{"id":42450,"date":"2019-08-29T12:01:51","date_gmt":"2019-08-29T12:01:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=42450"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:55:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:55:27","slug":"quiero-un-novio-15-maneras-probadas-de-encontrar-al-chico-adecuado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/quiero-un-novio-15-maneras-probadas-de-encontrar-al-chico-adecuado\/","title":{"rendered":"Quiero Un Novio: 15 maneras probadas de encontrar al chico adecuado"},"content":{"rendered":"

In today\u2019s world, everywhere you look, you hear girls saying: I don\u2019t want a boyfriend<\/em>. Ves a chicas disfrutando de su solter\u00eda, sin planear cambiarla por alg\u00fan hombre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, you\u2019re different. You\u2019re tired of being alone and you think it\u2019s time to find someone to share your life with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As one of the most famous I want a boyfriend quotes says: you\u2019re not desperate, you just want a boyfriend because you\u2019re sick of sitting back and watching everybody else fall in love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You want someone to wake up next to every morning, someone to text you on a regular basis, someone to understand you, someone to kiss you\u2026 You want someone you will love and someone to love you back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, if this is something you can relate to, you\u2019ve come to the right place because we\u2019re about to help you find a boyfriend the easiest way possible. Just follow this step-by-step guide and you\u2019ll have your dream guy in no time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Averig\u00fce lo que quiere<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quiero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Antes de hacer nada, debe hacerse algunas preguntas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfQuiero un novio? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If the answer is no, why don\u2019t I want a boyfriend? Am I scared of rejection or am I really good on my own?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sin embargo, si la respuesta es s\u00ed, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 tengo tantas ganas de tener novio?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfS\u00f3lo quiero un novio por tenerlo o estoy preparada para compartir mi vida con otra persona? \u00bfEstoy intentando dar celos a alguien de mi pasado?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfQuiero recuperar a mi ex novio o estoy lista para conocer a alguien nuevo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once you answer all of these questions, it\u2019s time to set your standards. I\u2019m not advising you to be extra picky, but it is crucial to know what you want and what you\u2019re looking for before trying to get it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si te cuesta darte cuenta de qu\u00e9 cualidades buscas en un hombre, escribe tu factores decisivos<\/a> y deseos en un trozo de papel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This doesn\u2019t guarantee you that you\u2019ll find exact perfect man, but at least you\u2019ll have some kind of framework to help you with your search.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Otra opci\u00f3n es ponerse delante del espejo y repetir lo siguiente:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quiero un novio que me quiera, me respete y me trate como me merezco. Quiero un novio que me comprenda y me acepte tal y como soy. Lo que quiero en un novio es un amante y un amigo, todo en uno.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, you can always add some other qualities that are important for you personally. Either way, what\u2019s crucial is to verbalize the characteristics you\u2019re searching for and stick with it, no matter what.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. And don’t settle for less<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quiero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Como ya se ha dicho, ser demasiado exigente con los hombres y tener un alto nivel de exigencia son dos cosas distintas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por mucho que desee mejorar su vida sentimental, encontrar a su pr\u00edncipe azul y entablar una relaci\u00f3n seria, lo \u00faltimo que deber\u00eda pensar es en conformarse con menos de lo que se merece.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lamentablemente, cuando empiezan a sentir que se les acaba el tiempo, muchas solteras tienen la costumbre de liarse con el primer chico que se les acerca, por miedo a la soledad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Please, don\u2019t make that mistake \u2013 you\u2019ll only worsen things. Just because your love life is on pause right now, it doesn\u2019t mean that you should be with someone who doesn\u2019t meet your needs or isn\u2019t compatible with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t forget that it\u2019s always better to permanecer soltero hasta que llegue el hombre adecuado<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Ser realista<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quiero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Otra cosa importante que debes recordar mientras buscas a la persona adecuada es ser realista tambi\u00e9n con tus propias cualidades y expectativas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Be aware of your own worth \u2013 don\u2019t underestimate yourself, but don\u2019t try going out of your league either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

