas para confiar en otra persona pueden aparecer de la nada. O mejor dicho, los problemas de confianza pueden aparecer por celos infundados.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Esto ocurre cuando uno de los miembros de la pareja est\u00e1 celoso sin motivo. Sus acusaciones se basan \u00fanicamente en las emociones. No hay absolutamente ninguna prueba que apoye sus acusaciones. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
So, when it comes to these two reasons, it’s obvious that the first one is a lot more solvable.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
If your partner breaks their promises, talk to them calmly and explain to them that you don’t need anyone to feed you empty words; rather don’t say anything than promise something you cannot fulfill. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
There is a possibility to save your relationship if your partner understands what you ask them to do. Regarding the jealousy, sadly, there isn’t much you can do.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Los celos son un sentimiento fuerte y a menudo muy hiriente que no se puede eliminar f\u00e1cilmente. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
C\u00f3mo afrontar <\/strong>problemas de confianza<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Como ya se ha dicho, la comunicaci\u00f3n es la clave para resolver los problemas. En realidad, la comunicaci\u00f3n es la clave para resolver todos los problemas posibles.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Be transparent, be honest and never break your word. Ask openly for what you want and work on your relationship from the beginning, not once the problems have already appeared and it’s too late.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Recuerda, una mala comunicaci\u00f3n es enemiga de la relaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
In a relationship, ego is the opposite of compromise. And anyone who has ever been in a relationship knows that compromise plays one of the biggest roles in the relationship’s success. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
It’s easy to fall in love with someone but it’s hard to make the relationship a successful one. It takes a lot of understanding, hard work and compromise. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
If you enter a relationship thinking everything will go your way, you couldn\u2019t be more delusional. Love requires your ego to be left out completely. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Todos tenemos ego, pero s\u00f3lo los que son lo bastante fuertes para contenerlo consiguen que sus relaciones funcionen.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
When you’re in love, your relationship won’t be all roses and sunshine. There will be situations where your opinion and your partner\u2019s opinion clashes. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
In those situations, it’s important to find the middle ground. That’s where your ego has to be restrained. Otherwise, it can lead to a disaster, especially with your loved ones. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\u00bfC\u00f3mo lidiar con tu ego?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
You are required to make a system that will work. Firstly, what you absolutely have to do is stop thinking only about yourself. When you are in a relationship, you’re becoming a team. There is no more ‘me’. Now it’s ‘we’. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Mant\u00e9n tu ego bajo control pensando bien tus decisiones. En definitiva, nunca decidas nada por ti mismo. Consulta siempre a tu ser querido. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Naturally, this is also connected to communication, so by avoiding your communication issues, you’re indirectly dealing with your ego as well. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
3. Falta de lealtad<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
La lealtad y la infidelidad est\u00e1n estrechamente relacionadas. En realidad, cuando ha habido falta de lealtad durante alg\u00fan tiempo, suele aparecer la infidelidad. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Some relationships get even stronger after an incident and some fall apart. It depends on how much you trust your partner and if you’re willing to give him a second chance. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Most relationships fail because one person doesn’t pay attention to the other as much as they should.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Dan por sentada a su pareja y con el tiempo hacen alguna estupidez que hace que la otra persona pierda la confianza en la persona que ama. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
When you don’t trust your loved one, there is no loyalty. Where there is no loyalty, there can’t be mutual respect or therefore love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\u00bfC\u00f3mo afrontar la falta de lealtad?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
It’s pretty straightforward. You have to trust your partner from the beginning. You have to be loyal and devoted which are not hard things to do if you love each other. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Loyalty comes as the default setup in a loving relationship. Actually, if neither of you are loyal, you don’t even have to bother to keep the relationship alive. You cannot force someone to become loyal. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
A couple doesn’t have to experience this at the beginning of the relationship and actually, it’s not usual for that to happen.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
El problema de las diferentes prioridades surge un poco m\u00e1s tarde en la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Lo que ocurre es que, en alg\u00fan momento de la relaci\u00f3n, la pareja toma caminos separados. Sus prioridades y su visi\u00f3n de la vida ya no son las mismas. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
