{"id":4285,"date":"2020-08-11T12:29:22","date_gmt":"2020-08-11T12:29:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4285"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:56:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:56:35","slug":"amor-como-pedo-perdido-fuerza-probablemente-mierda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/amor-como-pedo-perdido-fuerza-probablemente-mierda\/","title":{"rendered":"El amor es como un pedo perdido. Si tienes que forzarlo, probablemente sea una mierda."},"content":{"rendered":"

Hace unos d\u00edas le\u00ed esta cita indudablemente realista de Stephen K. Amos,<\/p>\n

\u201cLove is like a lost fart. If you have to force it, it’s probably shit.\u201d <\/i> y s\u00f3lo resuena en mi cabeza.<\/p>\n

Es tan sencillo y tan cierto.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, la mayor\u00eda de nosotros tendemos a forzar nuestras relaciones.<\/p>\n

Nos metemos en este l\u00edo cuando nuestra cabeza nos lleva en una direcci\u00f3n y nuestro coraz\u00f3n en otra. Nuestros pensamientos no est\u00e1n en equilibrio con nuestros sentimientos.<\/p>\n

Cuando das mayor \u00e9nfasis a uno de ellos, est\u00e1s forzando la relaci\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Si los cimientos de tu relaci\u00f3n se basan sobre todo en tu cabeza<\/b> ...dejas de lado tus sentimientos. Est\u00e1s alimentando una relaci\u00f3n as\u00ed por muchas razones.<\/p>\n

One of the most usual ones may be that he is a great guy; he treats you right. You can’t imagine someone else going way over the top to please you and make you happy like he does. You are number one on his list of priorities. He is doing everything by the book.<\/p>\n

Si alguna vez has fantaseado con c\u00f3mo ser\u00eda tu relaci\u00f3n perfecta, ser\u00eda as\u00ed. \u00c9l te quiere y te adora. Pero por alguna raz\u00f3n, no eres capaz de corresponder a esos sentimientos. <\/i><\/p>\n

You can rationalize as much as you want but when that special feeling isn’t there, you can’t create it. Love and chemistry are feelings you kind of fall into. They can’t be forced.<\/p>\n

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Si los cimientos de tu relaci\u00f3n se basan sobre todo en tu coraz\u00f3n<\/b> ...podr\u00edas estar en una gran negaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

When this happens, we tend to rationalize every wrong thing in our relationship with the words, I WILL LET THIS SLIDE BECAUSE I LOVE HIM!\u2019<\/p>\n

We are hoping that a bad relationship will turn good at some point. But the truth is it probably won’t. If your novio te trata mal, te descuida, te manipula<\/a> and so on, the odds are that won’t change because you love him.<\/p>\n

This is a deeper issue where you have to have a deep conversation with yourself and realize that chemistry and love aren’t enough if you are feeling miserable in other aspects of your relationship.<\/p>\n

There is also a trap of long term relationships related to the heart issue. Your relationship isn’t really bad but not really good either. You are content to be somewhere in the middle. You get lazy and don’t want to fix things or you don’t want to change. After all, you invested so much time and energy<\/p>\n

Along with this, the problem might be that you are scared to be alone or just too scared to start over. It isn’t easy but your fears aren’t the ones that should keep you in a relationship. That’s forcing it.<\/p>\n

Don’t be lazy. Don’t settle. Don’t force things. <\/b><\/p>\n

Al final te sentir\u00e1s completamente miserable.<\/p>\n

Encuentra el equilibrio entre el coraz\u00f3n y la cabeza. <\/i> Siempre prevalecer\u00e1 un bando, pero se supone que nada es perfecto.<\/p>\n

And when you don’t know what to do, it is always advisable to follow your heart. But keep in mind: your heart can play tricks on you.  <\/p>\n

Por eso, ten siempre presentes las palabras de Alfred Adler:<\/p>\n

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“Follow your heart but take your brain with you.”<\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:<\/strong> Cosas que debes cambiar si quieres encontrar el amor verdadero (seg\u00fan tu signo del zodiaco)<\/a><\/p>\n

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A few days ago I read this undoubtedly realistic quote by Stephen K. Amos, \u201cLove is like a lost fart. If you have to force it, it’s probably shit.\u201d and it is just echoing in my head. It is so simple and so true. However, most of us tend to force our relationships. We get…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":104996,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4285","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/Love-Is-Like-A-Lost-Fart.-If-You-Have-To-Force-It-Its-Probably-Shit.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4285","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4285"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4285\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/104996"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4285"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4285"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4285"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}