Ese fue el primer indicio que me deterior\u00f3. Nunca fui lo suficientemente buena para \u00e9l como para ser su novia legal en primer lugar. Se comprometi\u00f3 totalmente con esta otra chica. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Of course he did. Why shouldn\u2019t he when he made clear that she was better than me.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Recuerdo una vez que dej\u00e9 un trabajo en el que mi sueldo nunca llegaba a tiempo y ten\u00eda un jefe horrible. <\/p>\n\n\n\n He made a comment that made me feel like I was the laziest person ever. We were talking about my friend and he said something like, \u201cWell, at least she has a job.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sab\u00eda con lo que estaba lidiando en el trabajo y tambi\u00e9n sab\u00eda que esta situaci\u00f3n m\u00eda de desempleado era temporal hasta que consiguiera una nueva oportunidad laboral. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It wasn\u2019t like I was asking for money or anything from him. Instead of his support, though, he downgraded me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Within a month and a half, I found another job and it was in this really great firm. They loved me in the interview and it wasn\u2019t like I slept with someone to get that position. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Nunca me felicit\u00f3. De hecho, creo que estaba celoso de m\u00ed.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sus amigos me felicitaban, diciendo lo independiente, encantadora y simp\u00e1tica que era. \u00c9l nunca comentaba nada. As\u00ed que yo segu\u00eda pensando que no era nada de eso.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n S\u00e9 lo atractiva que soy e invierto en ropa bonita, sobre todo en lencer\u00eda sexy. Sab\u00eda que me ve\u00eda muy atractiva, pero nunca me dijo nada. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Okay, I\u2019m sorry for my vanity, but I am a woman and you need to tell me that you love my thighs and hair and lips.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sometimes it\u2019s not enough just to have sex with someone. It proves nothing except for the fact that you satisfied your primal need. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Compared to him, I was a Victoria\u2019s Secret model, but I never had a problem with stating I loved his beer belly and strong hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I am aware now that he was a jealous and narcissist person, that he never appreciated me, and how better off I am without him, but it\u2019s just hard to appreciate myself. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n If he \u2013 the one with the beer belly and mediocre accomplishments \u2013 never appreciated me, how is someone else who is a far better catch than he was, going to appreciate me?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n S\u00e9 que a sus amigos y a los m\u00edos les gusto y dicen que soy una buena mujer, pero a\u00fan me cuesta creerlo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Le odio por hacerme esto. Odio el hecho de que esta otra persona que va a tropezar conmigo tendr\u00e1 que lidiar con un mont\u00f3n de piezas rotas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n S\u00f3lo espero que esta futura persona sea realmente paciente y comprensiva.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n Y espero por \u00e9l que haya un universo k\u00e1rmico que nivele todas las cosas que me ha hecho a m\u00ed o a cualquier otra chica, y que sea 10 veces menos seguro de s\u00ed mismo que yo ahora.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n I was involved with this very narcissistic man who never directly said anything mean to me or was ever aggressive, but the actions and hints he used to give me totally crushed my entire being. 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