{"id":41960,"date":"2019-08-09T12:34:19","date_gmt":"2019-08-09T12:34:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=41960"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:05:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:05:45","slug":"5-razones-por-las-que-un-narcisista-no-puede-durar-mucho-en-una-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-razones-por-las-que-un-narcisista-no-puede-durar-mucho-en-una-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"5 razones por las que un narcisista no puede durar mucho en una relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Entre una multitud de atributos indeseables, todos los narcisistas tienen otra cosa en com\u00fan. Sean o no conscientes de ello, no est\u00e1n hechos para las relaciones duraderas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En su retorcida mente, no hay nada que puedan hacer mal. Si les preguntas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/tu-culo-narcisista-abuso-de-mi-amor-y-lo-convirtio-en-odio-a-ti-mismo\/\">tu narcisista<\/a>, he would probably insist that his relationships with his family, friends and co-workers couldn\u2019t be better. When in fact, that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A narcissist\u2019s inability to empathize with other people and understand where the majority of their emotions come from makes it extremely challenging for them to form long-lasting, healthy relationships.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They don\u2019t see it the way other people do but they lack in the emotional department and since they are unable (and unwilling) to go through the daily motions of the average Joe, they simply cannot last in a relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Todos los narcisistas tienen un modus operandi similar. Su comportamiento se puede predecir f\u00e1cilmente porque hacen lo suyo en bucle en todas y cada una de las relaciones rom\u00e1nticas. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And that right there is the main cause of their romantic downfall. (Ironic, isn\u2019t it?)<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Due to this peculiar occurrence, it\u2019s easier to understand exactly why they cannot form relationships that can actually stand the test of time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They are the ones standing in their own way and if it wasn\u2019t for their manipulative behavioral patterns, their luck in love would perhaps increase! <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pero por suerte para todas las mujeres de ah\u00ed fuera, se adhieren a su agenda y aqu\u00ed es exactamente c\u00f3mo sabotean sus esfuerzos rom\u00e1nticos.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Los narcisistas tratan a las personas (y a sus parejas rom\u00e1nticas) como objetos<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_453509824.jpg\" alt=\"5 razones por las que un narcisista no puede durar mucho en una relaci\u00f3n\" class=\"wp-image-41967\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_453509824.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_453509824-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_453509824-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As we are all already familiar with, narcissists cannot feel empathy, therefore have zero regard for other people\u2019s well-being. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No pueden caer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/5-cosas-que-el-hombre-ama-con-locura\/\">locamente enamorado<\/a> the way you, I and the rest of the world can. They aren\u2019t wired that way.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What they can do is fall for a person in an extremely unhealthy, obsessive manner, let their delusion of love overcome them and within days return to their \u2018normal\u2019 self who treats people like objects.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>They use their partner\u2019s emotions for their own gain and discard them when they no longer serve their purpose.<\/li><li>Drenan la energ\u00eda de su pareja y la dejan vac\u00eda y desesperada por una recarga que nunca llega.<\/li><li>En lugar de comprometerse, toman lo que quieren y no dan nada a menos que tenga sentido para su propio beneficio y su propio bienestar.<\/li><\/ul>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Los narcisistas van por la vida con la cabeza en las nubes<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_646467355.jpg\" alt=\"5 razones por las que un narcisista no puede durar mucho en una relaci\u00f3n\" class=\"wp-image-41972\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_646467355.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_646467355-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_646467355-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Narcissists don\u2019t care what\u2019s happening around them. They don\u2019t care what you think or feel. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tienen sus propios ideales particulares que est\u00e1n bastante alejados de la realidad. Apuntan demasiado alto y esperan mucho sin ofrecer nada.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Buscan una pareja que s\u00f3lo les sirva de bonito accesorio. Quieren que alguien satisfaga todas sus necesidades, creyendo que tienen todo el derecho a ello. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They don\u2019t care what you want. The only thing that matters is what they have imagined in their head and working on achieving it (no matter how delusional or far-fetched it is).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>A narcissist doesn\u2019t make it easy on their partner. You will always look over your shoulder wondering if you did something wrong and how to make amends.<\/li><li>Su constante insatisfacci\u00f3n contigo te jugar\u00e1 malas pasadas y te convertir\u00e1 en un pesimista hastiado que ha perdido las ganas de vivir.<\/li><li>Nunca har\u00e1n su parte para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/la-persona-adecuada-no-te-hara-pasar-por-un-infierno-para-ser-feliz\/\">ser feliz<\/a>. They will ALWAYS expect you to do that. You will be the one in charge of your narcissist\u2019s happiness and it will be extremely difficult living that way.