{"id":41230,"date":"2019-07-29T12:25:40","date_gmt":"2019-07-29T12:25:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=41230"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:17:15","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:17:15","slug":"como-lidiar-con-el-hecho-de-que-tu-mejor-amiga-sea-amiga-de-tu-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-lidiar-con-el-hecho-de-que-tu-mejor-amiga-sea-amiga-de-tu-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo afrontar que tu mejor amiga sea amiga de tu ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hace un a\u00f1o romp\u00ed con mi novio, que me hizo mucho da\u00f1o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Me enga\u00f1\u00f3 y me humill\u00f3 delante de todos nuestros amigos porque trajo a su nueva amante a la cafeter\u00eda donde est\u00e1bamos todos.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He told me right there that he was now seeing her. He didn&#8217;t even care. Yup, he was that bad.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>I cut him off that day. He could be lying dead next to me and I wouldn&#8217;t care less for him. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Pero, mi mejor amigo que es la persona m\u00e1s agradable y mejor que nunca, todav\u00eda est\u00e1 hablando con \u00e9l y su nueva novia.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De hecho pasaron m\u00e1s tiempo juntos justo despu\u00e9s de que ocurriera. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The worst part was that due to my job, I had to move to another city where I was alone and couldn&#8217;t &#8220;control&#8221; who was hanging out with whom, so they spent the entire summer having a great time while I was crying myself to sleep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Intent\u00e9 explicarle a mi amiga que eso que estaba haciendo no estaba bien y que yo sab\u00eda que lo hac\u00eda s\u00f3lo porque es una buena persona y se compadece de todo el mundo.<\/strong>.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_99289220.jpg\" alt=\"C\u00f3mo afrontar que tu mejor amiga sea amiga de tu ex\" class=\"wp-image-41233\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_99289220.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_99289220-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_99289220-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Con el paso del tiempo, su amistad se debilit\u00f3. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I thought that this was because of me, but it turned out it was because of his new girlfriend. My friend didn&#8217;t like her company.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Para cualquiera que se enfrente a este problema, tengo un par de sugerencias:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">1. No importa lo simp\u00e1tica que sea tu amiga y lo fuerte que sea su amistad con tu ex, si \u00e9l te ha hecho algo parecido, y ella no est\u00e1 all\u00ed de pie grit\u00e1ndole, sino sonriendo como una ni\u00f1ita est\u00fapida, corta con ella. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I don&#8217;t mean cut her off for good, but at least for some time until she realizes what\u2019s right and what\u2019s wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2. Play it cool. Don&#8217;t freak out and try to point out something to her if it seems like you are talking to a wall. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Be a lady and wait. Everything will come out eventually; everyone&#8217;s personality and deeds will show up in the end.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">3. Si ella es tu buena amiga y una buena persona, y si \u00e9l es como es, al final se dar\u00e1 cuenta y volver\u00e1 contigo y lo sacar\u00e1 de su vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cr\u00e9eme, a m\u00ed me ha pasado.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Because at the end, everyone&#8217;s intentions become clear and everyone shows their actual face.<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-29T142527.390-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"C\u00f3mo afrontar que tu mejor amiga sea amiga de tu ex\" class=\"wp-image-41247\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-29T142527.390-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-29T142527.390-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-29T142527.390.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A year ago, I broke up with my boyfriend who really hurt me. He cheated on me and actually humiliated me in front of all of our friends because he brought his new lover in at this cafe where all of us were hanging.\u00a0 He told me right there that he was now seeing her&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":41243,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41230","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&amp;family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1055032637.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&amp;family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? 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