{"id":4194,"date":"2020-02-28T08:59:08","date_gmt":"2020-02-28T08:59:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4194"},"modified":"2022-01-09T17:22:40","modified_gmt":"2022-01-09T17:22:40","slug":"10-signos-de-obsesion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/10-signos-de-obsesion\/","title":{"rendered":"Se\u00f1ales de obsesi\u00f3n: 10 se\u00f1ales de que es peligrosamente obsesivo y no est\u00e1 enamorado"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfSon f\u00e1ciles de detectar los signos de obsesi\u00f3n? Uno se siente realmente bien cuando tiene a alguien especial a su lado, alguien que le importa de verdad y que se preocupa por usted.<\/p>\n

Es incre\u00edble cuando el hombre de tu vida es todo lo que has so\u00f1ado y te da todo su amor y apoyo.<\/p>\n

Pero hay personas que pueden obsesionarse f\u00e1cilmente con su pareja y convertir su amor en un amor obsesivo.<\/p>\n

Se convierten en quienes los persiguen, los fantasman, los asfixian.<\/p>\n

The ones who don\u2019t let them have their free time or spend some time with family members and friends.<\/p>\n

Hay chicos que act\u00faan de forma bastante normal al principio de una relaci\u00f3n pero despu\u00e9s, por alguna raz\u00f3n, empiezan a ser controladores.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

They start to manipulate, convincing their partners that they don\u2019t need anyone and that they are the only person they need in their life. Those men can be very dangerous because what they feel is not love.<\/p>\n

They are some of the extreme cases where love turns into an obsessive relationship and the other person in it has no idea she’s dealing with an obsessed person.<\/p>\n

If you have a partner who was normal at the beginning of your relationship but who changed over time and he doesn\u2019t make you feel good now, d\u00e9jalo<\/a>. Your relationship with him won\u2019t get any better.<\/p>\n

It will only get worse. And the worst thing is that you can\u2019t do anything about that.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t change him. Only he can change his obsessive behavior if he decides it is time for that.<\/p>\n

Si no est\u00e1s muy segura de si tu hombre est\u00e1 obsesionado contigo, aqu\u00ed tienes algunas se\u00f1ales de advertencia del amor obsesivo:<\/p>\n

Es demasiado pegajoso<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que se siente bien cuando pasa mucho tiempo contigo al principio de vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Pero cuando es demasiado, simplemente es demasiado. Tiene que entender que tienes tu propia vida y que a veces te apetece estar sola.<\/p>\n

Todos necesitamos un poco de tiempo a solas y tiempo que podamos pasar s\u00f3lo con nuestros amigos y familiares.<\/p>\n

A guy who doesn\u2019t want to accept your relationships with your friends and family probably has mental health issues connected to obsessive-compulsive behavior.<\/p>\n

Ese tipo de relaci\u00f3n no es sana, as\u00ed que ser\u00e1 mejor que quemes los puentes entre los dos antes de que sea demasiado tarde.<\/p>\n

Lo \u00faltimo que necesitas en tus manos es una baja autoestima seguida de un coraz\u00f3n roto y tu alma hecha pedazos.<\/p>\n

Te bombardea con mensajes<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It is sweet to get a \u2018good morning\u2019 message from your sweetheart but if he keeps texting you every fifteen minutes, it is a little bit pushy.<\/p>\n

Tiene que entender que no es el centro de tu mundo y que en tu vida pasan muchas cosas.<\/p>\n

He can spend time with his friends or family as well. He can find a hobby or do something that fulfills him. But he can\u2019t suffocate you in that way.<\/p>\n

Si sigue haci\u00e9ndolo, te sentir\u00e1s mal en esa relaci\u00f3n y desear\u00e1s no haberle conocido.<\/p>\n

It is okay to send you a message while you are at work to ask something important but asking you about some things that don\u2019t matter simply doesn\u2019t make any sense.<\/p>\n

Answering all those texts will take a lot of time, especially if he’s bombarding you on social media as well, and you won\u2019t be able to focus on your work.<\/p>\n