<\/li><\/ul>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Los narcisistas no conf\u00edan en NADIE<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1196195179.jpg\" alt=\"5 razones por las que un narcisista no puede durar mucho en una relaci\u00f3n\" class=\"wp-image-41973\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1196195179.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1196195179-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1196195179-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They don\u2019t put their trust in anyone\u2019s hands but their own. They see it as a weakness because they have never let themselves depend on anybody. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Unlike other people, who trust their nearest and dearest, narcissists don\u2019t have that luxury.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They don\u2019t understand how people give away their trust that easily as it can backfire within seconds. And this is why their relationships end way too prematurely. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Su incapacidad para confiar en su pareja dificulta la relaci\u00f3n sentimental, ya que la confianza es el principal ingrediente de una relaci\u00f3n amorosa sana y feliz.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>To them, trust equals vulnerability and they don\u2019t allow themselves to be weak. Not for their partner, not for anyone.<\/li><li>No se dan cuenta de que la confianza refuerza la solidez de una relaci\u00f3n y ayuda a construir la conexi\u00f3n y a acercar a dos personas.<\/li><li>Confiar en las personas significa depender de ellas y los narcisistas no dependen de nadie m\u00e1s que de s\u00ed mismos.<\/li><\/ul>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Los narcisistas son excesivamente controladores y manipuladores<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1207123849.jpg\" alt=\"5 razones por las que un narcisista no puede durar mucho en una relaci\u00f3n\" class=\"wp-image-41977\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1207123849.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1207123849-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1207123849-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Los narcisistas siempre tienen que controlar a las personas y las situaciones en las que se encuentran. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nunca se permiten quedar al margen de tener que recomponer las piezas porque siempre est\u00e1n al tanto de todo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Y esto, junto con su necesidad de manipulaci\u00f3n, hace que les resulte dif\u00edcil mantener una relaci\u00f3n de pareja comprometida con alguien. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Har\u00e1n todo lo que est\u00e9 en su mano para salir lo mejor parados posible y, si es necesario, te tirar\u00e1n debajo del autob\u00fas. Su necesidad de perfecci\u00f3n est\u00e1 por encima de cualquier otra cosa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>If a certain situation doesn\u2019t appear to be in their favor, they will make shit up and lie to get their desired outcome.<\/li><li>They don\u2019t respond well to being criticized, so they will resort to many manipulative tactics to drive their partner insane, such as being passive-aggressive and giving you <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-formas-de-reaccionar-ante-el-silencio-en-tu-relacion-de-pareja\/\">el tratamiento silencioso.<\/a><\/li><li>They never own up to their shit. The blame always falls on somebody else\u2019s shoulders and they will make sure never to be responsible for any shit they cause. They are masters of covering their tracks.<\/li><\/ul>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Los narcisistas pueden volverse agresivos muy r\u00e1pidamente<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1245348004.jpg\" alt=\"5 razones por las que un narcisista no puede durar mucho en una relaci\u00f3n\" class=\"wp-image-41980\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1245348004.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1245348004-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1245348004-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If they don\u2019t have their way, they can turn violent just like that. Narcissists are known to be abusive to their partners and don\u2019t even recognize it as bad behavior. To them, you provoked them, therefore you got yours.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If their partner doesn\u2019t please their every need, they may resort to domestic violence. And if your narcissist possesses any of these problematic traits, the chances of him turning hostile are higher than in any other situation:<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>\u00bfSu narcisista tiene un ego fr\u00e1gil?<\/li><li>\u00bfTiene la costumbre de utilizar a sus allegados en beneficio propio?<\/li><li>\u00bfLe falta empat\u00eda?<\/li><li>\u00bfSe siente superior a ti y a todos los que le rodean?<\/li><li>\u00bfSu comportamiento es aterrador y a menudo dif\u00edcil de descifrar?<\/li><\/ul>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you have answered yes to the majority of these, it is probable that things may take a turn for the worse and sooner than you think. Don\u2019t let your fear keep you with him. If he hasn\u2019t shown signs of major aggression yet, take it as your chance to leave and never look back.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PINTEREST-2019-08-09T143307.863-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"5 razones por las que un narcisista no puede durar mucho en una relaci\u00f3n\" class=\"wp-image-41992\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PINTEREST-2019-08-09T143307.863-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PINTEREST-2019-08-09T143307.863-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PINTEREST-2019-08-09T143307.863.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Among a multitude of undesirable attributes, all narcissists have yet another thing in common. Whether they are aware of it or not, they are simply not made for long-term relationships. In their twisted mind, there is nothing they can do wrong. If you asked your narcissist, he would probably insist that his relationships with his&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":41989,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41960","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1064722256.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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