{"id":43439,"date":"2019-09-25T19:39:48","date_gmt":"2019-09-25T19:39:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=43439"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:21:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:21:41","slug":"basta-de-juegos-mentales-seamos-realistas-por-una-vez","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/basta-de-juegos-mentales-seamos-realistas-por-una-vez\/","title":{"rendered":"Basta de juegos mentales: seamos realistas por una vez"},"content":{"rendered":"

No quiero adivinar lo que pasa en ese coraz\u00f3n tuyo.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to estudie su comportamiento <\/a>hacia m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to look for hints and hidden meanings inside your texts.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to assume you have feelings for me \u2014 I want to know.<\/p>\n

I want to know whether we are on the same page or not, that\u2019s all. <\/p>\n

Conf\u00eda en m\u00ed, cualquier cosa que digas que sientes estar\u00e1 bien para m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Even if you give me an answer I wasn\u2019t hoping for, even if it\u2019s bad news and you are not into me as much as I am into you, I will make my peace with it. I promise I will. <\/p>\n

Porque incluso la verdad m\u00e1s dolorosa es menos dolorosa que los juegos mentales. <\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to pretend like you care if you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want hot and cold games.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to share my soul with you one day and pretend like we don\u2019t know each other the next. <\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want your lips imprinted on mine if you have no plans to stay.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be your emergency call when you are in need of some tender love and care.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be there only when it\u2019s convenient, and you have nothing better to do. <\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to get my hopes up just so you could crush them.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to chase you if you are not chasing me back. <\/p>\n

Al diablo con los juegos mentales.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve had enough of sleepless nights because of uncertainties I was living in.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve spilled enough tears because of men who weren’t genuine and honest. <\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to be one of them. I don\u2019t want you to be my \u2018almost love\u2019.<\/p>\n

No digo que tengamos que averiguar de inmediato si somos el uno para el otro.<\/b><\/p>\n

Simplemente quiero saber si est\u00e1 dispuesto a intentarlo. <\/b><\/p>\n

Quiero una relaci\u00f3n que fluya lentamente.<\/p>\n

Una de verdad, consistente en que dos personas inviertan por igual y hagan los mismos esfuerzos.<\/p>\n

Two people engaged in each other’s lives.<\/p>\n

Dos personas que se env\u00edan mensajes de texto todos los d\u00edas, que quieren pasar tiempo juntas a menudo. <\/p>\n

Las etiquetas son importantes.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t even try to sell me some shitty story about how we know what we have, and it\u2019s nobody else’s business.<\/p>\n

El hecho de que nos preocupemos el uno por el otro y de que tengamos una relaci\u00f3n es algo que todo el mundo a nuestro alrededor deber\u00eda saber. <\/p>\n

I don\u2019t do games. I am a terrible player. I am too sincere for that. <\/b><\/p>\n

No se me dan bien las t\u00e1cticas. Odio llevar la cuenta de qui\u00e9n llam\u00f3 primero a qui\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

Odio hacerme el fr\u00edo cuando obviamente me gustas.<\/p>\n

Parece una p\u00e9rdida de tiempo y energ\u00eda. <\/p>\n

I never play mind games because I\u2019ve been on the other side.<\/p>\n

Han jugado conmigo y s\u00e9 cu\u00e1nto duele.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve invested so much into someone who never really made me a part of his life. <\/p>\n

I was always kept at arm\u2019s length.<\/p>\n

Yo recib\u00eda pedacitos mientras entregaba toda mi alma a esa casi relaci\u00f3n. <\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

I was living in hope that something will change, that he\u2019ll see my worth, that he\u2019ll feel my love because he was giving me just enough of his attention and affection to make me hold on but never enough to call me his. <\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to go through that again.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to do that to anyone else either.<\/p>\n

It seems so cruel to play games with someone\u2019s heart. <\/p>\n

My heart is not a toy. My feelings aren\u2019t something to be messed with. <\/b><\/p>\n

Nunca m\u00e1s permitir\u00e9 que nadie ensartarme<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If I learn right from the start that there isn\u2019t even a prospect of a relationship there, I am out. <\/p>\n

Tengo que proteger mi coraz\u00f3n para que no se rompa.<\/p>\n

Tengo que proteger mi alma para que no sufra en vano.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I refuse to deal with anything half-assed in this life, especially love. <\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, por favor, s\u00e9 realista conmigo. <\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 el soplo de aire fresco en este desierto lleno de hombres falsos.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 sincero conmigo desde el principio.<\/p>\n

Dime lo que piensas de m\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t trick me into thinking you care if you don\u2019t. <\/p>\n

Don\u2019t allow me to wait for your text for days.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t treat me as a stop along the way and drop by only when it\u2019s convenient.<\/p>\n

Haz un esfuerzo. Ac\u00e9rcate. S\u00e9 sincero en tus intenciones hacia m\u00ed. <\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

That\u2019s all I am asking. Either you are in this with me or you are out.<\/p>\n

No hay puntos intermedios.<\/p>\n

La vida es demasiado corta para eso, y por mucho que me gustes, el respeto que me tengo a m\u00ed mismo es mayor. <\/p>\n

Ponlo todo sobre la mesa. Lo bueno, lo malo y lo feo.<\/p>\n

Para saber a qu\u00e9 atenerme. As\u00ed que s\u00e9 si podemos tener algo de verdad.<\/p>\n

\"Basta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I don\u2019t want to guess what\u2019s happening in that heart of yours. I don\u2019t want to study your behavior towards me. I don\u2019t want to look for hints and hidden meanings inside your texts. I don\u2019t want to assume you have feelings for me \u2014 I want to know. I want to know whether we…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":43506,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43439","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/shutterstock_10218440471-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43439","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43439"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43439\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/43506"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43439"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43439"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43439"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}