{"id":41399,"date":"2020-07-01T13:16:57","date_gmt":"2020-07-01T13:16:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=41399"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:01:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:01:51","slug":"9-senales-de-que-el-amor-que-tienes-no-es-el-que-realmente-mereces","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/9-senales-de-que-el-amor-que-tienes-no-es-el-que-realmente-mereces\/","title":{"rendered":"9 Se\u00f1ales de que el amor que tienes no es el que realmente mereces"},"content":{"rendered":"

El amor es ciego\". Estoy seguro de que muchos de vosotros ya conoc\u00e9is este dicho, pero cuando estamos enamorados tendemos a olvidar su verdadero significado.<\/p>\n

Cuando enamorarse<\/a>, our way of thinking significantly changes and we become literally blind to some red flags and other things indicating that something\u2019s not right.<\/p>\n

We get deluded into believing that everything is perfect and that we\u2019re happier than ever but is this really true? Is the love you have the love you actually deserve?<\/p>\n

Well, there\u2019s one way to find out. If you\u2019re in love, you\u2019re probably already doing everything you can to maintain your relationship.<\/p>\n

You love each other a lot and you\u2019re really determined to succeed. But there are some things that you probably haven\u2019t paid much attention to.<\/p>\n

If these 9 things are happening in your relationship, it means you\u2019re not with the right person and the love you have is not the love you actually deserve!<\/p>\n

Te censuras a ti mismo<\/h2>\n
\"mujer<\/figure>\n

Do you ever feel like you shouldn\u2019t say something in front of your partner because he might judge you or misinterpret it? Well, if you feel like this once in a while, it\u2019s not a big deal. <\/p>\n

But if you\u2019re constantly weighing up in your head if you should say something or do something because you feel anxious about your partner\u2019s reaction, then it is a huge problem in a relationship.<\/p>\n

No sentirse c\u00f3modo con su pareja para ser quien realmente es es la bandera roja n\u00famero uno que nunca debe evitar porque estar enamorado se trata de ser genuino con uno mismo y la aceptaci\u00f3n de las diferencias.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 10 diferencias clave entre amar a alguien y estar enamorado<\/a><\/p>\n

Your partner doesn\u2019t give you the right support<\/h2>\n
\"mujer<\/figure>\n

This one is really easy to miss because we all mostly pay attention to how our partner is treating us when we\u2019re going through rough times and we seldom ask ourselves how our partner is treating us when we\u2019re nailing it.<\/p>\n

Si tu pareja muestra signos de celos y de que no se alegra realmente de tu \u00e9xito, puedes estar seguro de que no te est\u00e1 dando el apoyo adecuado.<\/p>\n

You can easily notice them faking it by their body language and their choice of words when they are \u2018showing you support\u2019.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the only one who sees any good traits in your partner<\/h2>\n
\"adorable<\/figure>\n

\u00bfTus amigos y tu familia aprueban a tu pareja o creen que no te conviene?<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re the only one who sees any good traits in your partner, the chances are that you\u2019re living in an illusion.<\/p>\n

So, if the majority of the people you know don\u2019t really like your partner, then there must be a valid reason for such thinking.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re in love, it\u2019s easy for you to foresee all the red flags and fatal flaws because you\u2019re blinded by love and that is why it is good to think about the opinions of others as well.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 6 se\u00f1ales de alarma en su comportamiento que nunca debes malinterpretar<\/a><\/p>\n

Pones excusas a tu pareja<\/h2>\n
\"un<\/figure>\n

S\u00ed. Cuando queremos de verdad a alguien, tendemos a excusarle cuando nos trata mal o hace algo ego\u00edsta.<\/p>\n

By doing so, we\u2019re turning a blind eye to the real problems and issues in our relationship.<\/p>\n

We do this because we want to continue living in our imaginative fairy tale. We don\u2019t want to accept the fact that something needs to be changed.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re guilty of doing this and you can relate to everything said above, then you can be sure the love you have isn\u2019t the love you actually deserve.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re always the one who has to initiate everything<\/h2>\n
\"hombre<\/figure>\n

\u00bfSiempre eres t\u00fa quien env\u00eda los mensajes, llama e inicia todo primero?<\/p>\n

If you are, it means you\u2019re making way more effort than your partner and you should never even think of finding excuses for that.<\/p>\n

After all,\u2019it takes two to tango\u2019 and going out of your way to keep things functioning can never work in the long run.<\/p>\n

Su pareja rara vez se disculpa<\/h2>\n
\"hombre<\/figure>\n

It\u2019s completely normal to make mistakes in a relationship but if your partner never or seldom ever apologizes for it, it means no te tratan como te mereces<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Si siempre te disculpas despu\u00e9s de decir o hacer algo mal, seguro que te mereces el mismo trato a cambio.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t feel beautiful around your partner<\/h2>\n
\"mujer<\/figure>\n

If you can\u2019t remember the last time your partner complimented your outfit, hair, behavior or something else, then it means they are not making enough effort to make you feel special. <\/p>\n

If you\u2019re always giving your best to look beautiful and to amaze your partner with your choices and they never say anything that will show their appreciation, know that this is not the love that you deserve.<\/p>\n

Te mereces sentirte guapa tal y como eres y te mereces o\u00edr cumplidos a diario (sobre todo si siempre te aseguras de decirles algo bonito para que se sientan mejor).<\/p>\n

Su pareja est\u00e1 rodeada de otras personas<\/h2>\n
\"amigos<\/figure>\n

\u00bfHas notado que tu pareja se comporta de forma diferente cuando est\u00e1 rodeada de sus amigos o de otras personas cercanas?<\/p>\n

Si es as\u00ed, significa que no te tratan con el mismo respeto que a los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

It means they are taking you for granted and you certainly don\u2019t deserve that.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 7 cosas que hacer cuando te da por perdida<\/a><\/p>\n

You feel like you don\u2019t know where you stand<\/h2>\n
\"mujer<\/figure>\n

Do you ever feel like you have no idea where you stand in the relationship and you\u2019re kind of confused about everything your partner does or says?<\/p>\n

If you do, it means you\u2019re feeling in your gut that something\u2019s not right in your relationship and you\u2019re kind of lost in all that.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re feeling it in your gut, it likely means it\u2019s true and you definitely should never settle for anything less than you deserve.<\/p>\n

Mereces experimentar un amor que te haga sentir dichosa y genuinamente feliz en lugar de confundida o preocupada.<\/p>\n

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