All of us have an idea of our prince charming and you\u2019re no exception. However, that doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ll necessarily find this man in all of his perfection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lo importante es encontrar a la persona adecuada para ti: alguien cuyas imperfecciones se lleven bien con las tuyas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Aumenta tu confianza<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quiero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

I won\u2019t lie to you, physical appearance is the first thing every man notices about a girl. That said, if you don\u2019t have charisma or some kind of X factor, all of your looks are in vain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Before going out on a first date with a new guy you\u2019ve met, you have to feel confident in your skin (and your body language should show it) if you want things to work out. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This might sound clich\u00e9d, but you really have to learn how to love yourself before you try to find love elsewhere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not advising you to become cocky or egocentric, but this guy has to see that you\u2019re a woman who feels good about herself and is certain in her qualities. That you are perfectly fine on your own and not desperate to find a life partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This man has to realize that you know exactly what you want, that he can\u2019t diminish tu valor<\/a>, and that he can\u2019t ruin your confidence, even if he tries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He has to see that you\u2019re not here looking for his approval. That you like him, but will never allow him to treat you poorly, and that you will never be with someone who doesn\u2019t match your standards.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Mejore sus habilidades sociales<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quiero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Una de las formas m\u00e1s probadas de conseguir novio y aumentar tu confianza es mejorar tus habilidades sociales y ampliar tu c\u00edrculo social. De este modo, tienes la oportunidad de conocer a gente nueva, lo que podr\u00eda llevarte a conocer tambi\u00e9n a un novio adecuado.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ten cuidado de no agobiarte con la idea de encontrar al hombre adecuado, a pesar de que \u00e9ste sea tu objetivo final. En lugar de pensar s\u00f3lo en eso, rel\u00e1jate al m\u00e1ximo y d\u00e9jate llevar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Permite que entren en tu vida personas nuevas, sin expectativas ni obligaciones. Esto te ayudar\u00e1 a practicar para el mundo de las citas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll have a chance to get to know someone new, talk to strangers, and practice your communication skills, all of which will come in handy in your love life, as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t be scared of exiting your comfort zone. Go to a new gym, find a new hobby, or start taking a foreign language class.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Convi\u00e9rtete en <\/strong>novia<\/strong><\/a> material<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quiero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

This might sound harsh, but the truth is that you ought to observe the dating scene as a kind of business. After all, you\u2019re looking for something in particular, but in return, you also have to offer something valuable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Actually, it\u2019s pretty simple: if you look for a man who is cut out for a serious relationship, firstly you need to become a woman this kind of guy would want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not saying that you should compare yourself to anyone, but you have to understand that there are a lot of single women out there who are looking for the same thing you are, and that the competition is huge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por lo tanto, necesitas convertirte en material de novia. S\u00e9 todo lo que los hombres quieren<\/a> y mucho m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para lograrlo, tienes que invertir en tu mente y en tu cuerpo. Para empezar, intenta tener el mejor aspecto posible en todo momento, mejora tu imagen en las redes sociales y trabaja en tu personalidad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trabaja en las peque\u00f1as cosas: tu sentido del humor, tus habilidades comunicativas. Ampl\u00eda tus horizontes, mantente al d\u00eda sobre temas interesantes del mundo, aprende a ligar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This way you\u2019ll attract some interesting people in your life and your potential boyfriend might be one of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Ponerse en el mercado de las citas<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quiero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Un conocido meme de Quiero un novio dice as\u00ed:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yo: Quiero un novio<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also me: Doesn\u2019t go out, doesn\u2019t put myself out there\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, real life is not a fairy tale and your dream guy won\u2019t magically arrive on a white horse knocking on your door, asking you to be his. Instead, you have to actively search for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As\u00ed pues, el siguiente paso para encontrar a tu alma gemela es ponerte en el grupo de citas<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong, I don\u2019t advise you to hit the street, asking every man who passes by if he needs a girlfriend, or to Google single men in your area.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Antiguamente, la \u00fanica forma de encontrar pareja era salir o preguntar a un amigo com\u00fan si ten\u00eda a alguien que pudiera recomendarte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, if you\u2019re not into clubbing and if you want to get to know a guy better through texting before going out on a first date, there is a solution for you too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por suerte, en las citas modernas hay muchas otras opciones para encontrar una pareja adecuada, como las citas online (puedes utilizar tanto las redes sociales como numerosas aplicaciones de citas en Google). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s your job to use these tools to your advantage. One of these dating apps is Tinder, a dating site that\u2019s helped many find love.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Mostrar iniciativa<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quiero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

