{"id":41538,"date":"2019-08-06T07:22:34","date_gmt":"2019-08-06T07:22:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=41538"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:14:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:14:07","slug":"al-amor-que-nunca-debio-durar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/al-amor-que-nunca-debio-durar\/","title":{"rendered":"Por el amor que nunca debi\u00f3 durar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Siempre que entras en una nueva relaci\u00f3n, en el fondo, algunas partes de ti esperan en secreto que sea para siempre. Que sobrevivir\u00e1 a pesar de todos los retos y obst\u00e1culos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Desea que sea un cuento de hadas<\/a> en la que usted y su ser querido vivir\u00e1n felices para siempre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Siempre que empiezas a amar a alguien nuevo, en el fondo, algunas partes de ti esperan que esta vez sea diferente. Que vosotros dos ser\u00e9is mejores que todas las dem\u00e1s parejas y que triunfar\u00e9is, contra todo pron\u00f3stico.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At least this is the way I always think. You can call me a hopeless romantic, but I don\u2019t see the point in letting someone in your life when you already have an exit strategy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t see any point in starting something new if you\u2019re planning its end. In beginning a love story that you know has an expiration date right from the start.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, things don\u2019t always turn out the way we want them to. Sadly, many stories don\u2019t have happy endings and many loves are not meant to last, despite all of our hopes and desires.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That is exactly what happened with us \u2013 we were obviously never destined to end up together. As much as we loved each other, we couldn\u2019t fight against everything fate had prepared for us.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Por<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, this doesn\u2019t mean I blame the higher powers for our failure. I don\u2019t blame either of us, either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The truth is that I\u2019ve accepted our end. I\u2019ve come to terms with the fact that I lost you for good and that you\u2019re not coming back.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, this doesn\u2019t mean that I consider time spent with you wasted. It doesn\u2019t mean that I regret giving you my entire self, nor does it mean that I wouldn\u2019t have done it all over again, if I had the chance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lo m\u00e1s importante, it doesn\u2019t mean that we didn\u2019t have a purpose in each other\u2019s lives. It doesn\u2019t mean we didn\u2019t matter or our love wasn\u2019t true.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sabes, me llev\u00f3 a\u00f1os entender todo esto. Al principio, cuando te perd\u00ed, maldije a mi destino por haberte enviado a mi camino s\u00f3lo para que te alejaras de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I wondered what the point of everything was \u2013 why God sent me a man I loved so much, if He knew he wasn\u2019t my forever person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 ten\u00eda que experimentar un amor tan abrumador y absorbente, si acabar\u00eda sufriendo por ello? \u00bfQu\u00e9 sentido ten\u00eda todo ese dolor por el que estaba pasando?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Por<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Then, after a lot of thought, it dawned on me that sometimes we can\u2019t understand everything. Me di cuenta de que hay razones que escapan a nuestra comprensi\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Descubr\u00ed que nuestra historia serv\u00eda valiosa lecci\u00f3n<\/a>. A lesson that cost me endless sleepless nights and tears, but a lesson I\u2019ll never forget.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Me di cuenta de que estabas ah\u00ed para ense\u00f1arme a amar con todo mi ser. Estabas ah\u00ed para ense\u00f1arme a lidiar con la p\u00e9rdida, a mantenerme fuerte a pesar de todas las dificultades y a elevarme por encima del dolor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para ense\u00f1arme que soy una mujer autosuficiente que puede sobrevivir a todo lo que la vida le depare. Para mostrarme todo el poder interior que no sab\u00eda que ten\u00eda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You were there to school me that I can\u2019t always have whatever and whoever I want. That sometimes, life is a bitch who kicks us in the gut when we least expect it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

To teach me how to appreciate people while they\u2019re still in my life. How to cope with sadness and nostalgia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lo m\u00e1s importante, you were there to teach me that some people are not meant to stay. That some loves aren\u2019t meant to last, as much as we want it to be.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, maybe you don\u2019t want to hear this, but after finally understanding all of this, I don\u2019t regret losing you anymore. And you know why?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because I know that everything I\u2019ve been through was for my own good. Because I know that bigger and better things await me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because I know that we\u2019ll both manage to be happy in the future without each other. Because I am convinced that we\u2019ll both meet the people who are <\/strong>destinado a ser nuestro<\/strong><\/a> hasta el fin de los tiempos.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And when that does happen, we\u2019ll realize why things never worked between us.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Por<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Whenever you enter a new relationship, deep down, some parts of you secretly hope that it will be forever. That it will survive despite all the challenges and obstacles. You wish for it to be a fairytale in which you and your loved one will live happily ever after. Whenever you start loving someone new,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":41544,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41538","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1036776307-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","parent":38,"count":146,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29617,"category_count":146,"category_description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. That's why I've decided to collect different stories of heartbreak - to help everyone going through the same.","cat_name":"heartbreak","category_nicename":"heartbreak","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41538","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=41538"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41538\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/41544"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=41538"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=41538"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=41538"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}