{"id":42170,"date":"2019-08-19T09:59:40","date_gmt":"2019-08-19T09:59:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=42170"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:01:28","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:01:28","slug":"7-cosas-malas-que-te-pasaran-si-sigues-adelante-demasiado-rapido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/7-cosas-malas-que-te-pasaran-si-sigues-adelante-demasiado-rapido\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cosas malas que te pasar\u00e1n si sigues adelante demasiado r\u00e1pido"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sanar y seguir adelante con \u00e9xito tras una relaci\u00f3n disfuncional es un sue\u00f1o. Pero en realidad, es una tarea tit\u00e1nica. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Cada persona tiene sus propios mecanismos de afrontamiento y lidiar con la carga de una ruptura puede hacerse de m\u00faltiples maneras.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Pero una cosa que no es recomendable despu\u00e9s de haber terminado una relaci\u00f3n duradera es pasar p\u00e1gina demasiado r\u00e1pido.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You may think you\u2019re doing yourself a favor by doing everything you can to do olv\u00eddate de \u00e9l<\/a> and completely preoccupying yourself with different things, but you\u2019re really not.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You can\u2019t just erase a huge part of your life. You can\u2019t just pretend that all never happened. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You CAN decide to ignore how you\u2019re feeling and deny that you\u2019re shattered and heartbroken, but eventually it\u2019ll catch up with you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y te pillar\u00e1 por sorpresa. Y entonces, ser\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil recuperarse y seguir adelante. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you don\u2019t believe me, here is exactly how moving on too quickly can and will negatively affect you:<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Al no pasar por el aro, acabas reprimiendo emociones que acaban por pasarte factura<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you don\u2019t let yourself process what happened and feel your feelings, it might happen on the worst day imaginable. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll be drinking alone in your kitchen, listening to his favourite song, and it will just overcome you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Todo lo que intentabas enterrar en lo m\u00e1s profundo y apartar de ti, de repente saldr\u00e1 a la superficie y te pillar\u00e1 desprevenido.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You won\u2019t know how to deal with all of the emotions, and the fact that you\u2019re drinking will only worsen and heighten the despair you\u2019re feeling. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y por eso necesitas lidiar con tus emociones a tiempo, hasta que un d\u00eda, todo empiece a mejorar.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Tener un chico de rebote s\u00f3lo pospone tu sufrimiento<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Cuando decides saltar a la cama con alguien demasiado pronto despu\u00e9s de romper con <\/a>your man, you don\u2019t get to heal. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You don\u2019t get to deal with your issues. What you DO get is a postponed heartbreak that hits you twice as hard.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll think you\u2019re doing okay and that you\u2019re forgetting all about him. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But what you\u2019re actually doing is sleeping with a random stranger who is going to walk out in the morning and leave you to your own devices. And what then? <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

What happens when you\u2019re alone with your feelings? You break down in tears and suffer in silence. Don\u2019t do this to yourself. You know better.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Pasar p\u00e1gina demasiado pronto te hace bajar el list\u00f3n (y perderte cosas incre\u00edbles).<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

By the end of it, you\u2019ll just want somebody there. Somebody to comfort you and tell you it\u2019s going to be okay. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A body to warm yours at night, and just somebody to listen to you. And it won\u2019t really matter if this guy is actually a good guy or somebody with impure intentions.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll just care to not be alone. And that is how you end up in a toxic relationship. You lower your standards for all the wrong reasons and end up in the arms of al hombre equivocado.<\/a>\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It doesn\u2019t mean it will definitely happen, but it can for sure. And is it really worth it? You might miss out on amazing things and a great man due to your impatience.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. You can\u2019t get your ex out of your head, no matter how hard you try<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you don\u2019t heal properly, you\u2019ll never be able to get your ex out of your head. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You will see him in every guy you sleep with and in every corner on the street. He\u2019ll be a constant presence in your mind and it\u2019ll drive you nuts.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Al no curarte lenta y pacientemente, no te das la oportunidad de seguir adelante. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

How can you forget about someone if you don\u2019t give yourself the chance to admit how broken you really are? You need to do what it takes to get over it in a way that helps you grow.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. You\u2019ll compare every guy you date to your ex-boyfriend<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Whoever you end up with, they just won\u2019t be able to compare to your ex. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

They won\u2019t be able to fill in your ex\u2019s shoes and it will leave you devastated. You won\u2019t want to compare, but you won\u2019t be able to help yourself.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Fue todo lo que conociste durante tanto tiempo y se convirti\u00f3 en una medida de lo que necesitas. Y ahora, con cada chico nuevo, nadie parece saber c\u00f3mo manejarte.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Y eso har\u00e1 que lo echas de menos<\/a> like crazy. You will want him again, but you\u2019ll know he\u2019s no good for you, and that will make you suffer more than you actually need to.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. You\u2019ll give false hope to the next guy and it won\u2019t be fair to him<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You don\u2019t want to hurt anybody, I know that, but that is exactly what you will end up doing. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

By moving on too quickly, you\u2019ll end up leading the next guy on and make him think he has an actual chance. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And we both know you\u2019re in no place to make that kind of a decision so soon.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lo que necesitas es un poco de tiempo a solas para recomponerte y darte cuenta de lo que necesitas en este momento. Y sabes que saltar de una relaci\u00f3n a otra demasiado r\u00e1pido es exactamente lo contrario de eso.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Har\u00e1 que quieras volver con tu ex<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When you move on prematurely, you see what the world has to offer and it\u2019s just not as good as you had it with your man.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Nothing seems worth the trouble and you just can\u2019t bring yourself to really open up that way to anyone.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Your ex is the only one who made it all worth it (until he no longer did). And now, you don\u2019t see yourself with anyone else, which will make you go back to something that is clearly not good for you anymore.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You deny yourself a true chance at happiness by not letting yourself go through the healing process. That\u2019s just not right. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You deserve more, and hopefully, you\u2019ll see it too. Time heals all wounds, but you\u2019ve got to let it do its thing first.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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