That is why you need to set some boundaries because if you don\u2019t do it now, you will have problems later.<\/p>\n

And if he can\u2019t understand that, then he is not worthy of your love and your love is not healthy love.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo un hombre que te comprenda y que sepa que te esfuerzas nunca te har\u00e1 algo as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Usted es su modelo a seguir<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Es estupendo cuando eres un modelo a seguir para alguien, pero es un poco extra\u00f1o cuando tu hombre te dice eso despu\u00e9s de vuestro primer encuentro. Eso de ah\u00ed es una se\u00f1al que grita trastorno obsesivo-compulsivo.<\/p>\n

I mean, come on, he hasn\u2019t gotten to know you well yet\u2014how can he judge a book by its cover? His behavior is showing pure infatuation, mixed with obsession.<\/p>\n

Si te encuentras en una situaci\u00f3n as\u00ed, por favor, pi\u00e9nsate dos veces si es el hombre con el que quieres tener una segunda cita o incluso pasar tu vida.<\/p>\n

It is just a sign that he doesn\u2019t have any life experience and that he doesn\u2019t know anything about love.<\/p>\n

Mientras est\u00e9s con \u00e9l, deber\u00edas sentirte bien en tu propia piel, pero si no te sientes as\u00ed, quiz\u00e1 simplemente no sea el adecuado y deber\u00edas romper con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Ten en cuenta que necesitas un hombre que sea totalmente independiente y no alguien que acuda a ti para que le resuelvas todos los problemas que tenga.<\/p>\n

Si le rechazas se enfada<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Esta es una de las se\u00f1ales m\u00e1s comunes de que est\u00e1 obsesionado contigo.<\/p>\n

He just can\u2019t understand that, \u201cNo,\u201d means, \u201cNo.\u201d And he needs to understand that.<\/p>\n

If you are not feeling like doing something, he can\u2019t just think about himself only.<\/p>\n

He needs to let you go to do things in your own way. That is a good thing and we all need it, even if we are in a relationship. Your free time is what you need and what you deserve so don\u2019t let a guy tell you what you have to do.<\/p>\n

No es bueno ni sano, as\u00ed que tienes que poner algunas reglas si quieres que tu relaci\u00f3n dure.<\/p>\n

No matter how much he says that he loves you, he won\u2019t admit that he is wrong.<\/p>\n

If you catch yourself in a situation like this, try to talk to him in a normal and calm way. If that doesn\u2019t work, I guess no es el hombre adecuado para ti<\/a>!<\/p>\n

Bu, don’t worry, there are a lot of people out there who are your perfect match and most importantly, are ready to make you the object of their affection\u2014but in a healthy way.<\/p>\n

Dice que se suicidar\u00e1 si le dejas.<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Oh, that sneaky bastard! He is just blackmailing you because he knows that you love him and that you won\u2019t let him do any harm to himself. He is not the kind of man you need in your life.<\/p>\n

Si hace eso al principio de vuestra relaci\u00f3n, imag\u00ednate lo que har\u00e1 cuando las cosas se pongan serias.<\/p>\n

He needs to know that he can\u2019t do that to you and later tell you he loves you. That is not love, it is manipulation and it is not healthy.<\/p>\n

No es m\u00e1s que un imb\u00e9cil manipulador<\/a> que intenta mantenerte cerca y chupar toda tu energ\u00eda positiva.<\/p>\n

The truth is that he doesn\u2019t have the guts to kill himself and all those stories are just a show for you.<\/p>\n

Espero que seas lo suficientemente inteligente como para no tragarte esta mierda porque un ser querido nunca dir\u00eda algo as\u00ed. \u00a1Las cosas que dice y hace son pura BS!<\/p>\n

Te acecha<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Esta es una se\u00f1al innegable de que est\u00e1 obsesionado contigo<\/a>. Te controlar\u00e1 en el trabajo, ir\u00e1 sin invitaci\u00f3n a las fiestas que hagas con las chicas y dir\u00e1 que fue s\u00f3lo una coincidencia.<\/p>\n