So naturally, they don’t agree on everything anymore which makes their union slowly deteriorate until it completely falls apart. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\u00bfC\u00f3mo afrontar una disonancia de opiniones?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
It’s not the end of the world. If you or your partner has interests which are no longer the same as the other\u2019s, have an interest that suits both of you. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Hay una raz\u00f3n por la que os enamorasteis el uno del otro. Hay un n\u00facleo del que procede vuestro amor. Eso no se puede cambiar. S\u00f3lo se puede olvidar. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Por eso, busca algo que os guste a los dos y reconecta con tu pareja para recordaros de d\u00f3nde ven\u00eds y c\u00f3mo empez\u00f3 todo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
5. <\/strong>Falta de compatibilidad<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Sometimes all the boxes can be checked but the couple isn’t right for each other. They are not getting along. Everything about their relationship seems uncomfortable.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Muchas se obligan a seguir en esa relaci\u00f3n pero, con el tiempo, la insatisfacci\u00f3n se vuelve abrumadora, as\u00ed que rompen. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Your hopeless tries to stay with someone you’re not compatible with can only harm you and your self-esteem. When there is no compatibility, it’s better to end things sooner than later. There is a lot less damage if you end it at the beginning. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Although…<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
C\u00f3mo hacer frente a un <\/strong>falta de compatibilidad<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
It’s impossible to be entirely compatible with another person. If they don’t show interest in the same things you do, maybe you should try showing interest in something they do. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
This way, you’re opening up your life to something new and there is a great possibility of saving your relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Remember that relationship compatibility can only be achieved if you come out of your comfort zone\u2014both of you. If you expect your partner to completely adapt to you and your wishes, you are very wrong. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
6. <\/strong>Falta de comunicaci\u00f3n<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Los problemas de comunicaci\u00f3n son uno de los mayores asesinos de las relaciones. Como ya se ha mencionado un par de veces, una buena comunicaci\u00f3n es una soluci\u00f3n clave para todo, incluyendo una relaci\u00f3n exitosa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Debido a los juicios, cr\u00edticas o sarcasmos dirigidos a la otra persona en su relaci\u00f3n, pueden desarrollar desprecio por su parte a lo largo de cierto tiempo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Where there is a lack of communication when it comes to solving problems, other issues like this one rise to the surface. That’s why it’s important to face every little thing bothering you right away.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
C\u00f3mo hacer frente a un <\/strong>falta de comunicaci\u00f3n<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Comun\u00edcate, habla con tu pareja y dile c\u00f3mo te sientes. Dile que su comportamiento te hace sentir inc\u00f3modo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
If talking about the problem doesn’t help solve things, then it’s time to call time on the death of the relationship. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
7. Falta de tiempo<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Hoy en d\u00eda todo el mundo est\u00e1 muy ocupado, sobre todo con el furor de Internet y las redes sociales. Nadie tiene tiempo para dedicarse a otra persona. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
People hardly find time for themselves in their busy schedule called life, so it’s not surprising they don’t have the time for the person they love. This lack of time is what contributes to people drifting apart from each other. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
When this happens, it’s hard to keep the emotional connection alive. Sooner or later, that relationship is going to end if it keeps going in the same direction. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\u00bfC\u00f3mo afrontar la falta de tiempo?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Pasar tiempo de calidad con alguien a quien quieres es algo muy importante. Si esto representa un grave problema para ti, hay algunos trucos que pueden ayudarte a organizar mejor tu tiempo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Busca cosas que os gusten a los dos y programadlas para hacerlas juntos. O intenta determinar, por ejemplo, media hora para pasar el uno con el otro antes de ir a trabajar y al volver a casa del trabajo. T\u00f3mense un caf\u00e9 juntos, tengan citas peri\u00f3dicas o planifiquen viajes. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Hay muchos trucos que puedes utilizar para obligaros a pasar m\u00e1s tiempo el uno con el otro y as\u00ed salvar vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Money plays a big role in any relationship\u2014it doesn’t matter whether you’re married or not. Money is closely connected to the feelings of safety and security. Where there is no money, it’s logical that one person will assume that the other one isn’t trying hard enough to provide. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Puede parecer gracioso, pero la psique humana funciona de forma misteriosa. Cuando no hay dinero, los problemas empiezan a acumularse. Adem\u00e1s, debido a las preocupaciones econ\u00f3micas, las personas de la relaci\u00f3n est\u00e1n siempre al l\u00edmite. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
So, things that wouldn’t normally bother you that much irritate you when you’re broke. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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