{"id":42589,"date":"2019-09-04T10:07:14","date_gmt":"2019-09-04T10:07:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=42589"},"modified":"2021-09-08T09:51:24","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T09:51:24","slug":"5-senales-de-que-tienes-un-amor-de-adulto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-senales-de-que-tienes-un-amor-de-adulto\/","title":{"rendered":"5 se\u00f1ales de que tienes un amor de adulto"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you were a kid, the idea of love was probably a fantasy you didn\u2019t know much about, except from what you saw from your parents and Disney movies you watched.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cuando eras adolescente, probablemente ve\u00edas el amor de otra manera y so\u00f1abas con conocer a tu pareja. persona para siempre<\/a> in school, hoping you\u2019d be able to tell your kids all about how their parents were high-school sweethearts who withstood the test of time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And now, you know that love isn\u2019t as movie-like as you imagined it to be way back when and meeting your soulmate is a little more complicated than that. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, you just hope that you meet a guy who will be exactly what he appears to be\u2014honest, kind and open to love. A guy who will treat you with respect and prioritize you at all times.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, you don\u2019t need that love from the movies. You know that\u2019s not real. You just want to know that the guy you\u2019re with isn\u2019t playing games and cares for you the way you do for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re with a guy who you feel is your forever person, the following 5 signs will probably make you that much more sure of your relationship, as they are all clear indicators that you finally have that \u2018grown-up\u2019 love we all eventually long to have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1.  <\/strong>\t<\/strong>Tus prioridades han cambiado por completo<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Cuando eras m\u00e1s joven, probablemente s\u00f3lo quer\u00edas un novio buenorro con un cuerpazo al que pudieras pasear orgullosa y disfrutar del hecho de haber sido t\u00fa la que consigui\u00f3 engancharlo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But now, all that is lower on your priority list. You understand now that life doesn\u2019t work that way and appearances are most definitely not everything. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even if you found a guy who you actually liked and who was at the same time good-looking, you know that it doesn\u2019t guarantee anything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00f3lo el tiempo dir\u00e1 si realmente es tan bueno como parece sobre el papel. Porque ahora, valoras un coraz\u00f3n amable y un hombre honesto por encima de cualquier otro aspecto superficial que sol\u00edas anhelar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2.  <\/strong>\t<\/strong>Ahora ves la diferencia <\/strong>entre la lujuria y el amor<\/strong><\/a><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Al principio de cualquier relaci\u00f3n, un poco de lujuria siempre es bienvenida. Significa que hay una qu\u00edmica sexual innegable entre vosotros dos, lo que siempre es algo estupendo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Y cuando eras m\u00e1s joven, probablemente eso era todo lo que necesitabas y quer\u00edas de un amante. Pero ahora te das cuenta de que necesitas esa conexi\u00f3n m\u00e1s profunda que va m\u00e1s all\u00e1 del deseo sexual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s important, for sure, but in order for a relationship to last, there has to be a real connection with your partner that is about love, life and your mutual plans for the future. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t sustain a healthy long-term commitment that is based solely on sex. That\u2019s not love and now you know that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3.  <\/strong>\t<\/strong>Su futuro com\u00fan se ha vuelto m\u00e1s importante que sus necesidades individuales<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Ahora ves que para prosperar y mantener este hermoso amor que tienes con tu hombre<\/a>Tanto tus necesidades como tus deseos deben tener la misma importancia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tus propias necesidades pasan a un segundo plano, porque te das cuenta de que el compromiso es lo que te impulsa a seguir adelante.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You used to think that what you wanted was of the utmost importance and if a guy couldn\u2019t handle it and please your every need, it was time to call it quits. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Y nadie te culpa, a todos se nos torcieron las prioridades a una edad m\u00e1s temprana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The important thing is that now you see that your partner\u2019s needs are just as important and finding a common ground will help you maintain this love you now share.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4.\u00a0You have started thinking more long-term<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Te gusta donde est\u00e1is ahora y las cosas van muy bien, pero para que siga siendo as\u00ed, sabes que tienes que empezar a pensar en las cosas hacia adelante si esto es algo a largo plazo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You keep finding yourself thinking about where you\u2019ll be in a few years and how things will turn out for you two. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Est\u00e1is centrados en daros siempre lo que cada uno necesita del otro y en ser una pareja verdaderamente presente y comprometida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sabes que las cosas que os mantendr\u00e1n juntos se basan en el compromiso y te empe\u00f1as en estar siempre ah\u00ed para tu pareja y escuchar sus necesidades para encontrar lo mejor para los dos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5.  <\/strong>\t<\/strong>You know it\u2019s not always going to be perfect and you\u2019re okay with that<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Now that you\u2019ve finally found el amor de tu vida<\/a>, you know that it\u2019s not always going to be sunshine and rainbows. You know that it\u2019s childish to expect things to always be perfect and nothing ever to go wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ve been together long enough and you\u2019ve been through a lot together as a couple, so you know that life will sometimes throw you a curveball. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pero a diferencia de todos esos otros chicos con los que saliste, sabes que vale la pena luchar por \u00e9ste.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esperar que las cosas sean siempre perfectas es exagerado, y uno sabe que lo \u00fanico que puede hacer es apoyarse mutuamente y tratar de entender siempre el punto de vista de su pareja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ve been through too much to give up at the first sight of trouble. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And now that you know you have that \u2018grown-up\u2019 type of love that everybody is dreaming of, be sure to nurture it and cherish it. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ese amor es lo que te mantendr\u00e1 cuerdo en este mundo impredecible.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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