I bet you\u2019re used to a guy always making the first move. A guy being the one to approach you first in person or on dating sites.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, times have changed. Now, there\u2019s nothing wrong with a woman hitting on a man. This way, you\u2019ll show him that you\u2019re a modern girl who has no trouble taking life into her own hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After all, men also need to be reassured that they are doing the right thing. They need a green light that you\u2019re interested in them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not saying for you to be pushy or stalk a guy you like. However, there is nothing wrong in asking him on a second date after you two had a great time on the first one.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. But don’t rush things<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quiero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nevertheless, it\u2019s important not to appear desperate to find a boyfriend. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even when you meet someone you\u2019re interested in, let things go slowly and at their own pace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t act as if your only goal in life is to find a man and don\u2019t push him over his boundaries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, if you like a guy you\u2019ve already been on a date with, but you\u2019re too shy to ask him out again directly, you can indirectly imply that you would be thrilled for a segunda cita<\/a> to happen soon and that you can\u2019t wait to see him again.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Pedir ayuda<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quiero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re not into dating apps such as Tinder and online dating in general, but have trouble finding a boyfriend on your own, there is no shame in asking your social circle for help. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00edselo a tus mejores amigos,Quiero un novio<\/em>y escucha sus consejos a la hora de encontrar pareja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, it\u2019s not shameful to find a boyfriend through a mutual friend. Just ask your best friends to set you up with some guy he or she knows would suit you the best.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, you don\u2019t have to go out with this man on a cita a ciegas<\/a> de inmediato. Puedes flirtear con este chico a trav\u00e9s de mensajes de texto o incluso pedirle a un amigo que organice un encuentro para los tres antes de ver a este chico en privado.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Otra posibilidad es pedir ayuda a entrenadores de citas que organizan encuentros para personas que tienen problemas para encontrar a su media naranja. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Estos expertos pueden aconsejarle eficazmente y ayudarle a encontrar su pareja en funci\u00f3n de sus cualidades.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Presentar un reto<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quiero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Most men like the chase, at least in the beginning of a relationship. When they\u2019re getting to know you, they want to feel that they have competition and need to win you over from all those other guys trying to have your attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why you have to tweak your strategy and present a challenge for a guy in order for him to run after you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not saying to act like a bitch or never send him a signal that you like him back, but playing a little hard-to-get can bring you much more guys than you think.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t play with men, but don\u2019t act as if they can have you whenever they feel like it either. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Send them body language signals you\u2019re into them, but don\u2019t act as if your only purpose in life is to win their affection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Flirt with them, but don\u2019t be all desperate for their attention. Show them that you have your options open and that you\u2019ll never beg them to be yours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Tenga claro lo que quiere<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quiero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Conocer a un chico que te invite a salir es pan comido. Tener un ligue al azar es a\u00fan m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, what is more difficult in today\u2019s world is finding someone who is dispuestos a comprometerse<\/a>. Y esto es exactamente lo que quieres.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tweak your game plan. Be clear about what you\u2019re looking for right from the outset. Don\u2019t hesitate to tell your potential boyfriend that you\u2019re not interested in casi relaciones<\/a>en aventuras casuales o en acuerdos sin compromiso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This way, you\u2019ll give him the chance to back out in the beginning and you\u2019ll avoid wasting time on someone who doesn\u2019t want to get serious. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adem\u00e1s, los hombres apreciar\u00e1n tu sinceridad y el hecho de que tengas claros tus objetivos en la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. Don’t be too needy<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"\"<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