\u00a1Corta el rollo! Este tipo es un acosador y lo hace porque est\u00e1 loco. Primero empieza con cosas peque\u00f1as, luego se vuelve m\u00e1s grande y m\u00e1s serio.<\/p>\n

Deber\u00edas pensar dos veces si es el tipo de hombre que quieres en tu vida.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest, the situation can only get worse, to the point where you should be seriously considering getting a restraining order. It’s usually how these relationships end.<\/p>\n

Insiste en que eres su alma gemela<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Un chico que habla de matrimonio e hijos despu\u00e9s de la primera cita no es una persona mentalmente sana.<\/p>\n

Okay, we have all daydreamed about our wedding day with some hot dude we saw on the street but to actually go up to that person and start talking about it, that\u2019s insane!<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care how that makes you feel, because in his head it\u2019s a completely normal thing to do.<\/p>\n

He \u2018knows\u2019 that you\u2019re the one for him, he has to be the one for you, right? Hell no! This is one of the most disturbing signs that he is obsessed with you.<\/p>\n

He created a scenario about the two of you in his head where everything is ideal but he forgot one thing\u2014to ask for your opinion.<\/p>\n

Lo que tiene que hacer es recomponerse antes de perder a una chica incre\u00edble como t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

Comprueba tu tel\u00e9fono<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

Esto es un signo de obsesi\u00f3n pero tambi\u00e9n es un signo de ambos inseguridad y celos<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Si lee los mensajes que has enviado a otras personas, probablemente s\u00f3lo quiera averiguar si te gustan otros hombres porque sabe que siempre le contar\u00e1s a tu mejor amigo todo lo que te pasa en la vida.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que aprovecha cuando no est\u00e1s para revisar tu tel\u00e9fono.<\/p>\n

He does not respect your privacy because in his head it\u2019s completely normal to share everything and he needs to know how you feel exactly and what you have been doing throughout the day.<\/p>\n

He is insecure and that is the only reason he does that to you. Well, that and because of the personality disorder he’s suffering from.<\/p>\n

Si alguna vez le pillas haciendo esto, ten\u00e9is que sentaros y tener una larga y seria charla.<\/p>\n

He needs to know that you want a man who will love you and support you\u2014not an egomaniac who will freak out every single time you do something that he doesn\u2019t like!<\/p>\n

Maybe it will all stop with jealousy but what if he starts being abusive? What if he starts hitting you every time you don\u2019t do what he wants? These are the things you need to think about before it is too late.<\/p>\n

He says, \u201cYes,\u201d to everything you ask<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

It is a little bit boring when your man says, \u201cYes,\u201d to everything that you have to say.<\/p>\n

I am not saying that the two of you can\u2019t have the same opinion about something, I am just saying you can\u2019t do that all the time.<\/p>\n

After all, you are a woman and he is a man. It is normal that you don\u2019t think the same. That is what makes you unique as a couple!<\/p>\n

If you feel he doesn\u2019t want to say what he thinks just so you wouldn\u2019t get angry, it is a sign of obsession.<\/p>\n

A guy like this will put up with all the things he doesn\u2019t like about you and he will explode one day. And the only victim in all this will be you.<\/p>\n

I suggest you talk to him openly and tell him that he can be honest with you even if the two of you don\u2019t want the same thing. That is how problems are solved in healthy relationships.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 ah\u00ed aunque le trates mal<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t get out of your life even if you treat him badly. He will stick around even if you tell him you need some time alone.<\/p>\n

He will call you, send you messages and buy you gifts. This is a sign that he doesn\u2019t have any self-respect and that he would do anything to be with you again, no matter how poorly you treat him.<\/p>\n

This is a big, red flag, a sign of obsession, so be prepared that you won\u2019t be able to get away from him so easily. If this is not a sign of mental illness, I don\u2019t know what is!<\/p>\n

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