{"id":42199,"date":"2019-08-19T11:55:32","date_gmt":"2019-08-19T11:55:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=42199"},"modified":"2021-09-08T09:51:41","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T09:51:41","slug":"asi-es-como-actuas-en-el-amor-segun-tu-estilo-de-apego","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/asi-es-como-actuas-en-el-amor-segun-tu-estilo-de-apego\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como act\u00faas en el amor, seg\u00fan tu estilo de apego"},"content":{"rendered":"

Un estilo de apego es un patr\u00f3n de comportamiento que muestras en relaci\u00f3n con los dem\u00e1s y la forma en que te apegas a tus seres queridos. Es la forma en que act\u00faas en tus amistades y en tus relaciones rom\u00e1nticas y familiares.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

El estudio original de los estilos de apego se refer\u00eda principalmente a la relaci\u00f3n entre padres e hijos, pero m\u00e1s tarde los expertos se dieron cuenta de que las relaciones entre adultos tambi\u00e9n funcionan de forma similar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Existen cuatro de estos estilos y todos tenemos uno que es predominante y que dicta nuestro comportamiento en relaci\u00f3n con las personas importantes de nuestra vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fijaci\u00f3n segura<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"As\u00ed<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Si perteneces a este estilo de apego, lo m\u00e1s importante para ti en las relaciones rom\u00e1nticas es la seguridad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You would never let in someone you\u2019re not sure about or someone who can\u2019t give you the security you crave in your heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t look for butterflies and excitement because you know true love is more than that. You don\u2019t need passion which will overwhelm you, just so it could fade away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eres lo suficientemente maduro para elegir siempre el amor permanente por encima de la lujuria temporal<\/a>. Saber que la intimidad es mucho m\u00e1s que la acci\u00f3n t\u00f3rrida en el dormitorio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead of searching for love at first sight, you\u2019re looking for a person whose love will feel like home. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alguien que sea tu compa\u00f1ero de vida, alguien que te d\u00e9 calma y alguien que sea tu puerto en las tormentas m\u00e1s dif\u00edciles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuando se trata de ti, todo sucede gradualmente. Una vez que conoces a la persona de tu vida, no hay fuegos artificiales ni dramas innecesarios.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In fact, you fall in love while getting to know your partner. You don\u2019t have a desire to change them and their qualities attract you, one by one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aunque algunos puedan considerar aburridas este tipo de historias de amor, lo cierto es que este tipo de relaciones suelen durar toda la vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apego Inseguro Evitativo<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"As\u00ed<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Contrary to the previous attachment style, you usually let your insecurities take over you when you\u2019re in a romantic relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Inconscientemente, en el pasado, desarroll\u00f3 una tendencia a enamorarse de hombres emocionalmente inaccesibles. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

For men who couldn\u2019t have given you the love you deserved and who didn\u2019t have the emotional capacities you needed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por lo tanto, aleccionado por experiencias dolorosas anteriores, tiene problemas para establecer una cercan\u00eda emocional en cualquier relaci\u00f3n y especialmente en las rom\u00e1nticas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

With time, you concluded that men won\u2019t respond to your feelings, so you\u2019ve learned to repress them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, you have trouble letting people in all the way. You\u2019ve volverse reservado<\/a> y construiste muros alrededor de tu coraz\u00f3n que mantienen fuera a todos los intrusos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After all the disappointments you\u2019ve experienced, you\u2019ve learned that the only way to protect yourself is to remain a careful and closed person and never to allow someone new to crush you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apego ambivalente\/ansioso<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"As\u00ed<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Las personas que pertenecen a este estilo de apego suelen depender emocionalmente de personas de su vida, especialmente de sus parejas sentimentales. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Una vez que te enamoras, tu hombre se convierte en el centro de tu mundo y en la \u00fanica causa de tu existencia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The fear of him leaving you takes over you completely and you\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes to prevent that from happening. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De repente, te conviertes en una complaciente y cambias la esencia de tu personalidad, s\u00f3lo para gustarle m\u00e1s a este chico.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quieres evitar a toda costa el rechazo y el abandono, y las inseguridades y miedos relacionados con ello te hacen sentir necesitado y pegajoso. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You are concerned that you\u2019re the one who loves more and the only one fighting for your relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apego desorganizado<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"As\u00ed<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The name says it all\u2014you\u2019re unpredictable and it usually appears that you don\u2019t even know what you want. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Your actions are often confusing for your partner and it appears that your behavior doesn\u2019t make any sense or have any order.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not only that\u2014you\u2019re also considered a real drama queen in all of your relationships. You enjoy the chase and playing hot and cold games.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tienes la costumbre de fingir dif\u00edcil de conseguir<\/a>, just to test your partner\u2019s love for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Naturalmente, todo esto te lleva a tener una monta\u00f1a rusa de emociones. Conduce a una relaci\u00f3n rom\u00e1ntica turbulenta, que al principio parece una conexi\u00f3n apasionada pero acaba siendo una aut\u00e9ntica pesadilla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n

\"As\u00ed<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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