No matter how crazy he is for you, every guy needs his space \u2013 this is especially important in the beginning of a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You might be head over heels for this dude and it\u2019s understandable that you want to spend every second of your free time hanging out with him, but trust me, being too needy will only make him grow tired of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is one thing if you insist on putting a label on your relationship (which is something you should definitely do without hesitation), but it\u2019s another thing entirely if you start acting like the two of you have been together for ages after only a few dates.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Una de las peores cosas que podr\u00edas hacer en las etapas iniciales de tu relaci\u00f3n es enviar un mensaje de texto a tu novio Quiero un beb\u00e9<\/em> o Quiero casarme<\/em>son formas seguras de ahuyentarlo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00ed, hay muchas mujeres que dicen Quiero que mi novio me pida matrimonio<\/em>pero esta no es la forma de conseguir que le ponga un anillo.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. Mu\u00e9strale tu lado femenino<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quiero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ve often <\/strong>o\u00ed decir a las mujeres, Quiero que mi novio sea m\u00e1s dominante<\/em>. Quiero sentirme protegida y segura a su lado<\/em>. Well, if you\u2019re one of these women and you want a real man, it\u2019s time to show guys your gentle, delicate side.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Act\u00faa como una dama, incluso cuando flirtees con un chico. Presta atenci\u00f3n a los peque\u00f1os detalles de tu aspecto y comportamiento.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let him feel like a macho man \u2013 allow him to spoil you, but don\u2019t ask for too much. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let him protect you, but don\u2019t make him think you\u2019re an immature brat who can\u2019t handle life on her own.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

15. Espere antes de tener relaciones sexuales<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"Quiero<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s face it, sex is a crucial part of every healthy relationship. Besides being a physical pleasure, it also makes a couple more connected on all levels.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you first meet a man you\u2019re attracted to, it is natural that you two can\u2019t keep your hands off each other. He\u2019ll probably ask you to come over for some Netflix and chill as soon as you two get a little more comfortable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, it\u2019s at this moment where you need to set some boundaries. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sleeping with a guy right away can give him a wrong impression and can lead your potential relationship to a disaster before it\u2019s even started.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As\u00ed que, si quieres que un hombre te tome en serio, lo mejor que puedes hacer es esperar antes de tener relaciones sexuales<\/a>. Wait until you\u2019re ready; wait until you two make things exclusive<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This way, every man will respect you more because he\u2019ll see that you\u2019re a woman who appreciates her body and her feelings. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He\u2019ll see that he can\u2019t get just parts of you \u2013 that he has to be in for the entire package if he wants to have you.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Quiero<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

In today\u2019s world, everywhere you look, you hear girls saying: I don\u2019t want a boyfriend. You see girls enjoying their single life, without planning to change it for the sake of some man. However, you\u2019re different. You\u2019re tired of being alone and you think it\u2019s time to find someone to share your life with. As…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":42486,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29647],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-42450","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seducing-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29647,"label":"seducing men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_691194007.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29647,"name":"seducing men","slug":"seducing-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29647,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Seducing men is much more than wearing a hot outfit. It's about learning to be a woman men will stick to like glue. If you're ready to become her, dive in!","parent":29643,"count":161,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29647,"category_count":161,"category_description":"Seducing men is much more than wearing a hot outfit. It's about learning to be a woman men will stick to like glue. If you're ready to become her, dive in!","cat_name":"seducing men","category_nicename":"seducing-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42450","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=42450"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42450\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/42486"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=42450"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=42450"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=42450"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}